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Paulina   
27 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

@Lenka, exactly. I myself criticised my parents' generation (my own parents included) on this forum and I wondered aloud if their mentality can be attributed to the fact that they were raised in communist times. To which pawian and I think Alien responded that yes, it can be.

...Polish people who grew up and lived there, who therefore have every reason to want to deny such every existed.

But... those drunk Polish women you talked to also grew up and lived in Poland during communist times... Do you think that people who grew up and lived during communist times, but stayed in Poland never get drunk? lol

They denied that Nazi persecution of Jews was even at issue, denying the truth until the very end

But Poles don't deny the realities of communist times in Poland. On the contrary. You seem to be forgetting that the communist system was imposed on Poland, it wasn't "ours", unlike in the case of Nazi Germany. That's one of the reasons why Poles have no problem with criticising that system and the realities of those times and with pointing out and criticising any remnants of that system in Poles' mentality. Also, lots of Poles love to complain about Poland, Poles and life in general - apparently that's our "national sport" :) So you really missed the mark here :))

Now let's accept that it once did and leave it at that.

Oh no, no, no, no, Lyzko... You won't get it out of this so easily! :))) You still haven't answered my questions:

https://polishforums.com/life/women-promiscuous-towards-foreigners-refugees-81405/6/#msg1919195

Please answer them or I'll be free to state that you're talking out of your ass :]
Paulina   
27 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Where does a person such as I glean their information? From thin air?!

That's a good question and I keep trying to "elicit" answers from you concerning that. I asked you to answer 4 simple questions twice and you ingored them every time. As we say in Poland: "Do trzech razy sztuka" lol, so I'm going to try again - could you kindly answer the following questions?:

1. How many "anti-Communist defectors (man or woman)" from Poland have you met in your life?

2. Did those defectors (and how many of them) claim that Polish women had to prostitute themselves in order to survive during communist times in Poland?

3. How common was it for Polish women to prostitute themselves to officials in order to survive during communist times according to those "defectors"? How many Polish women did that? 90%? 70%? 50%? 20%? 10%? 5%? 1%?

4. Did they give you any examples? Some real life stories? What were those?


I put those questions in bold so, hopefully, you'll notice them better this time and answer at last :)

I never thought it would degenerate so much.

Really, Alien? Were you born yesterday?

I'm sorry that it resurrected because of me.

Don't be sorry. I personally prefer to know who I'm dealing with, what people are really like and all what Lyzko is doing is showing his true colours. It's also good to see who decided to speak up against Lyzko's claims on this thread and which PF users didn't.
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

and require no assistance

I'm not taking part in this discussion to assist you - I simply write what I think and know.

this sentiment is most often espoused by those sorry little gnomes which could not ever be with a Russian or Polish woman unless they paid them for the pleasure.

Yup, my thoughts exactly.
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Cuz I have dealt with them.

How many of them? Do you realise how many RuSSian women there are in RuSSia alone? lol

Been there 3 times and 4th time drove there from Warszawa to Moscow

Brilliant, Lyzko visited Poland for a week or two as well some years ago and he knows all about Polish women and Polish society and Polish history too, as you can see ;D

You are guessing totally wrong then.

Could you elaborate?
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Most money hungry ones are.

How do you know? Have you ever lived in RuSSia?

1999 to 2002

No wonder then - the 90's were really bad in RuSSia and I'm guessing in other post-Soviet countries too. Worse than in Poland.

So most coming outta rooski land are,ask the people is South east Asia and middle east also.

Most women coming from RuSSia are what exactly according to you? Strippers? Prostitutes?

And I don't have to ask people in South East Asia and Middle East. I'm guessing that they have the same stereotypes about RuSSian women as people in the West have about Polish women. And I know where those stereotypes came from and that they don't pertain to the majority of women in any country.
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

I'm no more incapable of admitting that I'm wrong than you are of admitting that you too can be mistaken, Paulina!

It doesn't seem like it, to be honest. You seem to be very stubborn and arrogant. Maybe also prejudiced.

if you don't agree with something the other person is arguing, then THEY and they alone must be wrong.

Lyzko, please notice that I am not the only person that disagrees with you in this thread :)

The following people disagreed with you, beside me: Lenka, mafketis, Alien, Bobko, Novichok, Ironside, johnny_reb.

Me and Lenka are both Polish women, born and raised in Poland, surrounded by people who experienced communist times in Poland first-hand. I'm going to repeat it again: first-hand experience. We know more Poles who were born and raised in communist Poland than you will ever meet in your lifetime. Novichok and Ironside are both "defectors" that left Poland during communist times. Mafketis has been living in Poland for years. Alien is Polish and Bobko is RuSSian, while you are a Jewish guy born and raised in the US, who clearly has no clue about the reality of the communist Poland and yet you behave like you know better than us.

Is that the case? Do you actually think that you know more about life in communist Poland than Poles living in Poland??

For every nay-sayer, there are those who will agree:-)

Where are they, Lyzko? Why noone agreed with your claims in this thread?

And why didn't you answer my 4 simple questions that I posted here?:

https://polishforums.com/life/women-promiscuous-towards-foreigners-refugees-81405/4/#msg1918515
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Travel / Poland in photo riddles - part 2 [1680]

why are they doing it???
Hint - for a very practical reason.

If this is that spring in Kołobrzeg then this water is brine, so maybe they're going to use it to make pickled foods?
Paulina   
25 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

@Lenka, like Paulina, you refuse to admit the possibility of what I'm saying as the truth

You keep repeating this, but didn't you notice that you yourself refuse to admit even the possibility that what we're saying is the truth and that you may be actually wrong in drawing such far-reaching conclusions from anecdotal evidence and taking at face value what a bunch of drunk women told you?

Lyzko, why are you so convinced that it is you who is right? Where is this unwavering certainty coming from?

The moment when you wrote that people had to bribe officials and women had to prostitute themselves in order to "survive" during communist times in Poland, I knew you have no knowledge about the reality and what life looked like during communist times in Poland. It's not just about Polish women or exchanging sex for something, but it looks like you have some serious misconceptions about life in communist countries in general. Life in PRL wasn't that bad. It was sh1tty if you compare it to life in the West, obviously, but it really wasn't that bad. It's not my subjective opinion, it's a historical fact. You'd know that if you bothered to do some research and talk to Poles who were living during those times. It looks like you didn't, because if you did, you simply wouldn't make such claims.

Also, it's not only me and Lenka that disagree with you. Men don't agree with you either.

Anecdotal claims, should not require "sources".

First of all, I don't know what "anecdotal claims" are. I only know what "anecdotal evidence" is. That's all Lyzko has - anecdotal evidence. And he's drawing conclusions about Polish women and the reality of communist times in Poland just based on this anecdotal evidence. In a pretty arrogant way at that. I wouldn't mind if all he did was sharing that anecdotal evidence ("Those drunk women told me this and that. What do you think about this? Is it true?"). But he's drawing some wild conclusions based on that anecdotal evidence and he's making claims based on that anecdotal evidence. And since I know that what he claims is not true, I'm challenging him to back up his claims with something more than that anecdotal evidence.

I don't think Paulina is saying that you are lying, but merely that you are forming general opinions based on an infinitesimally small sample set of talking to "Polish dissidents".

Yes, of course. I'd go further with that though, because I don't even believe that anecdotal evidence from Lyzko. Why? Because I "know" Lyzko long enough and I know how he's capable of drawing some wild, crazy, messed up conclusions from the conservations and people's behaviour in real life. So I simply don't trust his "reporting". Because those women could say one thing and it could grow into something else in his head.

This is why I asked him those "simple questions".

Earlier you might think that Lyzko had some serious, deep conversations with numerous, various "anti-Communist defectors" about life in communist Poland. Now it turns out that he "elicited" some answers from a bunch of drunk women and took them at face value lol Who knows what more we will find out if I keep digging? :)
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

Do you agree, Paulina, that Bucha was a genocide but Volhyn merely an ethnic cleansing?

As far as I understand the definitions it would depend on the intent of the perpetrators/decision makers. Volhynia massacres are a historical event already, so we have an idea what the intent was behind those massacres. In case of RuSSian soldiers/RuSSian government - we don't know what the intent was/is. In theory, judging by the genocidal remarks coming from guests/experts on RuSSian state TV and some others one could suspect that "coś jest na rzeczy". But that's not enough for me, of course. That's why in my opinion calling what happened in Bucha a "genocide" is premature. I'd say that calling it an "ethnic cleansing" would probably be premature too. For now, I think, all it can be called is "merely" a war crime and a crime against humanity.

Judging by the definitions I don't think the Katyń massacre can be considered a "genocide" either, btw. It's a war crime on a mass scale, but not a genocide.

On the other hand, I'm not an expert on this stuff or a historian and I realise that the lines between genocide and ethnic cleansing or war crimes can get blurred, so I can be wrong...

idunno
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

@pawian, well, I've read only that one interview with him - besides that I've never heard of him before, to be honest...

Strange, I don`t.

Why is it "strange"? :)
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

I read the article, the guy is a complete cretin.

I remember this guy, I've read an interview with him:

krytykapolityczna.pl/kraj/sierakowski-nie-jestesmy-lepsi-od-ukraincow/

I may not agree with everything he says, but I wouldn't call him a "cretin" though - he makes more sense in Polish, imho.

This was of course on another level, as you pointed out:

Nijakowski writes (...)

This kind of acrobatics I don't think I've witnessed before.

You've taken this out of context. He was explaining the difference between genocide and ethnic cleansing:

linkedin.com/pulse/difference-between-genocide-ethnic-cleansing-kagusthan-ariaratnam

"In other words, ethnic cleansing chooses to terrify a particular ethnic group, forcing them to leave a particular area in order to create a more homogenous population"

While genocide focuses on complete or partial extermination of a group of people. That's why the Holocaust is considered to be a genocide, while what Serbs did in Yugoslavia, for example, is considered to be an ethnic cleansing, as far as I understand.

He is trying to make into politicks in Poland for over 20 years

That's the first I hear of it. Where did you get that?
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

the stupid name of "Ukrainians"

There's nothing "stupid" about this name.

, by saying Poland must apologize to Ukrainians, for taking Ruthenian lands

Well, that's what they were called back then:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruthenia

I wanted to show that there is zero relation between "Ruthenia" and "Ukraine"

Then there is zero relation between "Ruthenia" and "RuSSia" and "Belarus" too :)

And now on a serious note - the relation between Ruthenia and Ukraine isn't anyone's wishful thinking, but a historical fact. A quote from Wikipedia:

"Ruthenia is an exonym, originally used in Medieval Latin, as one of several terms for Kievan Rus. It is also used to refer to the East Slavic and Eastern Orthodox regions of the Grand Duchy of Lithuania and the Kingdom of Poland, and later the Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth, corresponding to what is now Belarus and Ukraine. Historically, the term was used to refer to all the territories of the East Slavs, including Russia."
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

Neither does this make sense to Rusyns, and why they are reluctant to change their name to "Borderlanders".

Sorry, but what doesn't make sense to Rusyns exactly, according to you? That the country they're living in has a historical name? Rusyns live not only in Ukraine, but also in other countries and those countries have their names too lol They're an ethic minority in those countries. Whether they identify themselves as Rusyns/Lemkos/etc. or Ukrainians, Poles, etc. or both - that's up to every individual, I suppose.
Paulina   
24 Jul 2023
History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [487]

Don't you think it is strange that to the west of Ukraine there are a people called essentially "Russians"

What are you talking about? Rusyns (in Polish "Rusini") aren't the same as RuSSians (in Polish "Rosjanie") and they're not called "RuSSians" either:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rusyns

while their own country is named "Borderland"?

What?

and why they are reluctant to change their name to "Borderlanders".

Are you talking about Kresowiacy? o_O:

pl.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kresowiacy
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

conversations with any intelligent anti-Communist defector (man or woman) who managed to escape from that morass.

Prove it then.
If it was really SO COMMON for Polish women to prostitute themselves to "officials" or whatever in order to "survive" during communist times, as you claim, and that "any intelligent anti-Communist defector" could confirm that, then such phenomenon would surely be talked about in articles, books and documentaries about this period.

I can easily find you a Polish article about prostitution in Poland during communist times, so why do you have such a problem with posting sources to back up your claims?

You're hitting the proverbial brick wall since you will not accept unpleasant reality, Paulina!

What "reality"?? Your claims about the communist times in Poland have nothing to do with reality! Were there prostitutes in Poland during communist times? Of course there were! Was it common for Polish women to prostitute themselves during communist times? Of course not! lol 🤦

Lyzko, I see we're going in circles here, so I'm going to ask you some simple questions:

1. How many "anti-Communist defectors (man or woman)" from Poland have you met in your life?

2. Did those defectors (and how many of them) claim that Polish women had to prostitute themselves in order to survive during communist times in Poland?

3. How common was it for Polish women to prostitute themselves during communist times according to those "defectors"? How many Polish women did that? 90%? 70%? 50%? 20%? 10%? 5%?

4. Did they give you any examples? Some real life stories? What were those?

"Sources"???! Are you mad?

No, I'm not "mad" lol Are serious?? Asking for sources is more than reasonable, nothing "mad" about it :) I don't believe every bullsh1t comment some random person writes on the internet, especially considering that, unlike you, I grew up in Poland and so chances are pretty high that I know better than you.
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

refusal to acknowledge the unpleasant reality of the Communist past (...) truth as I see it.

Your fantasies are not "reality" nor the "truth" though lol

You simply refuse to concede that just possibly, I might be right.

I repeatedly asked you for your sources and where did you get your ideas from. Sorry, but your claims that some "Slavs" told you this or that doesn't cut it for me, especially in case of history of PRL and other communist countries, which is recorded well enough.

and I can certainly read as well as you can!

Then post some freaking sources already to back up your claims, instead of blabbing the same thing over and over again like a broken record, for God's sake! lol 🤦
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
News / Despicable Ukrainian lies [144]

Ask each one where they are safe to give you their honest opinion before you can make this claim.

Why don't you ever do that?

My prediction

I really doubt that many people on this forum care about your predictions, so you can shove them you know where :)

I have noticed it. Can't unseen it, sorry.

You clearly look in the mirror too often then :)))
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
News / Despicable Ukrainian lies [144]

Everything.

And why is that?
Because I meant that I side with Ukrainians in Ukraine-RuSSia conflict, you idiot. That doesn't mean I have to agree with them about everything and that I won't criticise them for anything. Do you understand now?

You are an idiot aren't you?

No, I am not. And do you think majority of Poles are idiots?
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
News / Despicable Ukrainian lies [144]

Because you side with ukies. Simple!

And what's wrong with that? Majority of Poland is siding with them, in case you haven't noticed lol And who do you side with? With RuSSians? lol

First and foremost I side with the truth though and that's what I posted in this thread - facts. So what is your problem with that?

I going to check it out.

How?
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
News / Despicable Ukrainian lies [144]

Fake news?

Why would that be fake news? lol

Unless, of course, you think that Polish prime minister, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Poland and Polish media are all spreading fake news about this for some strange reason lol 🤦

Experts are already looking for remains of Poles in the area mentioned in the article, according to Morawiecki, btw:

salon24.pl/newsroom/1312962,ekshumacje-ofiar-rzezi-wolynskiej-premier-morawiecki-zlozyl-wazna-deklaracje

What is wrong with you?

Are you talking to yourself? lol

Move to Ukraine if you are so inclined.

Why would I do that? lol What is wrong with you? Why are you not telling GefreiterKania to move to RuSSia, if he likes it so much, for example? Why are you picking on me, of all people? o_O
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

However ugly the facts, they must be faced straight on

What "facts"? You haven't provided any evidence and even links to back up your claims. Especially considering the reality in communist Poland - you clearly have no clue about it, while I grew up among people who were born and raised in PRL and there are articles, books and films about those times.
Paulina   
23 Jul 2023
News / Despicable Ukrainian lies [144]

not allowing the exhumation and proper burial of OUN-UPA victims for over 30 years now

What about this?:

tvp.info/64469391/beda-ekshumacje-mogil-polakow-zamordowanych-przez-upa-ukraina-wydala-zgode

We bought the "our Ukrainian grain will be sent to poor hungry Africa" lie last year, and it ended up flooding the Polish market.

You need two to tango though - if Ukrainians were selling in Poland, it means that Polish businesses were buying it.

And let us not forget about the Polish government's failure to control this, until it was too late.

Another thing - apparently RuSSia stroke a deal with African countries in June and it's going to sell it's grain and food surplus to Africa:

wiadomosci.wp.pl/awantura-o-ukrainskie-zboze-i-apel-o-studzenie-emocji-nie-tedy-droga-6921993396780000a

That's one of the reasons why RuSSia withdrew from the Black Sea Grain Initiative and is attacking Ukrainian ports, etc.

Another reason is falling food prices and it looks like RuSSia may want to sell it's grain surplus to China too (that's where the most of Ukrainian grain was being sold):

money.pl/gospodarka/rosja-jedna-decyzja-uderzyla-w-bezpieczenstwo-chin-pekin-jednak-uparcie-milczy-6922033184520800a.html

So, all things considered, I'm not surprised that Ukraine is desperate to sell it's grain and produce anywhere it can.

On the other hand, Ukrainian prime minister shouldn't be lying and it would be better to tone down the rhetoric towards such a faithful ally of Ukraine like Poland, imho...
Paulina   
15 Jul 2023
Travel / What do people think about German people in Poland? [25]

and the racism is still alive

What do you mean?

This towel conflict is mainly between German and English tourists and is as old as time.

This is so true lol I remember some Englishmen complaining to me about this ;D

towelwar

German in tourists in Poland tho? Not much experience, so happy to read others posts

When I was a little kid and we were on holiday at the Baltic seaside in Poland a German kid stole my shovel for playing in the sand at the beach and my mother had to take it up with the kid's parents so I could get it back ;D I've also seen groups of elderly German tourists on Ostrów Tumski in Wrocław and that's about it, I think :P 🤔
Paulina   
15 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Then you should feel sorry for all the women in Russia

Is that you Kashub1410?

Sorry, but I don't understand your point. I was talking about starving women prostituting themselves for food in destroyed Warsaw after World War II. You can't compare this to the situation in today's RuSSia, which is, according to Putinists, the land of milk and honey lol 🙄

a lot of women are forced to become harlots or worse caused by men abusing their positions in desired areas (schools, ballet positions etc)

Well, first of all - how do you know that "a lot"?
And secondly - they're not exactly "forced", are they? - you don't have to become a prima ballerina in order to not starve to death. It is sad and unfortunate though if the society creates such bad conditions for development of young women, obviously.

I'd agree that women in the RuSSian army are actually forced though - that is some scary sh1t.
Paulina   
15 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

The operative word in my post is "was" the norm

But it wasn't the norm in the past either! LOL
Where did you get such a bizzare idea??

in order to survive daily life during the Communist Era, it most certainly included being able to bribe the local officials....

No, Lyzko, you didn't need to bribe local officials in order to "survive" in PRL lol

There was only one time when my mother had no other choice but to bribe a doctor when on holiday at the seaside during commie times - my brother got sick stomach and high fever and he needed something for the fever since he was a little kid still, and the scene looked like this:

Doctor: Hmm, what should I prescribe... What should we get for him... Hmm... Hmm...

It lasted a while, so my mother gave him money and "suddenly" he knew what to prescribe. My mother was really angry after that.

Such things weren't happening with our local doctors though, so that was an exception.

Regular people didn't have to bribe anyone in order to "survive". In theory they could bribe others to get something faster, to make their life easier, better, but that was usually it. You could bribe shop assistants so they would keep some hard to get produce for you, like meat, for example, but my parents never did that. My mother would simply stand in line, just like other people. You had to stand in line for food, furniture, etc. There were even so called "line committees" organised by ordinary people. Many people, just like my family, had also family in the countryside that would give them food from their farms - meat, veggies, etc.

You also had to wait for a flat, for getting a phone/phone number, etc.

That's how majority of people were "surviving" - standing in lines, waiting for stuff and getting food from family in the countryside. Women selling their bodies for whatever reason definitely wasn't the norm - people were getting by without that.

So, you defenitely didn't have to sell your body in order to "survive" during communist times. The only time when it was somewhat more common was right after the war when Warsaw, for example, was in ruins. Women weren't "bribing officials" though - they were simply prostituting themselves for food, because they were starving. Such women were called "gruzinki", from the word "gruz" (rubble), because they were selling their bodies in the rubbles of destroyed Warsaw.

And, in my opinion, you will have the right to look down on those women only when your New York will be turned into rubble and you will have no food to eat :(