Life / Poland's birthrate on the decline [480]


I don't see the connection to the subject of our exchange in your somewhat convoluted story.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Now you have an inkling what ios like for a man to deal with a wife, it is a hard job and it shouldn't have been. lol!

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I told you and others on PF many times that I don't make stuff up and I don't lie when it comes to data. Those studies are out there and if you are interested you can find them. I'm not here to provide you with sources or quotes or whatnot. Dealing with Harry cured me of such a notion for good.

If you want you can educate yourself after all you can read. Simple.

Life / Poland's birthrate on the decline [480]


geez, you are picky like hell, should have could have that is immaterial, either something has some positive effect or not or is downright harmful, we are living in a reality we can't easily escape hopping for some perfect solution is just a pure whining.

Life / Poland's birthrate on the decline [480]


it pulled many children above the poverty line. So, it was a good policy to some extent.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


lol! I see that working out for him just splendidly! You have that theoretical knowledge about long-term relationships don't you? lol!
Girl, 9 out of 10 women would read it as - I don't love you anymore! Alternatively, the response would have been - I'm not entirely happy with you too - here is a list of 100 BS issues.

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Now we are talking. You are ignorant of science. I get it.
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I still can't find them, could you do me a solid and point them out for me one by one?

Life / Poland's birthrate on the decline [480]


you, talk about it all the time, are you out of touch? It had been said and done and dusted a long time ago. You would have known if you had any interest in that.

Why even respond to the Western man's post which is most likely some easter troll?

Life / Poland's birthrate on the decline [480]


it was better than nothing and helped many to some extent you wouldn't know because you are living outside the country. Most likely raking in all the benefits you can put your hand on.

To begrudge some money for families in Poland at the same time, you are a stinking hypocrite, aren't you?

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


point them out, there is no any.


so what? That is what men oft say as opposed to women who always blame men.


Oh really, is that your experience talking? lol! I'm talking about scientific data here ..not hearsay or female wonderland.


anybody is attracted to young women, so what? That is an evolutionary biological factor. Don't bring up it in an accusatory fashion...

By the way - why would men have to work on their marriage? If something is amiss is it not that women's fault as they are lacking as wives?

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]

You sound very rattled. If you wanted to rand with the full force of your feminist BS you should have done it all along not pretending that you like to discuss issues. You just want to have your say, I hear you, and kick it to the curb with ease as emotional feminist BS and women's yapp that does not have much meaning or rhythm.

History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [337]


How come you haven't learned anything?

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Well, she could have a more relaxed attitude to the issue. We can assume that she is doing something wrong if he is looking at younger women with such longing.

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No, I'm not! You never listen properly and jump to easy conclusions. How about you deflate your ego a tad and learn something? Deal?

First of all, we see that situation from our perspective. We are living like fishes in Christian waters, one fish or another may have their ideas some flatly deny they have anything to do with Chirtanita but so far our country and our part of the world is steeped deeply in a lack of a better term a Christian civilization.

Such civilization has a moral code and views on what constitutes marriage and a family and the relationship between those individuals involved in that.
So from a point of view of moral or ethical (principles not motivated directly by religious beliefs) standards, he shouldn't cheat - he is the bad end of the story, by the same token that would be equally bad if he was she i.e. the same standard apply for a woman.

We could just leave it at that and forget about OPpost which is more likely a hoax.
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However, if we detach our moral or ethical principles from the situation there is quite another story.
First of all psycho-physical disposition of both genders. It is known to science that men can have multiple partners and it doesn't affect them at all. what's more in Asian countries wife has a social place and most of the resources at her disposal but does not care that much if her husband has some random sexual encounters outside the marital bond.

On the other hand, women can't help it but after say few partners they are broken and are unable to form a long-term bond with one man.

Therefore women cheating and men cheating are not the same - simple.
Hence I'm not a hypocrite and feminist by attacking Christian religion and its moral code is akin to shooting themselves in the foot. In short, they are stupid!

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It figures, you still do not know!

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Not I'm not!
I'm saying that having science behind me you are just saying your part having ideology on your side and silly notion that equality means the same.

You couldn't be more wrong. Simple!

fix your drinking habit!

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Well, I have never cheated on you while we were dating.


Not really, it is rather my temper.


it is not the same, a dude can cheat and recover without losing anything - most of the time, for a woman it is a different story. Given their predispositions, I wouldn't recommend cheating for women for their well-being.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Perhaps, perhaps he will cheat on her, or maybe he won't. Perhaps there are more issues there and maybe there are no issues at all.

It is a theoretical exercise on our part here and there is no reason to get emotionally involved as you do.
Have you been cheated on a lot?
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Oh, come on you can come clean about it on PF with anonymity ensured to some degree. Don't play coy.
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Just for you, I will answer that question but don't you dare to turn on me and play a victim again. I'm going to scream if you do.

I think it is not my business and I don't like to tell people what to do. However, if kids are involved that is a different matter, kids should not suffer from adults' actions and kids need a father and a mother in their life to develop properly.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


See, you are not even my wife but my ex and you still think it is all right to pick on me for no reason at all.

You accosted me first here, that's the fact.
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Ask any married dude and he will tell you the same. Telling your wife anything is like giving up your Miranda warning.
If you tell your wife anything it is going to be used against you time and time again until the end of time, you can bet your life on it!

So, stop your nonsense as you don't know what you are talking about.

History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [337]


Geez you are a bum, you won't let people apologize properly. Do you have some mental issues with compulsion or whatnot? A mild Down syndrome maybe? You need to look for a cure man!

News / Future of Polish-Ukrainian relations [632]


I pity you sometimes pawian your world is a very alien place for me, a very dark place where your day revolves around whose ass you are going to lick, and seems to me even in that you have a very limited choice. If I didn't know better I would be inclined to think you run a brothel.

History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [337]


Yes, we should have shaved any damn upstart raising his head with the shoulder level, but nah that would be messy and not humanistic enough and God forgives not fair for those misguided,

I already apologised for that pawian.

History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]


I think I have killed Pawian thread - we should apologize to Ukrainians. lol!

posted in random I-S

History / Poles should apologise to Ukrainians first [337]

Sure, I'm sorry we didn't subjugate and colonize properly thus depriving you of the fruits of civilization but letting you roam free due to a naive notion that human beings can't be deprived of the choice and should be granted a lot of freedom. You proved us wrong by F up yourselves and us with a misused understanding of what freedom is and here we are once again yet you learned nothing.

I do apologize for that.

News / Future of Polish-Ukrainian relations [632]

The way it goes now due to the Ukrainian factor it will need a sharp realignment very soon by applying a boot to their ass, or as they seem to like in their ass.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Interesting proposition.
Assuming it is a true story I would say it depends if you have children or not. If you do, just suck it up and find yourself a hobby, something you would like to do and if your wife complains about it tell her to shut it and count her blessings.

On the other hand, that is if you don't have children, learn more about that girl before you take any further steps and then I guess it is up to your conscience if you choose to go for it.

Assuming of course there is anything there, as all this seems rather strange.

By the way - whatever you do don't tell your wife anything on the subject - that is a hard-won experience talking.

UK, Ireland / My bad experiences with Polish neighbours in UK (not meant to offend) [173]


Call the police, what are you waiting for?

Travel / Poland in photo riddles - part 3 [522]


that is what is left from your verbal diarrhea?

Food / What do non-Poles think about eating the following Polish foods? [1400]


Who made it? Ingredients are fine but the workmanship and esthetic of the food have a lot to be desired.
That person made that food underrepresented.

News / Time to clean the swamp - dePiSification of Poland [298]


IF that civilian were like pawian and had the backing of the Soviet military and police I understand them very well. In given circumstances they need to be congratulated for their restraint and high moral principles I think I wouldn't be so generous in those times.

News / Time to clean the swamp - dePiSification of Poland [298]


What a blasphemous lie. You are scum that pretends to be Polish and that is clear here for all to see.

News / Grzegorz Braun extinguishes Hanukkah candles in Polish Parliament [358]


book is a reflection of a profoundly evil mind and a sick soul. Just leave it at that.

Life / Is Polish church involved in politics too much? [124]


Is that what your lizard mind tells you? Do you think that is the reason? The Pope a commie and a heretic. LGBT is a nonsense Marxist ideology. Perverts are perverts and marriages are marriages.

Homosexual sex acts are a sin but not punishable by the law and that is where tolerance begins and ends. All the rest is a perversive progressive ideology aimed to subjugate people into a totalitarian thraldom ruled by an elitist few.

Still, nice to know that commies are worried about the state of the Church. lol!

News / Poland - A True Bastion and Defender of Free Speech [250]


So why don't you busybodies keep away from the Polish parliament? It is neither American nor Jewish.