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Atch   
3 Jan 2025
Life / Why women's rights are not respected here in Poland? [160]

Please do not tell me that it's only women in "America". They are the same morons everywhere.

No, Americans are especially dumb. That's a fact. The evidence is all over the internet. The ignorance, stupidity and arrogance is literally unbelievable. There's a truly hilarious video on You Tube of two thick as a plank, typical 'college educated' American guys trying to argue with English police that they have no right to detain them at a crime scene and citing American law!! They actually think American law applies everywhere. His actual words were 'I'm an American, so I know!' Of course they ended up being arrested for obstructing the police in their line of duty.
Atch   
25 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

Gifts under tonight`s tree:

That's very sweet. Nice to see modest gifts, appropriate to the meaning of Christmas, obviously with a lot of love behind them :) I'm actually knitting a blanket for Mr Atch but I couldn't finish it in time for Christmas. I see some lucky member of your family couldn't wait to get wrapped up in theirs ;))
Atch   
24 Dec 2024
Food / Polish Christmas Eve Dinner recipes [84]

The nice thing about those recipes is that they're very adaptable and you can add a lot of things according to taste. I like to use the mushrooms in barszcz czerwony and I add some of the stock from soaking the mushrooms. I like that nice earthy undertaste :)
Atch   
24 Dec 2024
Food / Polish Christmas Eve Dinner recipes [84]

I'd never put mushies in żurek. I use a very basic recipe but that's how Mr Atch likes it. I do the kwas a few days before and then I just use the usual stock from włoszczyzna and simmer the white sausage in it. Serve it with the boiled eggs and Bob's your uncle. You have to be careful with dried mushrooms, delicious though they are. They can easily overwhelm more delicate flavours.
Atch   
24 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

special wafers, not for sharing but to hang on the tree as decoration. Some wafers were even gilt.

That would be a nice tradition to revive.
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Life / Polish women who made amazing careers against patriarchal society [128]

Ćwierczakiewiczowa had modern, for her times,

I know. She divorced her first husband when she was only twenty-two because he neglected her and was always 'away on business'. Pretty much unheard of the mid-nineteenth century. She was also a supporter of votes for women. Her family history is a very interesting one. Unfortunately her barbed tongue did for her in the end.
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

French fries are not the same thing though. However, as it's Christmas we shan't quibble. I've never liked salt and vinegar crisps even though they were invented in Ireland and my usual mantra is everything Irish is better ;) It has to be cheese and onion for me. which, coincidentally were also invented by Tayto, Ireland!
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

Ah well now, that's different. There's nothing to compare with salt and vinegar on your chips and that's universal throughout the UK and Ireland.

However, you might be interested to know that during Cromwell's so-called Protectorate, soldiers used to patrol the streets on Christmas Day, literally sniffing out any Christmas food being prepared which they then seized. They probably stuffed themselves silly on it later on back in the barracks.
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

They did indeed because it had no basis in Scripture. Nothing in the Bible said that Jesus was born on 25th December etc. etc. and in England anyway Christmas celebrations were too closely tied to the old Pagan Yule. All those drunken revels didn't go down too well in the Cromwell camp. Mind you the Scottish Presbyterians were just as bad. They banned it too. There's a reason they take salt and not sugar in their porridge up there :)
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

where I live, in Schleswig Holstein

But that's the point really. It's a largely Protestant tradition in that area and not an Anglican one, but rather 'low church'. Their observances are always low key and close to downright miserable ;) For God's sake, look at the Puritans who banned the celebrating of Christmas.
Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Off-Topic / Music Thread - part 2 [961]

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Atch   
22 Dec 2024
Love / Are Polish men deceptive behind their partners back? [34]

Both 24.

Being a twenty-four year old virgin who's never had a girlfriend is no longer a typical bridegroom. Getting married so young was common in your youth, especially if you came from a very conventional or observant Catholic family background where living together would have been frowned upon. Either you shared those views or you didn't want to upset your parents. Many such marriages didn't survive or simply plodded along more or less in misery. And whatever you may think, it is a most unhealthy and unnatural way to live, to have no friends, interests or social contact outside your marriage and to end existing friendships.
Atch   
20 Dec 2024
Off-Topic / Things We Love [330]

So you had breakfast offered in British hotels as a 'continental breakfast'.

And yet, back in 1807 James Peller Malcolm wrote that a middle-class Londoner's breakfast consisted of "tea, coffee or cocoa with rolls, toast and bread" !

You might enjoy this as some light Christmas reading:

gutenberg.org/ebooks/48066


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Atch   
18 Dec 2024
Love / Are Polish men deceptive behind their partners back? [34]

she cut off relationships with her friends

Well, that would be considered a weird and unhealthy thing to do by most people. What about you? Did you end your friendships too? So you're saying that both as a couple and individually, neither of you had any friends or social life outside of each other? Why did the pair of you get married in the first place if you were that immature?
Atch   
17 Dec 2024
Classifieds / Project Polska: Human powered aircraft. Looking for partners [20]

But they're not unique to Poland. The doctrines of the Catholic Church are the same everywhere but there are cultural differences depending on which country you're in. I'd say in Poland a 'good Catholic' would have been one who goes to Mass every Sunday, confession once a week, observes Lent etc. In Ireland when I was growing up, due to us pretty much all going to Catholic schools it permeated every moment of our daily lives. You really had to jump through hoops to be considered a good Catholic. There was a massive emphasis on self-sacrifice, good works, loving your neighbour etc. I never got that impression in Poland. But I may be wrong.
Atch   
17 Dec 2024
Classifieds / Project Polska: Human powered aircraft. Looking for partners [20]

I'm not on Instagram or any other social media but I'm quite happy to chat here on the forum. I'm not Polish. I live in Poland but I'm from Ireland. You make an interesting point though.

There is definitely a difference in the, shall we say, tone of the Catholic Church in different places around the world. The version of Catholicism I grew up with in Ireland seems quite different to the Polish way of seeing the faith. That's partly because Irish Catholicism springs from the Monastic tradition rather than the Roman tradition and Rome had little influence in Ireland, really until the middle of the nineteenth century. The Irish monks had a big influence though on many aspects of the development of certain practices. For example, the sacrament of Confession as you know it, was introduced by Irish monks. Before that Confession was done maybe once a year and in public! The Irish monks introduced the practice of having a spiritual counsellor, a mentor if you like, to whom you would go in private. Prayer, reflection, examination of conscience daily, these things are part of the bedrock of monastic Catholicism.

Scripture in general though, is not a big thing in the everyday life of an ordinary Catholic. If you are raised in the faith from childhood then the Catechism will be your starting point. On the whole Catholics are taught to find their answers not so much in Scripture as in prayer, though of course the Bible is the basis of the faith - the Catholic translation of the Bible that is. We have more Books than the Protestant denominations and a slightly different translation. But you'll know that already :) As a Catholic there is really no expectation that you will read the Bible at all as part of your daily life. Daily Mass would be considered more important. Not that you have to go to Mass every day but if you're from the Bible based tradition you might feel that you need to connect that way on a daily basis so going to Mass and receiving Communion every day might suit you. Some Catholics draw great strength from being a daily Communicant.

My own view and words of advice to someone new to Catholicism would be, the only Scripture you need to concern yourself with are the Four Gospels. Read the Catechism thoroughly and reflect on it. Know the Beatitudes and the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy and try to incorporate them into your everyday life. Read the lives of many saints, find one you feel drawn to and pray to them - and don't forget your Guardian angel and the Archangels :)

And in moments of crisis repeat 'Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, I place all my trust in thee,' as often as you like :))

You can open a thread about religion in the off-topic section if you want to.
Atch   
16 Dec 2024
Classifieds / Project Polska: Human powered aircraft. Looking for partners [20]

Faith comes from evidence.

As a Catholic myself I wouldn't agree with that. I'd say, it can come from evidence, the evidence is all around us every day in the wonder of God's creation, but many people with faith simply feel it, without needing any evidence at all. I'm sure you've heard the old Catholic adage that faith is a gift, a grace from God.
Atch   
15 Dec 2024
USA, Canada / The proper behavior an American should show when visiting Poland [159]

They all said yes.

As a rule they don't speak it well though. Some of them understand a bit better than they speak but they're definitely nowhere near fluent. Why would they be?
The trick is to avoid over thirty-somethings...

Maybe you can do that on holiday but not in everyday life, nor would you want to.
When you speak English, you own the conversation.

Why would you want to do that - unless you're a domineering narcissist.