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My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
up in the air
no it's not up in the air, it's filed under "whatever."
Look dude, you got a lot of crap advice at the beginning of this thread and you've got to change your attitude to this debacle.
i have to believe her until i get reasons not too..
I'd say you have some pretty stellar reasons not to trust her. She wasn't honest with you from the start and it's painfully obvious that she's decided to play the victim and rationalize self-centred behaviour on those grounds. Insulting someone after they give you a gift is sign of poor character. Accepting the gift also shows her ability to act in self-interest regardless of the time or situation.
Chicks like this are not worth the hassle. It may not be her fault but this whole episode exposed some glaring immature and unstable features of her character. She showed where her head is when the chips were down. If she can't figure out that people get old and die then she's just not mature enough to
properly deal with the complexities of life.
I know from experience that no matter how nice the voice, how funny she may be, how good looking she is, any broad that pulls a stunt like hers just ain't worth the hassle. 86 her completely from your life and in less than 6 months she'll be begging you to take her back-don't.
I can't stress this enough. If you don't desperately need the money then just forget her completely.
If she eventually wants to return the necklace then you win 1200 smackeroos. If she wants to get back together with you after doing the right thing then that would be a good sign. In all honesty though I'd consider this a lesson learned, i.e. a bad investment of time, money and emotion.