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Do Polish women like to be surprised?


trublustuuk 2 | 34  
28 Apr 2008 /  #1
Hi, I've been chasing this girl prob since Jan, got wee polish names for each other :? maybe earlier, asked her out end of feb to which I got a "don't know". we still talk and stuff, hard to do at work when I'm on shifts and she is agency with a supervisor who prevents me from talking to her properly as he is jealous and has handed her his number 3 times which she told me she crumpled up and kept telling him she'd no money in her phone.

Last wednesday she says "so when we go for coffee?" I said I'm not sure whenever when she said "today", so she gives me a bit of paper with her address on it and time to come at. We had a nice night, bit of flirting, stayed for bout 5 hours, no kissing or nothing so I'm guessing she's not like that on first time of meeting outside of work which is fine with me.

Her birthday was on Friday there but we never got anything sorted bout meeting up and I have been off work since Friday and don't have her number dispite numerous times to take it when she left her room as she had it written on a calender in full view of me.

Today I'm off work and was thinking bout going up to see her but I don't want to travel all the way up there to find her not in or something or because she's not expecting me a bit wierd with me. I know she likes me as my friend told me before she went on maternity leave. I really like this girl, little more than I should at this point, despite her lack of confidennce in english and know if I don't I'll prob not see her again till next monday :(
Vincent 9 | 851   Moderator
28 Apr 2008 /  #2
dont forget the old saying.....he who dares...wins:)
plk123 8 | 4,149  
28 Apr 2008 /  #3
depends. why don't you call her office number and see if she's in.

and, who's baby?
OP trublustuuk 2 | 34  
28 Apr 2008 /  #4
Office number? I'm confused lol She works for an agency at my work and she finishes at 1/2pm depending on how much work there is to do.

And not my baby, my friend is prob pregnant by her boyfriend and she is not the girl I'm posting about lol
plk123 8 | 4,149  
28 Apr 2008 /  #5
Office number?

no phones over there? or is she working on the corner? ;) :D
IronsE11 2 | 442  
28 Apr 2008 /  #6
Run for the hills...
OP trublustuuk 2 | 34  
28 Apr 2008 /  #7
Mate you on the wind up or something? If you read my post you'll find I could've got her number but was stupid in that I didn't take it the numerous chances I could've taken it.
IronsE11 2 | 442  
28 Apr 2008 /  #8
no phones over there? or is she working on the corner? ;) :D

Mate you on the wind up or something?

I think the ;) :D suggests that it was indeed a wind-up! hth.
OP trublustuuk 2 | 34  
28 Apr 2008 /  #9
I knew that, didn't mean for it to come across agressively lol

Where are the ladies on this site, I need a female perspective, unless I already have women talking to me here. Nicknames on forums are so confusing :/

Decided not to go after talking to a friend on msn. I'm guessing she'd prob like to be prepared andstuff so just gonna get her number next time I see her :)
IronsE11 2 | 442  
28 Apr 2008 /  #10
Decided not to go after talking to a friend on msn. I'm guessing she'd prob like to be prepared andstuff so just gonna get her number next time I see her :)

Probably for the best.
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
28 Apr 2008 /  #11
What is it with "do Polish women this, do Polish women that lol?" Polish women are WOMEN. They're the same as every other women. They go through mentruation whether they're Polish or not. They have have vaginas whether they're Polish or not. They nag whether they're Polish or not :P

Women are women regardless of nationality.
IronsE11 2 | 442  
28 Apr 2008 /  #12
Women are women regardless of nationality.

Couldn't agree more. It's all well and good looking for cultural tips but asking whether a girl likes to be surprised based on her nationality is pretty pointless imo.
Foreigner4 12 | 1,769  
28 Apr 2008 /  #13
Do Polish women like surprises? Do Polish women like surprises? Well, do they?

Ok, seriously, of course they do, as long as they are good surprises.

Picture yourself hiding in her room behind her door. In the dark. Waiting for her to get home. You're about to uncork a bottle of champagne. And you're wearing an executioner's hood.

She comes in and you yell SURPRISE! Pop goes the bubbly.

Scary SH!T huh?

Now, let's change some of those details to make it a fun surprise. You're not wearing an executioner's hood. You're wearing a smile. You're not waiting behind her door, you're waiting inside her szafka. You're not ready to uncork a bottle of champagne, you're ready to pop 10+ cc of a 5 knuckle salute!

She comes in the door and you yell SURPRISE! and shower her with your manly love liquid.

Freaky SH!T eh?

Now, providing you do the complete opposite of either of these two scenarios (i can illustrate more if need be) then she should love your surprise.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
28 Apr 2008 /  #14
lol what a scenario! i saw my blokes car parked up outside my place last week so i came in, went to my bedroom but he wasnt there. i had a look around and he's been hiding in my wardrobe, weirdo. but there was no love juice haha.

this girl you are writing about, trublustuuk, sounds a bit counfusing, and you sound very unsure yourself. be a man and do what needs to be done, get a bunch of flowers and go wish her a happy belated birthday, i dont see why she would turn you down or shut the door in your face. if shes busy or not ready to go out, arrange a date and go pick her up some other time. why is it that some men need to be told obvious things like this?! lol. she obviously wants you to take the lead, read the signs, take the hints and get on with it!
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Apr 2008 /  #15
Polish women love to be surprised. An offer to shower together is often a nice way of doing this. Flowers also do the trick. Chocolates, well, it depends.

An accidental slip into the wrong hole, well, the jury is out on that one ;) That can come as a nasty surprise.
OP trublustuuk 2 | 34  
28 Apr 2008 /  #16
She comes in the door and you yell SURPRISE! and shower her with your manly love liquid

I lol'd

why is it that some men need to be told obvious things like this?! lol. she obviously wants you to take the lead, read the signs, take the hints and get on with it!

Ok boss don't need to tell me twice, I'm on the case next time I see her, thats if procrastination doesn't get to me, damn I hate being a libra sometimes

An offer to shower together is often a nice way of doing this. Flowers also do the trick. Chocolates, well, it depends.

Way to early for the first, the second I was told to do and the third, I've no idea if she likes chocolate :/

As for the wrong hole, there;s no harm in trying :S
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
28 Apr 2008 /  #17
Ok boss don't need to tell me twice

good man ;)

I hate being a libra sometimes

im a libra too!

As for the wrong hole, there;s no harm in trying :S

no harm for you! men and their selfish needs... lol
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
28 Apr 2008 /  #18
I think its a common thing, women like nice suprises, Polish or not :) I mean who dosen't like a nice arranged holiday, meal, present, novel show of affection. Its natural to like nice suprises, i just wish people would come away from the 'nationality' side of things.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Apr 2008 /  #19
Well put, in a concise way
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
28 Apr 2008 /  #20
Its natural to like nice suprises, i just wish people would come away from the 'nationality' side of things.

do polish girls like to shower in the evening, or in the morning? do polish girls like chewing gum? do polish girls prefer to wear white or black? are most polish girls blonde? do all polish girls shave it all down below?? what else will people come up with... polish girls are girls, we like what other girls like. you cant blame a girls nationality on everything thats wrong or good about her.
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Apr 2008 /  #21
do polish girls like to shower in the evening, or in the morning?

Cannot they shower twice a day?I cannot understand this question.

do polish girls like chewing gum?

Of course they do.They have always a bubble on their face.

do polish girls prefer to wear white or black?

White shorts,black stockings.White clothes on polish girls make them look like angels.However on the wedding they wear white.

are most polish girls blonde?

Unfortunately not.Pity.Where are the blondynkas(apart from Ukraine,Belarus)?

do all polish girls shave it all down below??

No.Czech girls do that.Checked.Trust me.

We give information for free,people should be grateful.
Lilu 3 | 32  
29 Apr 2008 /  #22
Run for the hills...

Ditto
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
29 Apr 2008 /  #23
southern

good to hear all the answers from a Polish girl, whom southern secretly is ;)
miranda  
29 Apr 2008 /  #24
girly girl:) this southern is;)
Wyspianska  
29 Apr 2008 /  #25
Do Polish women like to be surprised?

English bloke to Polish girl under the blanket: "Look, it fits there!". And yeah, it was a suprise, made me laugh :D
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
30 Apr 2008 /  #26
Ah so you've heard the truth about the English guys having a bigger package than the Polish men then... :)
Wyspianska  
1 May 2008 /  #27
lol i have no compare really cus English is my first and i hope last package lmao
southern 75 | 7,096  
1 May 2008 /  #28
For example if instead of penis a polish woman finds a clitoris,it will not be a pleasant surprise.
szarlotka 8 | 2,209  
1 May 2008 /  #29
Surprise comes in all shapes and forms

Hitting on the novel idea that he could end his wife's incessant nagging by giving her a good scare, Hungarian Jake Fen built an elaborate harness to make it look as if he had hanged himself. When his wife came home and saw him she fainted. Hearing a disturbance a neighbor came over and, finding what she thought were two corpses, seized the opportunity to loot the place. As she was leaving the room, her arms laden, the outraged and suspended Mr. Fen kicked her stoutly in the backside. This so surprised the lady that she dropped dead of a heart attack. Happily, Mr. Fen was acquitted of manslaughter and he and his wife were reconciled.
OP trublustuuk 2 | 34  
14 May 2008 /  #30
What is it with "do Polish women this, do Polish women that lol?"

Completely agree here, they seem to be complete c**ts regardless where they are from. The girl in the original post is just playing with me it seems. We exchanged numbers and were speaking to each other last thurs and we spoke on sun too. I saw here at work yest and asked her what she was doing on wed (today) as we were both off as I'd swapped days to watch the UEFA cup final and she just laughed and said no when I asked her if she wanted to go out, do something etc. This pissed me off a bit but thought maybe she just didn't understand what I meant. Today I phoned about 1 no answer I phoned agian at bout 5, two rings and she hung up :( I'm done with polish girls at the mo, poland tops currently sitting in the bin and contemplating moving my polish language books into storage :s

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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