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PreMarital sex and Polish women or maybe all women


BleedingRomeo 2 | 31  
28 Oct 2009 /  #1
I heard that Polish women are mostly against this and they dont allow men to come easily closer to them and even if they do they dont feel very good about it. is it true?. as far as i have understood this i am guessing that most women feel bad about premarital sex and they want to have it only after marriage. That can be a cultural or religious effect both

what do you think? i have heard relationships like upto 3 years without sex in Poland also. I know this is against my previous post but this is also a fact about Poland.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Oct 2009 /  #2
What's that Morrissey song where he talks of an inbuilt guilt catching up with you, coming round and then slapping your face? It just struck me as appropriate to describe some women here. They will have sex with you but their conscience will gnaw away at them later. It's like they are first going with their biological instincts, which is good, and then they suddenly have recourse to church teachings which they suddenly see fit to follow. Relax, love is what God intended :) (as long as it is that).
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
28 Oct 2009 /  #3
Of the Polish girls I know about 75% had sex with their boyfriend before marriage, and 25% waited until getting married.

most women feel bad about premarital sex and they want to have it only after marriage. That can be a cultural or religious effect both
what do you think?

Actually no. It seems that the majority of Polish girls think it's natural to have sex if you have a stable relationship.

The ones who don't have sex before marriage are almost only for religious reasons. In my opinion there is not a culture among young Poles in general that you should wait until marriage. If we go to a country we must respect its culture.
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #4
I heard that Polish women are mostly against this

You heard wrong.

i am guessing that most women feel bad about premarital sex a

In Greece women are on all fours for postmarital sex.
Arien 3 | 721  
28 Oct 2009 /  #5
Why don't you ask the girls?

:)
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #6
If you notice pregnant polish women during their wedding it is because they were against premarital sex.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Oct 2009 /  #7
SwedishPole is right. Stability is a word that should never be underestimated here. They don't want to sleep around, generally, and I applaud that.
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #8
They don't want to sleep around, generally,

Generally.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
28 Oct 2009 /  #9
Most young Poles today seem to have a rather natural relationship to sex. Not as many 'one night stands' as in Western Europe. But the majority don't mind having sex with their partner (bf/gf) before marriage. It's a good balance I think.
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #10
But the majority don't mind having sex with their partner before marriage.

So you have to marry the minority.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Oct 2009 /  #11
Some like premarital sex and others don't. If one is a devout Catholic, then in all likelihood they won't have premarital sex. Young people all over the world are not in the habit of denying their various instincts and impulses, though.

A better question is, 'Is the so-called rat race driving people towards sex or away from sex?'. In Japan, salarymen are like moths to a lightbulb. They can't wait for their post zangyou (overtime) release in Soapland :) In Poland, a bit of both.

Ah well, thank the Lord that he gave me a faithful bent :)
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #12
If one is a devout Catholic, then in all likelihood they won't have premarital sex.

Sex in the Clintonian definition.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Oct 2009 /  #13
Well, he has a permanent stain to deal with. Well, that's what his dry cleaners told him anyway :)
nomaderol 5 | 726  
28 Oct 2009 /  #14
most women feel bad about premarital sex and they want to have it only after marriage. That can be a cultural or religious effect both what do you think?

Again same grass. You, like my father who trying to connect cleanless to being religious. Same propaganda of religious minds who think that virginal membrane of girl is to prevent premarital sex. Is this your logic? Then, think why males don't have any membrane. Maybe, it is in their minds of males, who knows.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
28 Oct 2009 /  #15
I heard that Polish women are mostly against this

If there's some other Poland in a parallel universe then yeah maybe, 18-20 years, thats the oldest virgins you find here:)

Sex in the Clintonian definition.

Southern strikes again, faster then a speeding black van with soundproof interior and no licence plates!
nomaderol 5 | 726  
28 Oct 2009 /  #16
Statistics about sex shown wrong. At least 10-15% of world women, even if they are married, are not doing sex. They can't. You probably know what women they are. They don't talk anywhere. I guess this percentage is same in Poland. So, 85% of women in poland can do sex. Guess another 10% for lez and different sexual orientations. Remained 75%. If, as claimed above, 25% of them prefer to stay virgin, then, remained 50%. If half of them are already married, then, remained 25%. If 80% of them already have bf, then, remained 5%. So, romeo, if there are 100 girls here, only 5 of them are open to love for premarital sex.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Oct 2009 /  #17
Statistics about sex????? Should such a thing even exist, given the propensity of many to distort them and lie?

It's like the Tories. Polls showed them to be unpopular but come election time they won a landslide victory back in the day.

Use common sense, not stats!
Arien 3 | 721  
28 Oct 2009 /  #18
So, romeo, if there are 100 girls here, only 5 of them are open to love for premarital sex.

It's probably the other way around.

;)
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #19
So, 85% of women in poland can do sex.

Yes,the rest have a lack of vaginas.
nomaderol 5 | 726  
28 Oct 2009 /  #20
Statistics about sex????? Should such a thing even exist, given the propensity of many to distort them and lie?

Indeed. Statistics about sex should be read reverse. For example, if, in a survey, 90% of people say they dont have any sexual problem, i read this as 90% have sexual problems.

Yes,the rest have a lack of vaginas.

Ever seen any person with vag!na and pen!s? There are suchs too.
southern 75 | 7,096  
28 Oct 2009 /  #21
Ever seen any person with vag!na and pen!s? T

My gfs usually have just vagina.
ShawnH 8 | 1,501  
28 Oct 2009 /  #22
Usually?
ShawnH 8 | 1,501  
28 Oct 2009 /  #24
With a penchant for people of Thai persuasion perhaps?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
29 Oct 2009 /  #25
LOL :) Resisting natural urges is more harmful, provided those urges are reasonable.
OP BleedingRomeo 2 | 31  
29 Oct 2009 /  #26
nomaderol
well its same for male and female no difference.

I have heard a lot about girls and even guys feeling guilt after having sex.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
29 Oct 2009 /  #27
i have heard relationships like upto 3 years without sex in Poland also.

Nothing strange about that. I was going out with my boyfriend for 7 years and never had sex, until I married. Every person is different and a marriage shouldn't be based on a used rag, but something new and wonderful.

It's a personal moral belief, no matter where you live.
southern 75 | 7,096  
29 Oct 2009 /  #28
Women don't feel bad about sex except when they get raped by some muslim basterd who is kept virgin and hrony in the last 100 years to keep the word of Allah.
TheOther 6 | 3,821  
29 Oct 2009 /  #29
Latest news: The pope finds the 11th commandment ;)



tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
29 Oct 2009 /  #30
the 11th commandment

thou shalt not get caught :):) you can have pre-marital sex, just don't get caught or tell anybody your doing it :)

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