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The Problem i have with Culture Differences (UK + Polish) [32]
She tells me that people arent as 'outgoing' in poland, and sometimes she becomes sick of meeting some of my friends, who are generally quite forward, and confident.
She describes this particular way of living as 'fake'...
it's true. we're not that 'outgoing'. the thing is she hasn't been to uk for long time really.
for a Pole, the ability to respond to the confidence you've said about, is a thing to learn. just stand by her side and she'll be fine, well she'll either get used to and stop even noticing it or she'll work out her own confident way to react to it and won't feel embarrases(?) by it.
i wouldn't know why she describes it as 'fake'. perhaps she just can't find any better way to name it. it is also possible, that due to the fact, that she's surrounded by people who are notorious complainers back in Poland, it is hard for her to believe in the 'other world' she sees in England. also a thing to learn.
ok, i gave you a bit of blabber, really. it's all rather a guess based on my own experiece with discovering a different county.