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What does a Polish guy expect from a relationship?


Jar 1 | 10  
9 May 2007 /  #1
I have been dating a guy for around a month now and i have always been very independant and enjoy my own space, friends etc.

He seems to understand this as i explained in the beginning that i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to take things slow.

He is really nice and i dont want to upset or confuse him, can anyone offer some kinda guidance?
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,163  
9 May 2007 /  #2
what does a polish guy expect from a relationship?

Sex, good food etc.
ukinpoland 5 | 338  
9 May 2007 /  #3
He seems to understand this as i explained in the beginning that i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to take things slow.

Well he doesnt sound confused. You explained what you needed and he understands. Problem solved? If hes happy and youre both having fun and you're just with each other he'll be fine. He sounds like he has the best of both worlds. Fun stuff and not too much commitment.
OP Jar 1 | 10  
9 May 2007 /  #4
I think i sussed that one thanks!
Ranj 21 | 948  
9 May 2007 /  #5
I agree with UKinpoland.....he doesn't sound confused to me unless there is something you haven't told us.....the only sound advice I can give you is to be true to yourself.....if he starts to pressure you for something more or becomes possessive, then stand your ground.....if that upsets him, then he's probably not the guy for you.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
9 May 2007 /  #6
in my experience Polish men can be possessive and jealous of friendships outside of the relationship... but of course all men are different and maybe yours isnt like that... good luck anyway
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
9 May 2007 /  #7
in my experience Polish men can be possessive and jealous of friendships outside of the relationship...

Because there's no such thing as friendship between a woman and a man. :))
Bartolome 2 | 1,085  
9 May 2007 /  #8
Well, apparently you found a Mr. Right. You can start learning Polish. At least 3-4 hours a day :)
sparrow 2 | 243  
9 May 2007 /  #9
Because there's no such thing as friendship between a woman and a man. :))

"For a woman to engage in a friendship with a man there must be some physical antipathy" ;)
LoneStranger 3 | 382  
9 May 2007 /  #10
Sex, good food etc.

What makes you think that Polish guys and Polish dogs dont have a difference?

A man can expect more than that.
glowa 1 | 291  
9 May 2007 /  #11
Polish guys, unlike Polish dogs, can cook :)
southern  
9 May 2007 /  #12
Polish guys want polish girls for sex and food or only for sex?
Who is the cook after all?
glowa 1 | 291  
9 May 2007 /  #13
well if a guy wants a girl for food and sex (or sex only)... he wants a one night stand, not a relationship, i guess there's more in it that shagging and eating, or am I wrong.

whoever want, feels like or agrees to be, is the cook. when starting/having a relationship do you make deals of a kind: who's the cook here and who vacumes the carpets?
miranda  
9 May 2007 /  #14
Polish guys, unlike Polish dogs, can cook :)

most guys cook better than dogs:) pffew, thank god
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
9 May 2007 /  #15
Polish guys, unlike Polish dogs, can cook :)

Hahahahhahaha :))))

Polish guys want polish girls for sex and food or only for sex?

How rude. I know we are savage, but certainly not cannibals damnit!!! :P
southern  
9 May 2007 /  #16
Miranda did you ever had a dog cook for you?
Hueg - | 320  
9 May 2007 /  #17
No but I did once go for a Thai with a Sumatran Tiger. Can't remember what she had, something poached iirc. :)
miranda  
9 May 2007 /  #18
Miranda did you ever had a dog cook for you?

sorry lost in translation
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,163  
9 May 2007 /  #19
What makes you think that Polish guys and Polish dogs dont have a difference?

You have ?
Hueg - | 320  
9 May 2007 /  #20
most guys cook better than dogs:) pffew, thank god

He's refering to this.

Don't worry M, i've got you covered. :)

Tell Fido I like my steak rare. He is Blue Ribbon standard after all.
miranda  
9 May 2007 /  #21
Tell Fido I like my steak rare. He is Blue Ribbon standard after all.

lol so do I. consider it done:).
OP Jar 1 | 10  
10 May 2007 /  #22
well if a guy wants a girl for food and sex (or sex only)... he wants a one night stand, not a relationship, i guess there's more in it that shagging and eating, or am I wrong.

He must be a new breed of Polish man because his cooking is to die for and he has been really considerate so far! well past a one night stand!!
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
11 May 2007 /  #23
well if a guy wants a girl for food and sex (or sex only)... he wants a one night stand, not a relationship, i guess there's more in it that shagging and eating, or am I wrong.

you would have to be a very lucky man to find a a girl who will cook dinner on a one night stand wouldnt you?
MJM 1 | 4  
11 May 2007 /  #24
I would like to meet such a man.
SID1084 - | 1  
27 Aug 2007 /  #25
What do polish girls look for in a guy?
witek 1 | 587  
27 Aug 2007 /  #26
money, kasa, dinero



Wyspianska  
27 Aug 2007 /  #27
Bull sh*its. I suppose u have some compex Witek oO

Im a polish girl and i know better. I look for fun! And i dont look for relationship.
Kapito?
telefonitika  
27 Aug 2007 /  #28
thats a lot of wad in that photo exactly how much is there

but i dont look for that in any man ie money i am an independant female :) yes it helps to go halves on meals and things but i dont need a mans money
Wyspianska  
27 Aug 2007 /  #29
i am an independant female :)

thats why i like u so much tele :)
southern 75 | 7,096  
27 Aug 2007 /  #30
I think polish girls pay a lot of attention to looks.I seldom saw ugly guys with hot girls in Poland while in CR it was quite often.

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