Dee1603 12 Apr 2009 / #1Hi, I have with my boyfriend for a year today and I feel like a little drained. My bf's english is not great and he expects me to help him with this, which is fine but I find it annoying when he gets too dependant on me eg when he gets a letter from the bank he will open it give it to me and say what does it say? I have started asking him if he has actually read it or just cant be bothered. REcently his laptop was not working and he would not call the company to arrange for it to be sorted because he said his english is not as good as mine and what if they ask him a question he does not understand?Today he asked me if I would help him buy tickets for his family to come and visit because he wants to make sure he does it right. I am getting rather fed up with this and as much as I want to help him, its annoying and I'm starting to get really irritated by it. When I refuse to help he makes me feel bad and I sometime end up just doing it.I'm sorry this is so long. The other issue I have is we do not spend a lot of time together anymore. We used to when we first started going out but now we are like an old married couple. He says he has to work lot because I'm not working but the truth is I feel neglected, when we do go out he is rushing me so we can go home andhe can sleep. I feel awful because a part of me wants to leave but I love him. I also feel trapped because I have no family in the UK and have nowhere to go.Am I being silly? I really dont know what to do.