but i kinda agree some Poles are like that
I agree with that too. Then again men from all nationalities behave badly at times.
However, what I have seen recently (not only on the forum) are girls (not Polish) who suddenly declare that they only want a Polish man. Fair enough, but if you limit your scope to one group chances are you won't find happiness and that's what's happening.
Why, suddenly, do they want a Polish guy? Is it more exciting to date someone from a different country? Then if they do date someone from a different country they have to realise there are cultural differences as well and to make the relationship work, they have to work through these but often it is too difficult.
but this seems to be a common thing with Polish guys. maybe its the fact of them being abroad and it makes things very confusing and difficult, or they dont quite know how to get out of a sticky situation without causing any more trouble as its a different culture etc.,
I found out from one male Polish friend recently that when he arrived in the UK three years ago (alone) he reached out for anyone who he could be friends with. He didn't like the feeling of being lonely and he admitted that he dated a friend of a girl at work simply for company and nothing more. He had a girlfriend at home in Poland. The girl here fell for him and he dealt with it by ignoring her texts/calls. He had no idea how to deal with it otherwise.