I'd make a side bet, you are the one paying the rent, providing the food and free sex.
Yep, I bet it's true at least on the food and blow jobs side. And if you are doing free rent too, you really are mad. I know they have this knack of making you feel like you've suddenly found the depth and intensity of connection/affection that you've been missing all your life, but you have to peel yourself away from them.
Obviously the answer is an UNattached Polish guy to fall in love with. That must be heaven.