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Patrycja19   
14 Apr 2007
News / Abortion - how is the Polish government going to deal with this issue? [273]

but people are still scared, so black trash bags and dumpsters are the desired alternative. Sad world we live in sometimes.

Scared of their parents.

its unfortunate that some of these young teens resort to this, eventually they get
caught, not enough education was given apparently to this teen. in each case
when they do find them, they are charged as adults. it isnt like anything isnt done
about it. unfortunately, these children who are born, could have went to an adoptive
family and nothing like this would have occured. so I do blame the parents for not
discussing enough.

And sometimes the fear of father is instilled in these girls who will do anything
to hide this from their father.

But it isnt just the girls who are to blame, dont forget the boy involved who must
have decided along with this girl this was their only options.

or perhaps he wasnt taught to be more abstinant <~spelling please?
young men also have a great deal to do with this, but it seems the young girls
fault for baggin it up.

I would think both need some heavy education on what /how/ who, and help that
they should seek if pregnancy should occur. but mostly to just not have sex at all
and show them outcomes like these and what could happen in the long run by legal
matters..
Patrycja19   
13 Apr 2007
Love / What makes Polish girls tick - or is it just women in general....:-) [64]

Well, First of all, if you Cheated on your wife with this girl, the thought of you doing
it again to her is strong, because it was possible for you to do it once with her, what
would stop you again??

Yes we women work in mysterious ways,. but I think its because this is new for her
that she would be afraid to lose your full attention.

Sometimes these things work out, depending on the person and how much trust
they have, in this type of situation though, its hard to really say, we can only
listen to your side of the story, maybe there is more she might want to share , I would
take her somewhere shes not experienced and proclaim your love in front of a million
people, its worth a try??

I think she will feel better because you were spontanous and your attention was only
for her.... GOOD LUCK :)
Patrycja19   
12 Apr 2007
Love / how do i get rid of a girl? [90]

Dont reply back to her emails..

anyone having troubles with their PC's Lately?
Patrycja19   
10 Apr 2007
Life / Question regarding Polish women vs Jobs abroad [110]

sorry to inform you but there have been major layoffs in both Canada and the USA IN THE Auto manufacturing sector

yeah, and then they hire again..my brother works labor, makes alot of money
no layoffs. Im not saying it isnt impossible, but degree or not degree, layoffs
happen, hillary save us!!!!

But if we don't get our heads out of our butts and fix things,

get george out of office. i dont know about you, but I noticed the downhill stretch
since his inaugeration... hes not for the people of America. not in my belief.
Patrycja19   
10 Apr 2007
News / Abortion - how is the Polish government going to deal with this issue? [273]

The father of the child has no rights either under the Roe vs. Wade abortion decision which centered on the privacy rights of the mother.

I will approach with no sarcasm..

how many women do you think are out there with children who have no fathers?

please, be honest, and strait.. in todays society, children are not brought up
that religious.. many not having religion, and some who rebel religion, so that
really has nothing to do with the fact that a good majority of women are alone
raising children now a days.. its so easy for a man to walk away, take off havent
you watched maury povich lately??? my god every other show trying to find the
father, and if he is the father will he own up to it.. most of these so called young
men sit there saying, Im not the daddy, no way, who cares.. when they read the
results, its a big shock that they are the father because now they will be paying
childsupport for the rest of their lifes instead of doing drugs!

:(
Patrycja19   
10 Apr 2007
Life / Question regarding Polish women vs Jobs abroad [110]

why us Poles cannot break away from the "labourer" mind set.

Witek,

this was something that happened like years and years ago, but now to be a laborer
is not a bad job and is also as good paying as a job which requires a college degree.

and now some labor jobs also require schooling, and your benefits are awsome.
if you were to compare, depending on some jobs. A laborer in say 1920 vs 2007
there is technology. and let me tell you knowing some of these laborers who work
at say one of the big 3 automakers, some of these guys have it made. machines
do the work, they watch the machines. what/who wouldnt want to work and get
paid top dollar to sit and watch a machine, keep it running ? But you have to like
what your doing too, even if the job is easy, some dont fit the work force as a team.

IMHO:)

and in a laborer job, theres options to work overtime, if you become salaried
you work long hours without that pay. if your going to work this time, it should
be paid, so having a title sometimes doesnt benefit in the long run.
Patrycja19   
10 Apr 2007
Life / Question regarding Polish women vs Jobs abroad [110]

even girls with university degrees are cleaning homes and apartments.

some of these girls are only doing these smaller jobs to pay for school if needed.

and I see all kinds of women doing cleaning jobs. not polish. maybe in other countries
but not in my workplace. i think theres more Polish with degrees at my work doing
very well !:)
Patrycja19   
10 Apr 2007
Love / Illegal Polish girl wants me to marry her for citizenship [124]

u sit on your ass (not all of u,just some), don't do anything ,complain how life treats u bad, but.. In Russia.. I'll tell u, i lived there, studied, i couldn't get a job because i was not 18 yet,

I tend to agree with this. I dont accept excuses. to many people saying why
they cant get a job, but not enough saying why they can. school is forever here
you can be 20 or 80 and still go to college.

I am glad you pointed that out, its true, and I do think something needs to be done
about it. we have good, it could be better!
Patrycja19   
8 Apr 2007
Love / Polish Man Broke My Heart [29]

He live with me 4 monts

Broken.

4 months is not long time. when your in love it seems like it was eternity
but it appears as though he is just finding places to stay, this new girl might
suffer the same fate as you in 4 months. Please dont beg him to come home
to you, your only setting yourself up for a second disaster which could fall and
burn in his favor again. you need to let him go, if you love him truely let him go
if he ever does return, you need to set him strait in your home, if hes coming back
its for good, no cheating or the door will hit him hard, dont let him walk all over you
or charm you because you are the strong one and he is the weak one to leave
so tell him you dont need him , theres many other handsome men out there waiting
for someone to love them too. and are ready to be Exclusive.

And while you are healing try to do something for yourself which makes you feel
good, maybe go buy a new outfit, or have a friend come over and spend some time
and do your hair, or just talk , go out for some friend time, and just relax .
Patrycja19   
5 Apr 2007
Life / Non -Native people in Poland, where do you come from ?? [41]

Maybe she'll just travel around from city to city.....pick a spot after she's experienced all of it.....then throw a huge housewarming party for all her aforementioned friends, right Patty!

you got it sista!!

:)
Patrycja19   
5 Apr 2007
Life / Non -Native people in Poland, where do you come from ?? [41]

Im not there yet, so I dont know what I am gonna do, maybe get drunk with Giles
and his girl and bubba and Ranj when they finally get hitched. and meet up with
Wroclaw, and his wife, and pretty sure sledz and krysia and her man will all go

Amathyst will be there for sure, and Bart, and varsovian and Anielka and daffy
Miranda, etc, because its going to be one big Party!!

Yep, I am polish, are you sure I sank your battleship?
Patrycja19   
5 Apr 2007
Life / Non -Native people in Poland, where do you come from ?? [41]

If i said i might be revealed so its a secret ! sorry Giles but its a town hahaha

this is what I mean about people being someone else and it only shows less
courage. so no my posts wasnt dumb, it was right on key, people need to fess
up and stand up to the plate. Not Like I am going to be coming to poland soon
so what worrys do ya have? show some B*LLS.:)
Patrycja19   
4 Apr 2007
Polonia / Germans: Do Poles like them or dislike them? [217]

applies to all amen sister (i think thats twice this week ive said that patrycja?)

:) I have a following :) let us gather in peace (AMEN)!
Patrycja19   
4 Apr 2007
Polonia / Germans: Do Poles like them or dislike them? [217]

Bratworst boy

see, now that you created anger in the other post, now that your being decent
or seem to be at the moment, People dont want to trust you. does that make you
feel good?

I dont like two-faced people either. you either are friend or foe, but if you stay
here, you have to at least commit to treating others with more respect, thats not
so much to ask if you want it back.
Patrycja19   
3 Apr 2007
Love / The polish girl, and the life partnership [40]

How is a married polish lady's mentality?

if you pick up after yourself and dont become a slob I think her mentality will be
fine.
Patrycja19   
3 Apr 2007
News / GERMAN PSYCHOPATHS INSULTING POLISH PEOPLE [95]

Sorry Patrycja I don't like Germans. Jeb@c Szwabow

ok my mistake.

I jumped the gun there and thought you didnt have anything against all germans.

While I showed my dislike of those who try to create havoc. I still believe there is
good in each nations people. its those select few groups or persons which make
it difficult to rationalize at times.

Least stay peaceful towards those who are peaceful :)
Patrycja19   
3 Apr 2007
Life / Polish mothers! Advice to Mothers-to-be and new Mothers (resources) [25]

Hey Pat19, just landed back in UK yesterday, bummer.
The weather was lovely, hook up with Bubba all jolly good fun.

Cool Giles. we missed ya all week. havent seen ya in a while.

The first time I've met another man over the internet that hasn't asked me to sit on his lnee! Pleasant surprise

I love it, bubba, your were a gentleman, as we all knew.

usually I am pretty good at comebacks, but I am pretty speechless again right now
so I guess I will go sit in a corner or something and not watch.. :)
Patrycja19   
3 Apr 2007
News / GERMAN PSYCHOPATHS INSULTING POLISH PEOPLE [95]

It would have been much more effective to break him with well thought out responses backed by facts and watch him squirm. Now we won't get that chance so we need to learn for the next time.

Well I dont think they expected my responses either, which I dont regret, they
deserved it and then some.

I will try to keep out of the mix and not jump the gun, even though my inner
instincts tell me otherwise at times. like i said, usually I am more the calmer one
so I suppose they hit the right nerve .

:(
Patrycja19   
3 Apr 2007
News / GERMAN PSYCHOPATHS INSULTING POLISH PEOPLE [95]

If they know you really dislike being calling P and they know that if they call you P, you're going to spend time and effort posting a message back to them (content is irrelevant, function over form in this case...they think. "I'm going to call her P."

They do it not to annoy, well ok, partially, but also becuase they're really lonely and if someone is spending all that time and effort posting just to them, they suddenly feel special and get that lovely warm glow inside. :)

Huegel,

lol, your point taken, but I just came online so all my attention wasnt on them
for very long because the thread was closed pretty quick.