NO MONEY NO HONEY IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN
Ya it is true almost in most cases
My parents were believing (they still do) that I am going to spoil my future if I marry her.
- She has already got a son who is 13 years old and living with her. They believe that this can cause many problems as I also don't know the overall culture well. I don't see this as a great problem. She has already talked to him and he is ready to accept me.
- Losing good job prospects (at home and also Germany)... and if something goes wrong I will be the only loser. But I am not playing a game to think of loser or winner.
- It can take some years till I understand and learn every thing and manage a normal life and better income. As a result, the life may not be so easy and smooth for her comparing to an already settled Polish man (or a well settled foreigner). She may not tolerate problems and just leave me. (losing every thing) She loves me and I hope she won't do that.
I don't agree with my family. When I compare what I am losing with what I am going to get, I have no doubt that it worths to take the risk (if a risk)
I had not initially taken her very seriously, but she made me understand that she loves me over every thing and can not live without me. She has promised to stay and fight with all difficulties and not ever give up. I started believing her and now I trust her fully. I also feel that I can not live without her. I never had such feeling for anyone ever.
I will try my best to keep her happy.