Polish Man Broke My Heart

What can I say.....we together very much and he say he love me. We suppose to be together and now he with someone else.....no explanation. I still love him and my heart hurts with aches. How do I forget him?

Try to love someone next time...who is less outgoing, less party life kinda guy.

Why am I saying this... because two planets cannot be on the same orbit.

If you understand this... you will understand what happened with you, and how to recover.

Good Luck :)

Thenks, but I no understand. He not party guy. He spend all time with me, when he not working. He leave to visit home in Poland and say he come back. He not come back. He say he with someone else now. How he can leave many days ago and look me in eye and say he love me and will be back. Now he never come back and he with other girl he just meet.:( I kurl into ball and cry all time. I miss him.:(

Please explane lonestranger what happen with me. how to recover. My heart hurts and I no want hurt any moore.:(

without knowing the entire case....it is not possible for anyone to say what went wrong....I gave an opinion there.

He's right, Broken. How long did you know him for? Did you ever meet his family or friends. Pardon me, because I don't mean to sound insensitive, but it sounds to me like he was away from home and lonely and you were there for him. Does he permanently live where you live? What's the story?

Come on, find a next one.

He live with me 4 monts. He say he love me and come back. He go to Poland and meet new girl and now live with her. I cry everyday. I want him come home.:( I love him. I no find one other.:(

At the risk of sounding insensitive, it hurts like hell but it will pass................wallowing in it however will only make it worse.

You will get through this :)

its better to have loved and lost then to never loved at all...

the grass is greener on the other side!

only time will heal your heart

Broken1, I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. That's so sad. I think you should just let yourself feel the pain because that's the only way you're going to feel better. You can't just make yourself forget someone. It takes time.

You can always find a man wh0re.......just a suggestion :)

Try me if u r in London i wont broke ur heart ill always stick on u?
what do u say girl coz i love polish women and can do anything for them except leaving this world full of beautyful polska? waiting for ur reply broken1?

Broken 1.............if I may ask, where are you from?

Hmmm......i sense a disturbance in the force.....maybe he's not really "in" to her :)

correct name is: heartbroken girl.
Sorry I’m just kidding
Smile

sara 07,

you are on a tear girl :)

Broken.

4 months is not long time. when your in love it seems like it was eternity
but it appears as though he is just finding places to stay, this new girl might
suffer the same fate as you in 4 months. Please dont beg him to come home
to you, your only setting yourself up for a second disaster which could fall and
burn in his favor again. you need to let him go, if you love him truely let him go
if he ever does return, you need to set him strait in your home, if hes coming back
its for good, no cheating or the door will hit him hard, dont let him walk all over you
or charm you because you are the strong one and he is the weak one to leave
so tell him you dont need him , theres many other handsome men out there waiting
for someone to love them too. and are ready to be Exclusive.

And while you are healing try to do something for yourself which makes you feel
good, maybe go buy a new outfit, or have a friend come over and spend some time
and do your hair, or just talk , go out for some friend time, and just relax .

where are you from broken? are you polish?

you know, i did think about that myself ... there's a certain appeal to it ... i mean, if you want hot chocolate, or champagne, or carrots, you just go and get them from Sainsbury's ... there should be a similarly convenient shop where one could just get a man ... a corner shop ... i'll have, hmm, that one tonight please. How much? Oh, OK. Here's my credit card.

They could do promotions. Buy one get one free ; )

i feel for you broken i feel your pain....best is to let him go hes no good

sorry, broken - i was too busy making stupid jokes to say what i thought about yr situation.
it feels unbearable, but you have to just let the pain go away - it will. and you will find someone who will always come home, and always be there, and always hold and love you. i am sure. trzymaj sie.

some advice:
1. do not stay at home and cry
2. do not recall best moments- recalling worst is sometimes helpful
3. repeat to yourself that HE CHOSE SOMEBODY ELSE so is not for You
4. say to yourself that he was a real ****** not to notice how special You are
5. buy something new (clothes, shoes, handbag:)) - sometimes a little helpful
6. meet Your friends and go on, if You cannot change it- accept it
Easy to give advice, but I am also in the middle of this therapy now:) and more or less it works, at least for me

Good Luck

come on guys.you forgot the ultimate cure for heartache.alcohol.and violence helps too.i trash some pub once and a while after every break up.it's therapeutical,trust me.or ask russell crowe.

hi hi hi, what university of psychology do You graduate from?? Must be experimental one:)
How are You today Broken? Any better? If not, let me invite You to my garden party- have a super brother- still single (for a moment I guess) Come on!!!

If you look at the date Broken posted it's over 12 months ago, she has moved on and possibly moved another bloke in by now....or maybe had her heart broken several times over, or stalking said heart breaker....


I did suggest kick boxing to irish deano the other day, so it's not just me that thinks it works, pheww thank god for that.. ;0)

can i come? i'm nice (too bloody nice half the time!!)

ShelleyS:
I did suggest kick boxing to irish deano the other day, so it's not just me that thinks it works, pheww thank god for that.. ;0)

Exercise of ANY sort is perfect for getting over nitwits - you have to find the power within yourself, and that will carry you anywhere. I had a baby with no pain relief and never even THOUGHT about 'pain relief' because I trusted my body and it did everything PERFECTLY. Once you find that strength in yourself, you don't need anything else. Mind you, once you find a good match and the two of you are strong together ... that really is a force to be reckoned with. I am still looking for someone (a) worthy of me (b) of whom I am worthy and (c) who understands what the hell i'm going on about ; )

well that guy was stupid. dont be dumb let him go and let love find you good luck.

Op has not returned to read this good advice!

I like julita's advice.
i too am going through a break-up. We had lots of fun together until he meets someone else and I'm just a good friend.

Hurts like heil because he was everything to me and I would have done everything for him.
He talks to her all the time, calls her up and I'm forgotten.
It's hard to mend a broken heart.