Any suggestions or advice?
First of all, finding work is going to be difficult because you are not an EU citizen. Your employer will have to apply for work permission for you, which is a costly hassle for them. IF you had real solid qualifications in something that is really in demand, they might be inclined to go though the process. But face it, you really have nothing to offer that is not already in abundant supply on the Polish job market.
As for outsourcing or call center work, the only thing you have to offer is your English, and that is not worth very much anymore UNLESS you also have expertise in some IT field. Without that, you're probably going to get stuck doing cold-call sales or first-contact bill collecting, both lousy jobs that pay peanuts. Probably too little to be worth your while.
As for other jobs, without Polish you are severely crippled. There was a time when you could make a go of it as an English teacher, but those days are gone. Not very many schools would be willing to go through the hassle of applying for work permission for a non-EU citizen anymore unless they were something real special.
Frankly, I don't see your options expanding much once you get married. At least in Poland. It would be A LOT easier for both of you to make a go of it in the States than in Poland. Financially, a move to Poland would be very hard to justify. If you're serious about getting married and all, have him explore opportunities in the States rather than exploring opportunities for yourself in Poland. If you're not serious about marriage and all, then cut him loose so that you both can find more realistic partners.