I dont see any evidence of that at all.
The Israeli government left Gaza (including evacuating settlers that didn't want to leave).
What have Palestinians done that comes close to that in terms of mutual co-existence?
Who's better off, Palestinians or Israeli Arabs?
The Israeli response is something HAMAS is delighted with.
Hamas had the support of a majority of Palestnians.
I cant see the US ever changing its colonial policy towards the middle east.
Maybe if the region ever got it's sh7t together and showed it could run itself then that wouldn't be necessary. Until then...