This is an eternal danger slavic women always threat ''I can make you fall in love in with me.''
Haha :))) I think that one is universal. Perhaps only Slavic women have to verbalize the threat not having the privilege of western women that have the advantage.
I said it few times, albeit differently. 'Before you know it your soul will be mine and you will not even hear the sound of your back(bone) inoperable rapture . hihihi...... ' Then goes his 'hahaha you're funny', ' hehe I am indeed' and then..(XX+XY)x5 ..and then one loud SNAP echoes throughout the room. not mine ;)
The key lies in a narcissistic choice of partner. Victim has to firmly believe that he found a 'soul mate', a lost twin, other half, some sort of reflection, same but with some subtle, irresistible distortions. The key is to match newly discovered traits and behaviors. Fast processing, finding likes and dislikes, adaption, adaptation that is happening with the blink of an eye, is again crucial. And you have to see his mom for the blueprinting purposes, to find the proper attachment mode ;)
If the candidate girl even physically deviates too much from the mom's stored imago (young half fantasized half real mom), story has ended in that club where it started.
The other option is that he is looking for mom's opposite. That story is more serious. Unresolved issues lie deeper than Oedipal stage which implies serious disturbances in partner functioning. And Oedipussssies are so adorable. and so willing to unsuccessfully try over and over again to get back into the womb, but ouch not mom's ;))
Sometimes he is looking for the (faded image of his childhood) dad :) Then prepare the leatherwear, whips and blood coagulants. I did uhm privately one case study. no, make that two
p.s. I hope my modest English passed over the playfulness that is the underlying motivation for this post. I truly like and admire men. I dislike very disturbed Electras only, disloyal competition ;)
And still, a confession, I am typing under influence of still not fully processed Macedonian painkillers or just killers?. that is my excuse of the day. For the life I still haven't found the good one.
p.s. I hope for the bin