As a woman I can say men with both muscles, manners and brain are the most attractive, no matter the nationality.
And besides a man like that would be a better example and father to my future kids, than let's say a skinny dude that won't even dare to kill me a chicken if I need one. If all hell breaks out, of what worth is a 'pussy' man?
In the case of zombie apocalypse (like the one where the zombies love vaccines and financial katastrofa is looming). I feel safer with power + brains by my side! <3
Trends do have a way of repeating themselves, you know! Once upcoming generations start seeing quality, they'll start aping the manners and mores of their parents, even their grandparents:-)
Same with wearing headgear. Following the Kennedy Assassination, folks here in the States stopped wearing hats, as Kennedy never wore a hat since he had such a handsome head of hair. The trend of donning a nice fedora (for employees) or a homburg (for the boss) fell out of fashion for well over fifty or more years and has only recently begun making a comeback among the wealthy sixty-plus crowd in corporate America.
In Poland, I'm certain things aren't too different.
@ScorpioArtist This is a moderate and honest comment I like.
Men with good intelligence and physical strength do exist. Perhaps they are not in high number. A man who go to the gym regularly shows he is not a lazy bastard as well.
Polish fathers seem to be usually either naturally strong and tall or body builders.
Honestly, many Polish men may be strong (gym or manual jobs) but they're often short and not particularly physically imposing. Compared to the Dutch and British, for example (who are taller on average, especially the Dutch), they're pretty diminutive. Not as much so as the Italians and Spanish, the latter of whom are often real hobbits, but they're still not on the taller side of Europe.
I've heard that those who lived under communist and fascist regimes (e.g., Spanish, Portuguese, Poles) are often shorter due to the lack of nutrition in their diets during the 20th century hard times. Whereas the Americans, those steak-and-burger-fed strapping lads, for instance, tower over them.
whereas a man to another man, with a bone-cracking grip!
If any guy tries to break my hand with a handshake, I can immediately tell he's overcompensating. Especially a little balding Polish guy. Let's have some whiskey and an arm wrestle, if you're really such a big man, lol. Pathetic.
It's always been hilarious to me. As long as a Pole (pun intended) is tall, let's say 1.85 m, he is considered "well built." Notwithstanding the fact that he may weigh 55 kg and have no muscles --- no, in Poland it doesn't count, as long as you are tall enough. Perhaps I'm wrong and Polish women actually like such "well built" men, who knows...