It's the gentleness and kindness in their voices and the soultry Slavic accents,
Yes , thats kinda what stole my heart when i first spoke to Ksusha on the phone , her Russian accent is the kind that makes your toes curl , and her soft and gentle ways along with her Russian soul made me decide she was the one for me....
Of course it would have been much more conveniant and cheaper to have fallen in love with one of the lovely Polish women i met , but love chooses its own path , and its not always the shortest or easiest one....
Making a new life with my lady in Russia will not be so easy , already our plans to be together this winter have had a setback , and it now looks like we have to wait untill spring , but nothing thats worth having in life comes easy , and we will hang in there untill we can be together....
I have no fear of Russia , or the challenge of making a life there , once we are in our home by the lake in a Russian forest , its not going to feel any different from my Polish home in the forest , apart from the fact i will be with somebody that cares about me , and who is a teacher of the language i need to learn to make a life there... My dear lady is now enrolled on a course at Moscow unversity to gain qualifications in teaching Russian to non Russians , just so she can better teach me the language....
Russia is quite different from Poland of course , but no more different then Poland was from the UK where i was born and spent most of my life , Poland was no great shock to my system , and i have no doubt i will adapt to Russian ways much more easily with the help of somebody who has lived all her life there... Russia has always held a great facination for me , the fear of the evil communists , the enemy i trained to fight against when in the military , grew into a desire to meet these strange people and discover if they really did have horns and a tail...! My chance came in 1997 when i found myself the leader and organisor of a convoy of Landrovers to Belarus to take aid to children , as well as drop my ex girlfriend off in Moscow where she was to teach English... During this trip i discovered the beauty of Russia , and the kindness of its people , i went back the following year with another convoy...It was during this trip i fell in Love with Poland , and later bought this farm here....
Long ago , i stood on the Berlin wall , looking at the enemy over the other side...If you had told me then that one day i would be living the wrong side of this wall , and marrying a Russian and living there , i would have said you were out of your mind , but the world has changed so much since those days , mostly due to a bunch of brave Poles who were willing to risk everything for their countries freedom....I can understand those Poles who think i am crazy to want to go to Russia , and that the Russians are not to be trusted...
Russia did not exactly do Poland any favours in the past , but this was due to the system , not the Russian people , they after all suffered from it too...For those of you who have never met any Russians i can promise you they are no different from any other humans...As the song goes...the Russians love their children too...
I shall miss Poland very much , very much more than i miss the UK in fact , i have made some very special friends here , and they alone will cause me to return here...It was here in Poland that i learnt country ways , and grew to love the quiet peace of the forest and the wildlife and nature , i can never be a city boy again , although i shall be residing in Moscow center for a while untill we move to the house by the lake in the summer...
If any of you are brave enough to meet the scarey Russians you will be welcome to visit us in Russia , our house will have room for guests , and you can experiance the wildlife of the Russian forests as well as the wild life in Moscow....
I will keep you all enthralled with tales of life in the Federation and you can be sure i will be back in Poland with my Russian wife some day soon , she has never been to Poland , in fact never been outside of Russia , other than to the Ukraine so that will be an adventure for her too... watch this space...!!!!
Thank you to all of you that have posted such nice words on here...you will not be forgotton...