POLISH GIRLS... wake up and prove you are respectable....

Still you would misunderstand and remain heartbroken ... because you know not what you want ... you know not who you are ...

Women and women can fight aswell ... they mistrust each other aswell. Lets not think silly on this.

There is no such thing as a men or mars and women of venus. Its all crap. Its just that confused people love to remain in confusion, and never give that good man who really could love them a chance!

You know that's the most sensible thing you've said all day...

I don't mind you talking matters of the heart... but in some contexts it just sounds bonkers!

You need to realize ... that there remains nothing else but this single solution ... and hearts which beat have those solutions. Just we need to let the solutions come ... and not be a stone.

What about angry hearts...?

Hearts ache ... anger comes from the brain. You will feel your brain getting heated when its anger playing its role!

Those who break hearts ... it aches for that consequence. Just be careful who you love ... be sure that he loves you. It is always a better thing to go to the person who loves you ... not the person who you love (initially). Eventually you will fall in love with the person who actually loves you truly and responsibly ... who wants a family with you. Its a deep philosophy. Think about it.

Thank you, I think you're right...

Some are born reckless...

Lodz, I am a woman. between a poor man with nothing in his hands and a man with money in one of his hands and a gun in his other hand. I am not given much time to think about this. Am I free to chose?

Its your life ...

However, in your profile says you are male?... :D ... Gender issues dude?

I am not counselor ...

He uses turkish expressions.For example I am a woman instead of ''suppose I am a woman.''
Anyway polish women will not find themselves respectable in the western world.

Don't you know women are liars.

It is my life? We were talking about the love, not the life. So, you are threatening life of a woman with a gun. You are scary.

Ok, I am not interested in the poor man with nothing in his hands. He is not handsome, not sexy, not young anyway though I am still in between him and the other man. Ok, I'll take the money in his hand of the man with the gun in his other hand. Does he have any condition?

Now I don't care. Its enough of anti-racism and relationship advices for me for this week :D ...

Good Lord ... live your life people! ... what you get is what you chose!

Take care...

Choked? Ok, I too am about anti-racism. But, while superpower guys of the world are being racists, their advices to women to be anti-racists are unbelievable, that shows their weakness of those guys who expect women to do the man work for them.

So, Polish girls, wake and prove you are respectable? They already are respectable like most of girls of the world. They don't need to anything else more. Lets see if these superpower guys of the world are brave enough to push on the buttons of their products, nukes, or not.

No no u are totally wrong,polish new generation i means students are Well aware about there honor and respect.

Love should never be conditioned on the fact of possessing money. If it is, it's not love, it's the selling and buying deal. I understand that sometimes a guy who does not have anything lacks qualities like diligence, resourcefulness or even liability, but there are guys with money who lack the above all the same.

How comes. Guys lacking all those qualities should not be able to have any money like that guy without any money cause he lacks those qualities. Somethings illogical here.

@NomadatNet: I said: sometimes. All I meant was that sometimes the lack of money may indicate a lack of certain qualities, but not necessairly. I was trying to say that I understand that from the fact of having money some women may conclude about the personality of a man, yet making it one of the reasons whether or not they would "love" someone does not convince me at all

Sometimes? That poor guy "always" need to possess those qualities to have money? while those guys with money don't need to have those qualities? Still illogical.

they do! that's why I've been saying all along that the qualities not the money are important :) I think you've mistaken me for someone who agrees that money should be considered when choosing a partner, while I am whole-heartedly the opposite

Those men with money do "always" or "sometimes" need to have those qualities?
You had said the poor man without money "sometimes" may lack those qualities.

(you are not behaving equally to them two men with money and without money. you pitying poor man!? hence, you trying to be nice?)

I'm not trying to be nice. I am nice. It can 'sometimes' be a burden though.
People - women or men - are 'always' required to have qualities other than material possessions. Money is often used as a patch where the real values are missing.

Apart from the 'poor/rich guy' matter you are focusing on and which I seem to be unable to explain, I also said in my post:


That's my point.

What other qualities you had in mind?

My hubby is Polish. Last year at Valentines he gave me a tackle box filled with used lures and fishing worms that he no longer wanted but didn't want to throw away, plus a Frisbee so he could take me to the park to play (like I was a puppy or something!). Needless to say, it wasn't well received!

Are all Polish guys like that?

any other really, I'm sure you can think of a couple ;)

Main mistake of women who usually does is to pity poor man and they try to be nice to them (when walking away from them.. ) Usually, they are men with money without qualities who are to be pitied. But, training them such men is not a woman work, it is man work!

Love? should not be condition on possessing money? Maybe. Reality? What will you do if you were between two men; a poor man with nothing in his hands and a man with money in one of his hands and a gun in his other hands? It is like love in one hand and hate in other hand. This is not a rare thing in the life, everywhere is like such love scenes visibly or invisibly. Who is this poor with nothing in his hands? (maybe, those men with money but without qualities need to answer this.)

I would choose the one I love, whether he's poor or he holds a gun. Crazy as it sounds, but that's the honest answer.


The practical (materialistic?) attitude towards life is probably more reasonable, but it's awfully boring. Although it all depends on what one is expecting from life - some have needy pockets, others - needy hearts.

Do you think money should be considered when choosing a partner? Cause I still can't figure it out from your posts.

Poor doesn't have money at all to be able to have a gun.
So, you can love even a man who can threaten a life as it seems that you don't see any difference between a poor one with nothing in the hands and with gun in his hand? If this is honest, then, you were not honest when you were saying the quality in men is important (I am not talking methaphoric here.) - Ok, forget these now..


Love or Money. This is given choice to women, isn't it? (Who gives? Any freedom in that?)
Honestly, don't be fool, chose one of them. (I'll take the other.)

I know several polish girls who got extremely angry and they started CRYING when I told them that in Africa the HIV infection rate in men is over 60%... They don;t talk to me anymore, simply for pointing out the obvious truth.

They feel probably very much in love with the nigerians they slept with and falled in love with,,,

Guys, you see here?
When your minds are at food, their minds are at somewhere else.
When your minds are at somewhere else, their minds are at food.
You can't do any serious work with these women under these conditions.
As if our hard workings not enough, they are still making fun of us.
This can't go like that. Any suggestion?

unfortunately i have to agree that Polish girls dont respect themselves.when i see my girlfriends wearing ugly clothes, showing off their bodies (as if there was something nice to show), behaving like total ... i feel ashamed that i am Polish cause this is how foreigners see us.

So why do you hang around with girls who have ugly clothes and poor bodies? Surely, a goddess like yourself should have higher standards.....