ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS?

Oh really? And why do you think so many Russian ladies are looking for a partner elsewhere then?

Genius.

Because western men are a bunch of fools.

Wow, another classic generalisation! Compare what your average Scot spends on a foreign woman and that which you'd fork out, KP. Then we'll talk.

Seanus, you're very very lucky you have found such a nice and sincere Polish woman and got married...
look at all those poor poor guys, who were not that lucky, and found only the Polish girls who wait for them to spare them even 2 bucks... and never have enough...!

i feel sorry for you guys... life is not fair, and Polish, gold digging chicks should burn in hell for your broken hearts...
LOL

;)
*... using the words "a woman" and "girls" is not accidental...

Merged: Are Polish and Eastern European Women Just Money Oriented?

The few Eastern European girls, mainly of polish origin that I have met through them being here in england or partying in amsterdam seem to be driven by money. Whether its by having relationships with men who earn a good wage or with out being judged I have encounted a few of these girls who sell their bodies in exchange of being in the company of men which could lead to consentual sex (escorts/escorting).

I do find eastern european women highly attractive and before my experiance's with eastern european women I assumed that the women from eastern europe was the type of women to be "house wifes" and stay at home and raise the kids. Dont get me wrong im not a sexist and I would never expect that from any relationship, it was just something I presummed. I just have concerns that if I do have relationships with women from eastern europe I would like to think that the female would like my personality and looks before my wealth.

Maybe I just have insecurities about eastern european womens intentions for relationships and I would rather not waste my time in pursuing some one that might leave me for some one who is wealthier, I can understand that if both the male and female understand the foundation of the relationship, These kinds of arrangements can work but its not something that I am interested in.

Kids are not high priority for many women/couples.

Many women here put career first.

This 'house wife' thingy is BS for the most part when it comes to young women here.

Not perhaps a typical Polish woman.

I am about to marry a Russian lady...she is not the slightest bit bothered i am not rich , she loves me and thats the only thing she considers important...

Yes there are plenty of gold diggers out there...of all nationalities , but there are also a lot of really nice women...just got to be a bit carefull....

You presume a lot, I on the other hand presume that you’re tight with money as the title of your thread seems to suggest which leads me to one logical conclusion - no Polka for you.

so you are suggesting to get polka you have to spend money?

no i am not tight with money but i am a 50% owner of a small buisness but i do have ambitions and dreams of making much more and i would like to know what motivates eastern european women into having relationships with men who are foreign to them.

i do like career motivated women, and i find that women of eastern european origin speak more than 1 language which is another positive thing in some one i would like to have relationship with.

i take positives from WILDROVER future marriage to a russian women, and i hope you two can remain happy throught the course of the marriage.

What I’m suggesting is that in order to have any meaningful relationship with a woman no matter what nationality she is you have to throw away your bias and negative stereotypes. The statement you have made suggested that all East European women are gold-diggers and tramps and that my friend is not going to get you a date anytime soon no matter what nationality she happens to be or how loaded you think you are but it does speak of your character a great deal, ever heard of a fvcking prenup? Since you already passed judgment and have such a low opinion of them then what I have actually suggested is that you start looking elsewhere, perhaps even to your own family so that your fortune stays in the family but I did not want to be so blunt.

Edit: It's Polka, capital.

They aren't legal in the country he lives in.

Seeing as how the vast majority of Polish women have relationships with Polish men whose average salary in Poland is $11,273 as of 2010 then I'd say no.

Kaliningrad girl? or you got her in mainland Russia ? ;)

Dont get me wrong but eastern european women DO want "to be house wives" simply by their nature and nurture, THIS is why they want men with MONEY and NOT because they want to be escords. personality only coutns if you have family relationship MORALS and they CANT stand a guy who thinks that he looks better then them.

REALLY?

Well Polish woman are not moremoney orientated than english. And sellong their bodies - this is equally common in uk where the english and other nation women arehaving these' type of relationshiP. Yes polishwoman are home orientated but they are as well business driven .... And like to be independent, Which for many unfortunatelly means to forget for moment about the morals for the moment. But for some, whther russian english india or polish it is a sadly only way as a discrimination and glass sealing still exist in uk and other EU countries

i see polish women more faithful then other eastern.

I'm not saying it in a bad way, my first Polish girlfriend came from a relatively poor family and I couldn't have loved her more, she was an amazing person in so many ways.

Generally slavic women go for money.What differs is the context.Polki prefer to get small amounts of money from several boyfriends while Russkaye search for one rich boyfriend who usually has a harem.

A 50% of polish women do not go for money because they go for marriage and know that if they ask for money their marriage prospects will be ruined.So you choose either marriage or money in any case the deal is way better than with mediteranean women.

If I only knew how many women are ready to open their flower for little money I would be constantly loaded.

Lol, okay .. what is that deal? And why's it so bad?

Because you overpay.And with mediteranean women you get the goodies after you pay while polish give them before in order to make you fall in their trap.Anyway I manage to survive.

You guys have really Good relantionships

She lives and works in Moscow.

I should quit my job and studies and look for some rich dutch guy lol.

I think the problem is the point of view, still different mentality. Even If we're talking about silly things like paying for a dinner in restaurant. It's changing with time, especially in young generation but most of polish women are just grew up with traditional image of a man - as householder. It's clear that money means a sense of security BUT It doesn't mean that they try to catch the richest man in the neighborhood. I have never met this kind of polish woman in my life.

I want to be independent but I woudn't feel comfortable with feeling that I earn more than my partner. I suspect It's all because of way of raising and authority of my father.

I'm thinking how does It look now in polish way of thinking? Would you (polish men) like to earn less than your wife/partner?

And next thing, I agree that polish women are more "house wifes" type but we shouldn't generalize all women. I know a lot of exeptions:)

Dating expenses you are supposed to cover in all cases with slavic women.What is more Ukrainky ask for presents and Polki for rent money or support money.Cesky do not ask for presents but you have to cover all other expenses.

The difference is that Polki spend most of the money on vital items like rent,food etc while Russkaye spend it on cosmetics,make-up,fashion clothes etc.

What is important is what you get in return for your investment.In all slavic women cases the returns are more than satisfactory and unless you avoid scams usually prevalent in eastern Ukraina you can be sure about the quality of return.Generally Polki do not scam as it is a must that the offer does take place before the counter offer while in pravoslavny world the scam is possible but always balkan power prevails.

So we have to drink in the health of Polki,Cesky and Ukrainky who provide us these special moments proving that females are still females.

sorry for maybe peoples misconceptions of my post, i am not tight with money and most certainly not trying to degrade females from eastern europe, i believe money is for spending i have no misconceptions about my mortality i live every day but also plan for tomoro incase i am fortunate enough to see tomoro, if you can understand that? but if i am fortunate enough to live a long live i would like to spend it with some one worth while. i think men and women can both appreciate that it is better to have mutual love in a relationship rather than having a relationship of convienience?

maybe i have offended you which wasnt my intentions, iam fascinated by the culture of the women from eastern europe and want to know more about the women from these cultures. i have heard and witnessed a few things BUT MY MIND IS STILL VERY OPEN and i want to know what to expect from women from this different type of culture, if i ever have the privilage to date a women from eastern europe background.


thank you for your input you have given me something to think about, im not saying iam looking for a "house wife" or "slave" but i would like to know what to expect of the culture and as i pressumed morals and family relationships mean alot to Polish women, something that means a lot to me too, thanks!


what do you mean by this?


i hope you have success through your studies, i have met a few polish men through the type of buisness that i am heavily involved in (security) and alot of people from this country i live give people from poland a tough time because they say they are stealing their jobs, i dont agree with this at all. i think it shows how strong the character of the polish man is to move to another country, learn another language and being able to deal with people looking down upon them constantly all to get a better life for them and there family here and back! to me, that is special.

thank you for your input in helping me understand abit more of women from your culture :)

Morals do not mean much for polish women.Moral instability is a common feature of slavic world and it is wrong to judge them on that.(no protestant ethics).

Yup, that's true. But like I said - in polish society is normal. At least It was.


And I think It should be the ending of our conversation.

Anyway, I'm happy that most of polish young women are able to connect family-life with getting a good education.

that seems to be the case these days. Polish women are quite ambitious.