My Polish bf cheated on me with a black girl

it's all fake to begin with

once you go black you can never go back!!!! is he aware of that?

he's idiot! meeting a girl in AFRICA? maybe he wants to have HIV?

maybe your xbf doesnt know what he's doing. haha.

so, and what if she was a white girl?

i really dont feel sorry for you. if he had cheated on you with a white girl would you mention her ethnicity or skin color. FIRST OF ALL THERE IS ONLY ONE HUMAN RACE and no matter how much you think of yourself as better than her because she is Black, we are all the same. Why did you keep mentioning her skin color in your post. i get the feeling like you see yourself as better than her because of your ethnicity. THAT IS JUST STUPID and it makes you look like a whiny self-entitled person....which is why quite a few people here do not feel sorry for you. are you Chinese?

I am American with some black ancestry... my ex boyfriend is Japanese and he cheated on me with another american girl with some white ancestry. when i told my friends i told them about her and her name not her god damned skin color as it really doesnt matter and CHEATERs come in all shades. whether you admit it or not, you think that you are better than her with your short little body, small eyes, yellow skin and black straight hair. do not get me started. I think that all people are beautiful but if you sit here and try to make it sound like you are better than another woman because of your ethnicity then many people will not like you and maybe your ex boyfriend saw that ugly part of you and that was the reason why he lost interest in you.

he's probably going to get scammed. take this from an African. there are many africans, needing money so they pretend to be "girls" and "fall in love" with americans or europeans and dupe them. tell him not to be stupid. i'm from Ghana.

Yea, only Nigeria is better then Ghana. This is their anthem:

youtube.com/watch?v=f1nKR3gYRY8&feature=fvwrel

Oops, it got really important to him, then. Going to Africa is a serious undertaking. But skin colour had nothing to do with it, really.

well... one cannot eat caramel all the time. mixing it with a dark chocolate is a good thing.

Think of it as of romantic exploration. An incident. Forget it. You would anyway plot your revenge on hm in a kind of similar fashion and you would again feel you are most beautiful woman, loved, secure, etc what you must feel.

Just a find new boyfriend. I can advise you some dating tips.

Oh yes please let us know your secrets.

Who cares?

Your bigger love would prevent his future mistakes.

Okay so how is this thread a thing almost a decade after the original post?

In any case, I might as well reply, although it is certain the OP is in a different place in their life 8 years on. Perhaps for the benefit of others reading this. I for one would never cheat on any of my past girlfriends and currently my wife - not while we are in a healthy relationship, no excuses, even if they were Scandinavian supermodels eager to jump in my bed, all at once or individually.

There needs to be a mutual respect and reciprocity in a relationship if it is to achieve anything in the long term, and that is eventually starting a family.