I'm not playing with him.
My guess is that he became aware of the high rate of scamming that the Philippines are infamous for.
They post provocative pictures of young Asian women on the internet looking for a husband.
Then when they get a reply from some Horny old many they bleed him for $thousands$ to get their V.I.S.A.'s to come to the Suckers home country to get married.
Then once the Scammer milks the poor guy for all he is worth.... POOF ! the little skinny bride disappears and moves on to the next idiot.
And the girls that do get married to these clowns only last long enough to get their citizenship out of the Philippines and Walla, divorce time taking all they can get.
This happens more time than not here in the U.S.A.so my guess and opinion is that your Polish "Mark' smelled a rat.
I'm very serious when it comes to dating..
Thats what they all say.
Can I ask you why you haven't found a nice Pilipino boy by the age of 24 ?
My old aged wisdom tells me because they are all very poor and you are looking for $$$$$$.