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What do Asian boys think about Polish girls? :) (and vice versa)


JustysiaS 13 | 2,239
29 Jan 2010 #61
based on my other experience with many my asian guy friend, they seem really admire white girls ( include polish girl of course ), they often set white girl picture in their desktop wallpaper and cell phone wallpaper, ask me about my white girl friends, decorate their room with white girl celebrity poster, etc .

so they don't like Shilpa Shetty :)

btw it seems you're rather jealous your Asian friend fancies your 'unattractive' Polish friend but not you

They sometime just too shy and don't have any brave to ask the girl ( including the handsome miroslav klose look ha2 ). I don't know, probably their asian culture make them a little bit shy, i just think sometime that they don't realize their charm :)

ohhhhhh the things you would do to him if he asked YOU out
dita - | 3
29 Jan 2010 #62
Why should i jealous? I am a hot beautiful girl, and i have my own guy...ha3 just joking friends, i am a nice cute girl you know :)
Exiled 2 | 425
29 Jan 2010 #63
Japanese are unbelievable.They imitate every movement you make every word you say.I knew one Japanese and he told the girls exactly the same words I told them.Great imitators.
SeanBM 35 | 5,806
29 Jan 2010 #64
.I knew one Japanese and he told the girls exactly the same words I told them.Great imitators.

When does he get out of prison?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239
29 Jan 2010 #65
Why should i jealous? I am a hot beautiful girl, and i have my own guy...ha3 just joking friends, i am a nice cute girl you know :)

attention seeker then, yawn
dita - | 3
1 Feb 2010 #66
Thx anyway
Hyacinthus 1 | 20
11 Mar 2010 #67
polish girls are really nice,i mean some of them,not all.
But guys are much nicer :-)))
Exiled 2 | 425
11 Mar 2010 #68
Polish girls need donkey cocks these days.As a non evoluted tool Asians are left far behind.(you don't want to get into the well,do you?)
skysoulmate 14 | 1,294
11 Mar 2010 #69
Can we go back to the topic of this thread please?

Are there any Korean/Japanese/Chinese/Thai etc men who find Polish women attractive or date them? What do you think about us?

Not sure if this will count but my PA (physician assistant - whenever I go to a doctor) has Polish heritage (I think she was a little girl when they moved to the US) and she married a Japanese man (he's lived in the States for about 10 years). They are exactly the same hight, she's blond, he's dark brown or black maybe, both very well educated, inteligent and they seem to be very much in love. I'm a runner and I see them on the trails all the time; they are a great looking couple. Their kids are gorgeous too...
speakoftruth
23 Mar 2010 #70
I'm an Asian American, of Chinese/Vietnamese heritage and I do find Polish women to be attractive. My two previous Girlfriends has been of Polish background, although both were a few generation deep in American culture. The things I love about them were their sense of humor and overall spark for life. Also had a great love for their families. It was unfortunate things didn't work out for us because of my career(lots of travel). Although I'm dating an Hispanic woman now, it doesn't mean I find Polish women any less attractive :)
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #71
Merged: Polish Girls & Asian Boys ( UK )

I live in the west midlands and am an 18 year old 3rd generation Asian. ( So basically as typical english as you can get, barring skin colour )

I've noticed a fair few polish girls going for asian ( south asian ) boys, not all, but they do get quite a lot of attention. Rather than white english, or even polish boys.

I also started chatting to a beautiful polish girl a year back who i dated for a while, but never really got to know as it was a long distance relationship. But now i've started seeing her again i just want to understand polish girls more ( i know it's naive to stereotype a whole nationality under a few characteristics ) but surely the polish culture/society instills strong values on its men & women.

Could it be because traditionally Asians have strong relationship/marriage morals ( monogamous ) very low divorce rates etc. , and generally have a good wealth.
Or is it simply because they want to 'rebel' against the norm, or what their parents may agree with ?

Suggestions, experience and knowledge would be really appreciated here :)
Wroclaw Boy
8 Nov 2010 #72
Could it be because traditionally Asians have strong relationship/marriage morals ( monogamous ) very low divorce rates etc. , and generally have a good wealth.
Or is it simply because they want to 'rebel' against the norm, or what their parents may agree with ?

I think those that are only interested in money see Asians as an easier target that and many Poles often end up in the poorer areas, these are generally inhabited by Asians in the UK so they will mix with them more so than whites.
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #73
The girl i was seeing, goes to a catholic school with a huge majority of whites - and lives in an area full of whites. Also asians in our town are a tiny minority.

I understand your point for areas where it's majorly populated by asians ( such as birmingham ) but where i live, it's not.
DarrenM 1 | 77
8 Nov 2010 #74
Asian British Indian or Asian Pakistani? (I intentionally omit the British prefix to Pakistani because they have NEVER regarded themselves as British)

Makes a BIG difference, you and i both know it!!
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #75
It's generally muslims ( althrough most are from india, not pakistan ).
but i think that's only because indians ( as in sikhs/hindu ) are a really really really tiny minority especially where i live. And they have stricter families that wouldn't let them date girls before marriage. My family are really liberal, have an english uncle and aunt on different sides of the family as well. We're really relaxed for an indian family.

And to be honest it doesn't really matter what you regard yourself, most people see someone with brown skin and assume they are asian.
Polonia1 3 | 52
8 Nov 2010 #76
but surely the polish culture/society instills strong values on its men & women.

Poland is the most homogeneous nation in europe....as a result of this, naturally, the culture and traditions place more emphasis on staying w/ ones own.......going against the grain in most cases is seen as a bit taboo.......but anyway thats my interpretation.
yuaelt - | 12
8 Nov 2010 #77
going against the grain in most cases is seen as a bit taboo

I wouldn't go that far, in all cases I know or ever heard of (and there were several) the worst that happened was aunties whinnying over Sunday afternoon tea and cake that "she went on and married that guy who can't speak a word of Polish, and ohhh, how are the kids going to look like!" since mixed kids are usually cute, and most of the "exotic" husbands learn to say "dzien dobry" and "dziekuje", sooner or later the issue dies natural death.

religion may turn out to be a much much bigger problem! Polish don't know Muslims, for most of them Islam almost equals Arabic countries that in turn equal mistreating women and terrorism. that's what you should take into account, not your skin color. ;)
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #78
The ones I know ( as an asian in uk ) are very hot, respectful, down to earth; and loyal in a relationship. We need more over here :D

The majority of people think of brown dudes / Asians as muslim and all the same. The more educated people are fine, but there is still a huge lack of understanding about religions and culture In many parts of the uk.
yuaelt - | 12
8 Nov 2010 #79
well then, the only question that remains is if your girl's family is educated ;) and if it doesn't seem to be, if you can provide the lacking knowledge...

all in all, what seems to put off most Polish in Asians is that to Polish, Asian people often appear as having double standards. While you are trying your best to show good decorum in front of her, she will take it as your true and only face, and if you turn out to be a different person in your family life, she will take it as if you have lied to her!

Of course Polish do differentiate between official and private behavior too, but it's to much lesser extent. The more serious your relationship gets, the more "private" self you are expected to reveal, REGARDLESS of the fact if you're already married or not even planning. I think being 3rd generation living in UK you probably won't have problems of this sort, but still it is a known issue, and the reason for most breakups and divorces, so you might as well remember ;)
Wroclaw Boy
8 Nov 2010 #80
We need more over here

You're encouraging immigration to the UK?
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #81
Well I specifically mean my area as it's boring with just the same types of people and no real culture except the classless English culture of drinking and fighting. Personally I feel the more different types of people we have in the uk, the better. Many places are already very multicultural but it's really uneven. I.e I was the only non white person in my classes throughout school and college , where's in some schools it's uncommon to see many white people.

Of course Polish do differentiate between official and private behavior too, but it's to much lesser extent.

Hmm maybe. but these girls seem to go out with the "badboys" rather than intellectual schoolkids. (like most girls i supose )
DarrenM 1 | 77
8 Nov 2010 #82
classless English culture of drinking and fighting.

Strange, im sure you said earlier that you were 'Typically English' in all but skin colour.
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #83
Yes in terms of mannerisms, general behaviour and language use etc. What I do recreationally is a different thing altogether.

All i meant was that there is no real culture or multi-culture where i live- except traditional 'Working Class' ones due to the towns manual labour history and lack of integration ( it's like being stuck in the 70's, really ). Unlike places like birmingham where it's enriched with a huge diversity of people, different types of music, bars, restaraunts, entertainment, activities, nightlife etc.

Anyway, so many topics in this forum go off track ! This is a discussion about Polish girls, not immigration 'issues' lol.
southern 74 | 7,074
8 Nov 2010 #84
Polish girls have low standards,date very average looking men and are very easy to be fooled.
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #85
Well that's quite some generalisation ! Many are very good looking and therefore can get about any guy they wish, so why is it that they chose asians ?! Mind you, there are plenty of good looking asian dudes, what are you trying to say ?! lol..
southern 74 | 7,074
8 Nov 2010 #86
Because they are stupid.They believe the fairy tales.Of course I as superior Balkan do not have a problem despite the distrust coming from my superiority.

If I am in the UK I don't expect the British to aknowledge the cultural enrichment I bring.Contrary to that I expect to be viewed as second rank.Of course I will fight to impose my superiority but I may lose.

Anyway polish girls have peculiar opinions about various nationalities and do not follow the usual rank system based on appearance wealth which is 1.Germanic,2.Mediteranean,3.Slavic,4.third worldler.The above rank system is used all over western Europe and southern Europe.
Barr_2009 1 | 252
8 Nov 2010 #87
so where is Celtic in that ranking? I'm part Germanic part Celtic ;)
WhyMedSchool 6 | 35
8 Nov 2010 #88
My parents are from India but I was born and raised in Canada. In university I met my future Polish wife (who came to Canada when she was 8). I'm writing this to basically say that there are an infinite number of ways for two people to find each other. To generalize that Polish girls get with Indian guys for whatever reason is just ignorant. Ultimately it's between those two people and everybody else can suck it. I don't really understand why these threads keep popping up - does it really matter who a Polish girl (or any girl for that matter) chooses to date???
kingofsat - | 16
8 Nov 2010 #89
You sound like an arrogant little prick to be quite blunt with you.

I'm arrogent? You're the one who just insulted me for absolutely no reason and called me a prick. talk about hypocrisy. Real mature mate, nice one - i'm sure English people have a great name for themselves with loonies like you on this board.

they have NEVER regarded themselves as British)

Ignorance at it's finest, I know plenty of pakistanis who are proud to be British. Like it or not, anybody with a British citizenship is considered British. Doesn't matter if you are 1st, 3rd, 4th generation - we are ALL the same, but just have different backgrounds. This whole "Them" and "Us" culture is what's fueling the social unrest between different minority groups, stop believing everything the tabloid papers tell you my friend.

does it really matter who a Polish girl (or any girl for that matter) chooses to date???

Good post and fair point
DarrenM 1 | 77
8 Nov 2010 #90
we are ALL the same,

Then why did you refer to the English as if you weren't on of them.

This whole "Them" and "Us" culture is what's fueling the social unrest between different minority groups

Again I reiterate my point. Why did you refer to the English as if you weren't one of them.

One second you are 'typically English' apart from the skin colour the next minute you refer to the English as drunken thugs lacking class, culture and an openess or understanding of other religions.

I am accutely aware of the many great aspects of being British, like racial and religious tolerance, the very tolerance and acceptance of other religions that affords other races and religions to build minarets that adorn the skylines of British cities. Likewise, I'm accutely aware of my countrymen's failings but I don't come on this board making derisory comments about the country of my birth.

You are a jumped up little 18 year old with zero life experience and you have the audacity, yes arrogance to puport to know the British as a whole and make disparaging comments in an attempt to distance yourself and try to curry favour.

So whats it to be. British? Warts and all.....Or British in passport only??

Oh and I don't read the tabloids, I can't turn the pages because of my injured knuckles that drag on the floor.

18 year old 3rd generation Asian.

If we are all the same then why did you refer to yourself as a West Midlands Asian and not a British Englishman of Asian descent????


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