In all of these situations a simple " I am very sorry" would probably do the trick- but no.
Pip, I feel you woman- i really do!
Been married to one for a long time now and sometimes I'm at my wits' end with such behaviour.
For me ,unfortunately, it runs in the wife's family-she takes after her father!
They are never wrong and apology is not a way of getting along but seen as a sign of weakness.
The way of solving a problem is sweeping it under the carpet and hope it somehow disappears even though it remains visible.
Accountability does not exsist.My experience is that the ones who live in the 10 big cities are quite different from the ones that are scattered around the
country in small towns and villages.The good thing is when u get to know them they will even tell you that people in Warsaw are not real Poles coz they're all
after money. The ones who are at least receptive are those who have looked at themselves from an outsider's point of view.
Those who are too much of themselves are the most difficult. In the workplaces- it's a nightmare!
One worker wouldn't even admit responsibility for coming to work drunk- it wasn't his fault. The list is endless.
Not all are like this but i think i am right to say that most are because most of them will admit that it's typical Polish behaviour.