I observed this today at the gas station. A man parked his car too close to a second car so he literally had to squeeze himself out and of course the door was touching. The owner of the car came over and basically asked why he did this and checked for damage. Of course the first guy got angry and said to the second guy that he should get psychiatric help.
After witnessing this I was thinking of a few other situations. I was leaving a parking lot and had just gotten into my car. A woman pulled up beside me and as she was opening her door the wind caught it and slammed into my car. I got out and looked at it and she started screaming at me because the wind caught the door.
Next example, my mother in law. There are actually far too many to mention but one that sticks out is she was baby sitting my daughter at the time and she cut her hair. I told her that she is my daughter and I decide who and when her hair gets cut. Of course she started to cry because it was all my fault.
Anyway- is this a Polish thing? Making something that is your fault -somebody elses fault. In all of these situations a simple " I am very sorry" would probably do the trick- but no. So many people cannot do this.
After witnessing this I was thinking of a few other situations. I was leaving a parking lot and had just gotten into my car. A woman pulled up beside me and as she was opening her door the wind caught it and slammed into my car. I got out and looked at it and she started screaming at me because the wind caught the door.
Next example, my mother in law. There are actually far too many to mention but one that sticks out is she was baby sitting my daughter at the time and she cut her hair. I told her that she is my daughter and I decide who and when her hair gets cut. Of course she started to cry because it was all my fault.
Anyway- is this a Polish thing? Making something that is your fault -somebody elses fault. In all of these situations a simple " I am very sorry" would probably do the trick- but no. So many people cannot do this.