wow thank you to all! Very helpful!
Did you pay on regular basis like every month and how much? Was it 500 a month or less?
I send her in average 1500PLN. Plus everytime i go there i buy her clothes, medicines, and other extras. Besides the troller, car seat and all the furniture that is in a room of a house that i'm not allowed to enter!
She is just using you mate!
I Know that, and i have an sms in my phone where she clearily says she only wants money from me. Question is, what can the court do about it?
and by the way, even think that you can win the case
For sure not. A foreigner living outside Poland against a polish mother and daughter living in Poland? Never.
Did you try to speak to her mind?
Everytime i try that but her hate is so big that she refuses everything and she actually thinks that she is behaving correctly.
shouting the same mantra 'money or child!' (and, on the side, whispering to her daughter 'Your father is a f*ck up don't deal with him)
That is my concern...
Maybe you could open her a college fund instead?
I think this would be great idea. I want my daughter to have access to everything. But for sure she is using some of this money for her own benefict. How do I know if the money i send is being used only for my daughter? I can't track that. And she refused to show me any bills or invoices. Any info on this?
I don't see that she is to blame for refusing to move to the foreign county, specially when pregnant and you are not-married. I would say that have been sensible
What seems better? Stay in Switzerland, earn 25k PLN, be sure that the 3 of us have financial stability (besides the other great things that Switzerland can offer). Or coming back to Poland, only with my salary earning 5 times less and try to mantain 3 people just because she wants to live with her mother and stay next to her friends?
More important than everything is my daughter. She is fine now. But i wont see her first steps like i didnt see her first teeth growing, etc etc.
I'm afraid that polish law goes against foreigners "blindly". At the end i could lose contact with her, lose money and my daughter will grow with her mother telling tham Im the "bad guy"