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Last Post: 22 Jul 2011
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Speaks Polish?: Enough to avoid the inlaws... ;)
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Ashleys mind   
12 Apr 2011
Australia / Secret gems (Good places to have a beer) in Melbourne Australia [20]

you've moved to broady? for serious? oh my gawd (said in best ethnic northern suburbs accent).

It has it's own unique Northern charm... it will either rub off on me or I'll rub off on it. (But living 5 minutes from work is the real draw card.)

there is also e-55 on elizabeth st, good beer on tap, couches and laid back.

Yep. Sounds good after a hard days work. :)

im probably alot older than your good self young lady.

Probably. ;)

already found a man?

Let's just say I need a man as much as I have a man... does that makes any sense?

hahaha...may have to try that one.

Yeah, just don't start leaving large heart-shaped cut-outs in the classifieds... :S

Lodz..

Australia *is* a separate continent. Not part of Asia geographically or otherwise. Part of Australasia as far as an eco-political entity is concerned though...

7. Australia - this one always confuses me.

Don't worry, we stand alone in doing that to a lot of people. :S

But really I think Australia *is* a clear example of a continental landmass... purely because it *is* a major land mass (How does 7686850 sq km sound?), and simply because it *does* stand alone as a ''large, continuous, discrete mass of land, separated by an expanse of water..."

I assume all continents have to adhere to some definition, but this seems to change relative to their relationship with other land masses they are adjacent to... which is why there are differing numbers of continents according to which definition you use...

There is some overlap with major tectonic boundaries though.. But the confusion is when Continental ''boundaries'' *aren't* incident with these tectonic boundaries... then it can become a little arbitrary as to where Continents stop and new ones begin... such as the case with Europe, The British Isles and ''Eurasia''...

So in this case, I can throw the question right back to you and ask:
Is Europe in "Asia" or is it a separate continent?

Aren't *you* in fact living in Eurasia?

;)
Ashleys mind   
7 Apr 2011
Australia / Secret gems (Good places to have a beer) in Melbourne Australia [20]

docklands hardly the slums, posh some may say.

I decided to shorten the commuting distance to Broady, by, well, moving to Broady. :S

pour the jokes on broady...just dont go looking for any ham.

I've switched to Lamb.

Follow the smoke haze, got it. :)

who you going with?

I'll tell you when you're older... ;)

id suggest catching up but not sure how i explain to my gf that im meeting up with a woman from the internerd.

Don't be silly. You can tell her you found me in a magazine article. :P
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

What would you like to know...? I think that after 1000 posts (Yes I know I know, thank you, it's been a pleasure) I've fairly well expressed my personal views on a lot of things.

I just don't see why you're all strung out about some photos... personally. ;)

I don't mind you being personal, I just mind you ruining it for everyone else. But don't worry, you'll catch on... :)

Oh that, and I'm going to bed. Good night moaner. :)
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

Where did I ever say I wanted to see ANY extremes? All the while I've been clamouring for a balanced view.

Ok, so you want more focus on the less candid aspects of Warsaw? But we want to see people up close don't we? People interacting with their surrounds... Maybe that's what makes this awkward.

In a former lifetime I even used to hate the city.

Hmmm.

I'm just curious why Levene shows us wide-angled shots of Praga and Ursynów while carefully cropping most of his central Warsaw and Old Town pictures...

To expose something more intimate?

To avoid overt sensationalism?

To give more clarity to the subject...?

I haven't lived in Warsaw for a long time... I just pass through. I kinda actually like the place now though ;-)

It's hard to know who's qualified to give the more balanced, less tainted view of a place... the resident or the visitor?

No comments , you don`t understand completely anything I have just said in my previous posts

No, I get it... you're grumbling...

Check out this thread for some pictures, lots of them , no need for mine .

So what's the problem? If other images *can* speak on behalf of your preferred impression of the city, then be happy. If they do not exist, make them up. :)
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

Ironically, your examples only serve to underscore what I had written earlier. Think about it ;-)

Not really... I think you'll find it points out the necessity to take a balanced view of whatever *extremes* are being presented to you... identifying *all* the main themes for characterisation of a place.

But it is true that a place has to be represented by its contrasts as well as its banalities... and finding these in some cities can be harder than others. I think he did a good job.

Though what people *are* usually interested in are the contrasts.. the extremes. Which if these photos are anything to go by project no major worrying trends for your capital city.

It seems *you* want the extremes but only if they serve *your* idealistic view of Warsaw...
Show me *your* Warsaw...
He is simply showing you his.

Maybe you are *feeling* these pictures a little too much?
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

It's like this..

There are two versions of the truth.

happy Indian slums..

:)

Not so happy Indian slums..

What slums?

Two sides of every story.. ;)

What are you going to do? Change the picture or change the reality it captures...?

(And by the way... no-one ever goes to India for their holidays...) ;)
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Australia / Secret gems (Good places to have a beer) in Melbourne Australia [20]

too busy listening to craig david?

You're lucky I live in the slums and can't get on a bus to rip your face off... ;)

hows broady?

Broady's fine... I think! How to compare it to.... hell!? Jokes! It's racially diverse and full of intriguing shopping centres... :S

Speaking of hell... I should be frequenting Hell's Kitchen in the next few weeks or so. If I can find it! I'll look for a barfly with dragon wings and a firey temper? ;)
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

Why can`t I find in British or American newspapers articles portraying Warsaw as a glamourous city , but instead I always see sad ? This bothers me so much. How people from distant places can have a positive view about Poland this way ?

Care to post some of your own pics and re-focus our minds a little...?

Are you bothered by the truth or the fact that it can be captured in pictures...?
Ashleys mind   
6 Apr 2011
Travel / Pics of Warsaw by the Guardian's David Levene [107]

Was it the main idea of this session ?

What's your problem? They are photos. You know what that means? It happened. Whether it was photographed or not.

Deal.
Ashleys mind   
5 Apr 2011
Love / Are Polish mothers-in-law monsters? [91]

Not to give advice when you know of a way of doing something better/easier/smarter, because there's no way left to disquse what you're trying to do.

It's ok... it shows you care. :)
Ashleys mind   
3 Apr 2011
History / 6th annviersary of JPII's death [6]

Oh, well then that marks 6 years since I lived in Krakow. I was there when it happened... had nothing to do with it mind!

It also marks the anniversary of the orange revolution in Ukraine, no? That occurred around about the same time...

They made him a saint yet?
Ashleys mind   
3 Apr 2011
News / MORE ANTI-POLISH SENTIMENT IN GERMANY [280]

I think a lot of Poles are taking the jokes too personally for no reason. Sure, they want to laugh at everybody also but themselves. Grow up.

Quoted for truth!

Petty

Squabble

Wonder bums.

;)
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Feedback / A Personal Request to all PF members [119]

Listen, all I can say is that we are all changed by the people we meet and the places we frequent. That is kind of unavoidable. But I think anyone who has been fortunate enough to visit Poland, be shacked up with a Pole, marry one, or have Polish in their heritage, would know as well as i do that there are good and bad aspects of the place, and they *are* somewhat uniquely Polish... that can sometimes get lost in translation...

And by way of shared human experience, your issues become mine by default, through the penetration of human consiousness. We immediately take on the issues of others because we are able to project ourselves into their shoes... but we still wear our own and live through our own experiences...

So if we have gone through life with a certain country or group of people entirely off our radar, does it mean we are entirely ignorant about them? It may just mean that own reality hasn't brought us in contact with them yet. Shame, yes. Poland's so great. :)

At the end of the day, does it matter what people think about Poland, if they base their opinions on rumour spinning and stereotypes..? Honestly? No. And who's opinions are valid anyway?

(Oh god, I *am* complicating this aren't I?) Oh well, I can't be stopped now...

But then what? How long should someone stay in a certain country to pick up an ''accurate view of it''? Some people dislike (for whatever reason) their native countries too, and simply can't wait to leave... *ahem, immigration, ahem*. (And then love them years later forgetting the bad bits.)

Truth is, there are many lives being lived in every country. You could end up living a not so nice existence as a visitor *or* a native in any particular place, and this can end up jading your view of that place, when in reality every place is ok unless you're trying to realise your aspirations in it.

Is this more accurate than someone simply retelling their negative impressions of that place after only a weeks visit?

And I don't mind to complicate things, because, really, everything's *rather* more complicated than we at first think... if you think about it. ;) But I can see how you may not agree, as you are the original poster with the strongest view on this.

You don't need to reply, I know I'm a headache... aneurysm, whateva!
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Australia / Polish community in Sydney, Australia [93]

The latter

They will change and be changed. (And *definitely* no castration jokes!) ;)

Of course... they will learn how to drink, ski and do without with dignity. ;)

Yes and no... depends how much of it we *want* to keep?
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Life / Is there something like a "Polish culture" or Polish national identity? [49]

Polish culture is like Russian with more vodka.

Keep it simple.. I like it. Though I would say less Wodka. ;)

To the OP. Here you have people who like to think they identify with Poland... The louder they are about it the less they usually know in detail.

My opinion.

Ask some Babcias. They have lived their whole lives there. Poland is its history so the older the person the more informative in my view... Though whether they would like to talk about it is another thing...

This generation are widely dispersed and culturally disjointed in my view... but that is part of understanding current Poland too so cannot be discounted...

Good luck! :)
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Australia / Polish community in Sydney, Australia [93]

Why am I here? Where is my mirror?

Well you wont find many fellow Monotremes here... The odd Platypus maybe. ;)

We largely meet and see people who are a reflection of ourselves. So if you think others suck, look in the mirror and think about yourself.

What if you prefer Dogs? :S
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Australia / Polish community in Sydney, Australia [93]

Oh please Patrycja... you think I wasn't offended by ''Renegade's'' outlook on Australia...?

The tricky thing is I didn't know which group of Aussies to identify myself with... :S Which is what made the premise of his argument meaningless in *my* view... I could be both!

I guess it's up to the individual to believe one-sided comments or not or to listen to anonymous and baseless views without any verification or understanding of the individual's postings...

Point proven. Thanks.

I personally thought his comments were Kaka.

Fact is, like many countries, here you live amongst others from many different backgrounds AND nationalities... it's hard for some people...
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Feedback / A Personal Request to all PF members [119]

It makes a person remember "Polish..." with a negative thing even before he/she ever knew Poland properly.

By the same token, do you think I can do anything about the reputation about my country through a forum...? No, but I can stand alone as fitting into a perceived stereotype, or escape it through my own distinct actions, beliefs, attitudes...

It really depends on the character spilling the views and the characterisation given by the interpreter.
We're dealing with human beings here first and foremost. Not everything you think can be interpreted through a veil of Polishness surely...? Just as what I say about Poland may be more indicative of my own cultural background than yours. ;)

You're asking people to hold general views about something when they may specifically be coming here to state and explore distinct and polarised views on purpose...

I mean if you think this little forum can harm the reputation of your country then I think you're a little paranoid. Don't worry, we all love Poland... one way or another... That's why we're here... one way or another. :)

I repeat. The views here say more about the individuals than the country in question. That's why we have usernames... we aren't interested in anonymous comments, we want to know who's behind them...

Because an intelligent person knows that no-one can speak for a country, let alone someone else's ultimate opinion about that country...
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Feedback / A Personal Request to all PF members [119]

Or on a more intrinsic level, It's for those who want the book but not the cover...

Or am I completely off topic...?

Cause in response to the OP, I would say you can't divide sentiment as a byproduct of Polishness... it's no determinant of anything, especially as many here have, more or less, experienced life elsewhere. If they hadn't, why would they be attracted to a Forum exploring the views of an *international community* about Poland? This is the World Wide Web honey... likes it or not, views rarely exist on a macro scale to protect the image of any one person, any one thing, or any one country as a monopoly over any other...

And in response to Lodz... The Dalai Lama has been trying for 50 years... what makes you think you'll have more success where requests for tolerance, kindness or compassion are concerned? :P

But by all means you can try! But wouldn't it be boring if *no-one* injected a bit of cynicism into these dodgy affairs...

Is kindness something you can extend or truly interpret above any other sentiment...? Just keep in mind we are projecting ourselves at all times. So really what we say here says more about ourselves as individuals than about any economic or historic affairs, affairs of state, sexuality or regional Polishness per se...

Don't take it to heart basically.
Ashleys mind   
2 Apr 2011
Feedback / A Personal Request to all PF members [119]

What do you gain?

You get all the best bits without any of the crap. You get to be who you want to be. And ironically, it's less confrontational than real life.

It's kind of a dream world... with illusory characters - the line begins to blur.

It's the church and it's the dungeon, the righteous and the ugly. The soap box and the launching pad as well as the green field of imagery and perception. It allows one to paint with colours more vivid? It's for those who don't like to waste time with the rigidity (and the rules) of reality. ;)

But hey, who knows! ;)

But yes, there is a danger of not being able to divorce yourself from this world... cause it only exists in yer head.

How much can one *feel* towards another without never having seen or met them...? It's the ultimate in emotional projection but exemplifies the power of words and empathy...

We humans are evolving. And this is for many an easier domain to function in in an increasingly complex world... There is a compelling argument for escapism these days... maybe always...?
Ashleys mind   
1 Apr 2011
Australia / Secret gems (Good places to have a beer) in Melbourne Australia [20]

Noted. :)

what are your pre-requisites?

Aren't they everyone's...?

I like a bit of dinge, dirge and filth with my fresh beer and bass. :D Affordable... I like to settle in for the night. :)

im sure places that i would frequent may not be up to the taste of others.

You mean you want to keep them secret. ;)

for your more common places transport is an okay place.

How do you get there? ;P

beer deluxe way over prices for mine.

Uh-yeah... mistake of a rookie. :S

my brother swears by the drunken poet near the vic mkt, happy hour on all beers from 5-7 on fridays.

Sounds promising!

me, i prefer places like e-55 and hells kitchen.

Duly noted. :)

ps mods: can you please move this thread to the australian section in pf?

Are you trying to lose my thread?

long hangover?

Uh-no. I didn't work on it *that* hard... ;)