Excellent Post Lodz!
This is a forum where often some people from different countries come in (serious people) for a few posts ...
I have seen this as well, I have seen Nice Educated people come in, ask Questions and get
silly childish answers.
There is a time and a place for the silly which is located in the off topic.
There was also mention at some point of people coming here to find themselfs via their
family history.
This is so far from the truth. but its placed in a thread, where people read, and then those
who are looking , might get discouraged by the harsh words.
It sure is a public forum, and people can say what they want to, but if you are a good person
inside and out, you wont come along and bully up the thread with crap.
I agree with Lodz 200% its time to make this forum look like its supposed to, we have
threads that are interesting, if you feel you need to talk with someone, then take it to
off topic and try to stay on topic in the thread you jumped in.
We are all good peeps, we know what we are capable of.