Love / Should I still go to my Polish ex boyfriends parents house for Christmas? [13]


He is 26, perhaps if he was 18 I could understand why he is being this way.

But like you said I should just eat carp with a smile, knowing that his ears are being destroyed by his mother.

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

Your right perhaps its time for me to get more firm with him.
But can I just ask you please is it true that when your a boy then your mum is number 1, when you are a man your mum is still number 1, but from when you are having an adult relationship your girlfriend is number 1 and your mum is 1.1?

That how I see it and surely I can't be wrong.
If it wasn't for him telling her all our business we would be living together and looking forward to a great future. But his mum says no he is to stay living with her until she says so, how can I compete with that?

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

PennBoy I don't raise my hand to him or even shout, I just tell him he shouldn't tell me what to do when he doesn't pay for anything. Other people would be greatful for what they get, from when he is not giving money for food and bills he has no right telling me what he wants and how much he wants and comparing me to his mum

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

No its the same guy, he begged for forgiveness and said he would change his way's so I gave him a chance

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

No, he has two sisters and he has gone mad when one of his sisters was being treated like rubbish, but he wants to do the same to me.

I feel like a fool because I gave him a chance to man up so I bought him an Audi for his birthday and I paid for us to go to the seychelles in july and now he has asked me if we are finished for good can he go with his mum on our holiday because he was looking forward to it and his mum says she would like to go.

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

He has a job but he sends money back home to Poland for his sister because she is getting married in April

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]


I think you are right, I feel like a fool. My kindness is my weakness, perhaps it me that has to change I thought he was the one.

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

I was only treating him they way I would treat anyone I was in a relationship with. I didn't mind buying him the car it was a birthday present and the holiday was a chance for him and I to go away and relax and spend quality time together. As for his mum she has developed and distaste for me. She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.

She doesn't want me at her house because when I am there her english boyfriend wants to speak to me and she feels like she is being ignored so she shouted at me to get out of her house. Albeit she will never get the chance to do that again.

And I have to book him in advance if I want him to sleep over, you know what! I have answered my own question, I should move on and find a real man and not a boy sitting on the end of his mothers skirt.

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

I was brought up decent and once I give someone a gift that is what it is. I don't want anything back from him and I will learn from my mistake.

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]


No need, he never left her in the first place

Theres Audis and theres Audis.
I wish I did get him that model but I actually got him the TT

Atosha: She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.
So shes Polish right? living in the UK with her Polish son Maciek?
Yes he came here first and then sent for her 3 years ago

does his mum have issues with your colour do you think?
No not at all, she is just jelous and thinks she is going to lose her son to me.
My only crime is to love him and give him a little taster of what our future could be like if we work hard together

Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

Thank you for all comments but like I said the relationship is now over.

Doesn't everyone deserve a chance in life? As some of you may not notice when you first meet someone they watch everything they say and do but once they get there foot under the table you start to see who they really are.

And as for the above comment :You was so desperate and horny that you'd f*ck anyone:
Please don't lower yourself, you may conduct yourself like that but I don't. And by the way I don't need anyone giving me anything I have my own thank you very much.

Love / Polish traditions and parents (I was dating this Polish guy..) [72]


I would never vouch for someone that goes online to talk to strangers whilst they are supposed to be in a relationship no chance. And whether he isn't smooth to you online that doesn't mean he isn't being smooth with someone else.

You are seeing him as you see yourself as an innocent person but trust me not, if he was in a relationship with you for 4 months why have you never been introduced to his brothers? let alone you have seen them in work.

You seem like a really nice person, try not to let love blind your eyes it happens to the best of us :)

Love / Help - evil Polish girl after my partner. [39]

Just front her in front of everyone. If your fella has done something with this person in the past i.e before your time you will soon find out. Also if your fella respects you he will tell her to stop her nonsense.

Love / Help - evil Polish girl after my partner. [39]

Hun, your fella has manned up and basically told her to do one. (Back the hell of)
If that has fallen on her deaf ears then that's her business. The skank clearly doesn't care for her own well being and that's why she cuts herself so why should you.

Don't get me wrong but your giving her to much of your energy, she clearly is immature and needs to stop her foolishness