I get on well with them except one younger girl who I find very attention seeking and despite having a live partner she's quite promiscuous.
This girl is now evil towards me and embarrassingly friendly towards my partner.
she just cut her arm and her partner had to take her to hospital, my partner says she does this if she doesn't get attention,
Anyone know any rich, handsome young men to distract her??????
Any ideas on how to deal with her, all suggestions welcome
One or two ideas actually and none of them include rich, handsome and young men.
I've skimmed through what You wrote, quoted the interesting bits and my conclusion is simple - You madam are dealing with someone who either has mental issues a professional should look at or an acute case of the "Polish Princess" syndrome ( it is debatable whether the latter should be treated by shrinks ).
In case it is the latter the girl's reaction is most likely triggered by the fact that You happen to be local and Your partner happens to be Polish. And I personally noticed that quite a few Polish women for some reason firmly believe that while they as Polish females own the world and are free to mingle romantically with guys from all over, Polish men ( especially attractive Polish men ) should stick to Polish women no matter what. Not particularly logical, but that's the way some of them see it, must have something to do with upbringing.
Whichever case it might be - should You continue any form of semi-friendly relationship with her You'll most likely end up regretting it later. As in "You've been cheated on/dumped/somebody claims You cut them with a razor".
So, make sure Your man is onboard with that, then tell that little snotty Polish tart in no uncertain terms that You've had more than enough of her shenanigans and that she should leave Your man alone. Then just cut her the hell off and make sure Your boyfriend avoids her like the plague.