Love / Polish women world's second most flirtatious [75]


That is definitely true lol. The thing is, men are often blind to women's subtle cues and (some are definitely not though). I've noticed this a lot from my own experience, its often hard to make them understand you like them and that they will not be rejected if they ask you for a date (could be why women in Poland flirt so much even though they are sullen and don't smile they want men to ask them out). Many average men probably think women don't want them and are afraid of rejection and whats more just can't really understand women in general. Many don't have self confidence. When men in a society are not confident with themselves, you have a lot of problems. Its a consequence of the technology and the modern world, people just don't know how to find love anymore.

Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

This should be in the hate and discrimination section (haha just kidding). Men and women are not equal in a sense, they are pscychologically/mentally different and because of this are better at certain types of work. Its been proven that men for example are typically better at making business deals than women. Would you want 50% of the teachers, nurses, hair stylists, ect. to be men? That would be ridiculous.

Life / How Long Before Poland Has Its 'Dumbest Generation'? [84]

I've never ridden a bus alone; but I don't think that necessarily makes me a nincompoop. Not really something you want to do, some dangerous low class people use public transportation. But that's in America, I'm sure public transportation is far more normal over there.

USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]

This thread is a joke, I was being sarcastic. But I can't believe people actually fell for my ruse hehe.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

stfu you stupid b*tch, those were all made up stories to see if people would believe them. Remember, I'm passive agressive.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


I live in the South and I've got to tell you, it really sucks. Maybe if I lived in the north I would hate it worse but right now I think it sucks and I really don't like these people. I did not unfairly steryotype the south because I grew up here, and I really know how sh*tty it is. It has nothinig to do with how some wack writer said it was similar to poland. Actually they really hate Russians and East Europeans here and they have reason to because they don't like southerners.


It will not happen, because I'm to good for 95% of them.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

Well I don't have any connection to the dixie mafia or the italian mafia. If there was a Slav mafia that existed I'd gladly join that. My family does not act southern at all really, a little bit maybe but not much. They think we're northern yupees sometimes and give us really nasty looks. I honestly think I'm more similar in my beliefs to an eastern european than your typical wasp southerner. They have no concept of how much they mix up the subraces/traits and don't make marriages for the right thing. They are occult Christians and despize new people coming from other places, even other wasps. They're stupid, inbred, bland, bull headed, and don't have any class. They're lazy too, and it takes them forever to grow up and take initiative, especially the men.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

Oh thats for certain not to happen. I don't really have much in common with them and there's not much to love about them.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


I thought I would never be able to keep convincing them, so I just decided to stop.

You people are incredibly stupid if you think my way of thinking is anything like the typical Southern wasp. You're idiots.


What? No I'm definitely not too selective in fact, I'd say I'm somewhat under selective for what I am. The men are all just self absorbed rednecks. I actually have promised myself I will never marry an ugly inferior southern redneck man because they are messed up and corrupt in so many ways and I hate their way of life. Not to mention that they are almost always very dumb, careless, and have low standards. The man always has to be older than me too, not any younger than two years apart and not any older than 5. My best bet is actually a Russian American, because they have this feel for money and personal wealth that makes them driven to be more successful at a young age. They usually have their life and career well on track by their early twenties.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

You have to admit though, you were fooled at first. I'd say I have pretty good acting skills, I can be pretty convincing. Your reactions made me snicker so hard that I had trouble typing and thinking up new posts.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I have no idea what you're talking about, but I am not a previous member if that's what it is. I think its quite odd that you're saying I'm someone else when I'm not and what was so wrong with the last member? It seems to involve some kind of scandal or something.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


You know someone had to pull the race card eventually.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

You're an idiot, because that has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. You keep trying to act like its only because of my own romantic interests that aren't being fulfilled but what I'm talking about is something many women are tired of and the men are always biased and saying its my fault because I'm a little selfish brat and thats very unfair and belittling. The reason I think they do this is because their insecure and don't know how to be men because our society is so prosperous and all they do is play video games and live in an imaginary fantasy world. I'm not looking to date anybody on here. I just want to discuss why Slavic men these days are becoming so wimpy and effeminate, like the Western men. Men these days have adopted feminine traits (even non gay ones) and do things women do and I'm sorry this is just not attractive to me at all and it is very frustrating. As a traditional, feminine, confident woman with a strong personality I feel like a minority because there are hardly any decent men to choose from that go along with my values and are not insecure or wimpy. I actually strive to find a sensitive man, but one that isn't insecure or has feminine traits.


That's scary. Actually I can tell the difference easily, I don't need to go on a date with one. There's a difference between a guy who takes care of you and makes good decisions rather than one who forces or smothers you to be or think a certain way. I always have a good sense for things, I trust my gut instinct. When I sense something to be true, it always ends up being true. I could go into more detail, but I don't feel its necessary.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I have known many and they are very selfish and childish.


This is why I switched to only dating Slavs


I don't care what men here think I don't need reassurance from them, its just that in real life these kinds of discussions are pretty much prohibited and socially unacceptable so that's why I am showing my true colors on a forum. Many of the men are quite selective to and they seem to understand where I'm coming from with it. I'm not unreasonably selective like a nazi lol, I know I'm never going to find someone I'm perfectly happy with but some things like how confident he is and how he dominates, as well as his body type and height are quite unnegotiable. Its a natural thing for humans to be selective in who they choose to be intimate with, we ALL do it. Its life.

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]


That would be very little or none I'm guessing, you don't seem like you'd be Swedish.


We don't all have long noses, that's mostly just people with Jewish or meditteranean ancestry. In fact the people on the Polish side of my family all pretty much have nonexistant ones.

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

WHAT???!!!! OMFG GROSS!!! Yes they have a future because nobody is going to want to marry her after they've known she's been with an 85 y/o man.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


Well I don't mean to come across as high maintenance but I really feel like I am; every guy has told me that and I try not to be but I just want to be me. I understand a guy's need for time alone, that is not the problem its just that I don't like them doing stupid things. Him going to the bar or watching a sports game doesn't bother me one bit I just don't like things like video game playing or immature habits and decisions. Heck there are times when I've begged guys to stop calling and texting me and I want to be left alone when I am busy with something important and they just won't stop. Its very stressful to be in a relationship with a super clingy person, I do know that.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


Who are you talking about? I'm a little confused sorry.


eew old codger sex

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


I WISH men would do that with me but usually by the third date they start mentioning something about the bedroom and it hurts my feelings. I do not want to have sex until a commitment has been made because I can't be sure of the man's intentions.


Not exactly, some men these days would kill for a housewife that does their laundry, cooks their food, and manages the household for them. I'm sorry but all I've done with my life is dancing and its totally useless; its the only thing I'm good at though. I've been so wrapped up in that all my life that I don't see myself having much of a career, I just want to get married in the future. I'm so indecisive and unsure sometimes that I'd almost rather have the man bark orders at me. But yes, like nearly all women I love being spoiled but in no way do I demand it. If you met me in person you would realize this is true but its difficult to communicate on a forum. I am a young (not even drinking age yet) graceful woman with a slim body and elegant face and I feel that is worth more than the average joe call me arrogant but I feel its true.

USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]


I didn't say they were bad or I didn't like them (although the men are often quite soft), I'm part wasp (not american wasp but Euro wasp) just have a very different way of life than Poles/Slavs in general. You obviously have no understanding of what I'm talking about (no offense) but you should probably just quit the conversation all together. It is a little frustrating to have to keep explaining to you.


Oh I definitely agree with you, if someone is living here and has the right to vote they DEFINITELY need to learn english properly. This is the point I was trying to make by creating this thread.

USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]

Well Poland has a very bad economy (mostly the reason why we move here) and Polish immigrants are vastly different from American wasps these I think are the main reasons for the "Little Poland" type communities.


Hey I never said I was in favor of slamming you; that is exactly what I was against. I recognize your struggles and I can understand them in a way.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


I figured that out all along lol that was kind of the purpose of this thread. My point was that men are so focused on themselves nowadays and not very in touch with their rough gruff macho sides because life is so prosperous that they have gotten soft and weak.


Eww a man that skis (unless his last name ends with ski lol) no thanks that is like the Ukrainian nordic wannabe who was after my genes. People with German ancestry are so insecure and jealous when they aren't made with a nordic phenotype; its really funny but can be quite annoying sometimes.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I'm afraid I don't agree with you. It is not my fault what I attract. I find that my looks seem to attract two kinds of men: jocks and ones who are after my genes. The jocks do not want to handle my strong personality because they've got better things to do and I am too high maintenance for them so they get frustrated and lose interest after they find out I won't let them get in my pants so easily. The ones after my genes are insecure and they just want the girl next door, they don't want commitment and don't have anything to offer me but trouble. The good men seem to be somewhat repelled by my looks I guess, because they don't believe I could be a genuinely nice person.

Travel / From Poland With Love [20]

True, but they could make it a better show. I give it 2 1/2 stars.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I just don't understand why men are so self absorbed and de-masculinized these days. It is very frustrating and I feel like Slavic men were the last to be this way because they come from a hostile enironment and they don't turn soft like the western men but even they are becoming that way now and it is very upsetting. Its like everything I grew up knowing and thinking was good seems like its over now because the men are so insecure and aren't the way they should be.

Travel / From Poland With Love [20]

My friends and I watched that show one time, but I thought it was boring. Plus that guy is so ugly and skinny; it adds for a sucky show.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I understand you don't want loonies coming in and posting irrelevant "nonsense" as I may call it, but this is just preposterous. I respect that you want to keep trolls off the forum but I promise you I have never posted on this forum before and am only here for the sake of my interest in Poland and Polish communities in places other than my location. Btw if she was anything like me, I gurantee she was not a troll because I am nearly the very steryotype of a Polish American except for the Russian/British/Scandinavian blood in me.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


Who is Allison? *confused*


I just tend to be that way because I have a rare personality that happens to be very very afraid of conflict, it said so on a personality test I took my freshman year. It can't really be helped.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I am one, I live in a Polish neighborhood.


Well the two I'd met both did and seemed rather ashamed of it.


lol my nose IS upturned literally but not figuratively. If I had chosen to get action from those men it would have been a big mistake.