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Joined: 6 Apr 2007 / Female ♀
Last Post: 14 Aug 2011
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From: Memphis, TN USA
Speaks Polish?: Nie

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shopgirl   
8 Jul 2007
Life / Famous Polish people (that we have actually heard of) [224]

Czesław Miłosz

Wow, Puzzly. Your view of him really surprized me......not what I would have expected. He wrote of life under oppression, and what that does to the pysche. Interesting. You have thrown me your first "official curve ball"... :D
shopgirl   
7 Jul 2007
Life / Famous Polish people (that we have actually heard of) [224]

It's a german family from Prussia...and they spoke and wrote German!

And lets not forget where your family heralds from.....my little Bratski :)

(can you accept this comment without getting angry at me? Bitte?) :)
shopgirl   
26 Jun 2007
Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]

Fiszek, thanks to you (and Shopgal) my image of Americans gets brighter.

Ahhh. Such a sweetie! Here go the rumours again! :)
shopgirl   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Well the funny thing is I've been told that I was too good to her!

You were too good to her. She did not return your kindnesses. I view her as someone who depends on the kindness of others, making the rounds as needed.

I expect that if she determines that you have "cut her off" she will replace you with someone else. It is disappointing to see someone behave in this way, but don't think all women are like her. They are not.

I hope that you recover all that you lost, and find someone wonderful. All the best. :)
shopgirl   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Yes, I understand. Its not easy.
Just don't let her drag you around. You were good to her. Spend some of that "goodness" on someone worthy. :)
shopgirl   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

No, no I'm not criticizing you or thinking that you've lost it.
I just hate to see people suffer.
If you know what you are doing and protecting yourself, that's good.
But in another way, spending time with her could be a way of missing out on someone else who's far superior. Ya know?
shopgirl   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

LT. Navy....why are you putting yourself in a vulnerable position again? She has shown you who she is. Believe her. I'm afraid she's gonna take advantage of you.

Wipe off the spider webs man, and run!
shopgirl   
10 Jun 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

OK, then can you elaborate at all? Is it hard for you to make a cultural comparison in this area? Where could one find a study on this topic?
shopgirl   
10 Jun 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Then there is the old nature vs. nuture theory, which could illustrate the role of how children are raised into gender roles of a culture.

Comment?
shopgirl   
10 Jun 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

what the heck does it have to do with any kind of nationality? LOL

freebird, have you met Amathyst?
Amathyst, this is freebird.

You two have something to talk about! :D
shopgirl   
8 Jun 2007
News / Polish & other children legally stolen from their parents in Germany [82]

How is this possible in modern time? Somebody can tell me?

The video gave these reasons:

Loopholes in German law

Court orders granted upon petition of one parent, without a hearing, or legal representation...

Preference for German as spoken language

What's bizzare is that some of these couples are still together/married and are probably only together, because the Polish parent knows he/she will not see their child again if they divorce. Interesting that one Polish child could travel out of Germany to other countries, but not permitted to visit family in Poland.

And why such variation in "punishment' for speaking Polish to your children, ranging from completely being cut off from the child (no visitation, no contact, nothing).....to being forbidden to speak Polish to the child or help the child with homework?.

Well, I guess here is the answer to the other thread "can mixed culture relationships work?" Yes, but be careful! I'm having flashbacks of that movie "Not Without My Daughter".

In US, parents try to "steal" child away from custodial parent at times, but usually has more to do with hurting the other parent than care or concern for the child, and the amber alert system seems to work very well at locating the children.

The EU will have to work this one out. What other options would there be? Even German attorney cites the "loopholes"and human rights violations of children!

Very, very sad.
shopgirl   
3 Jun 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

They aren't good places to meet someone. How can you introduce yourself if no one can hear you? And after you get home, you can still hear buzzing in your ears!

There are better places to meet people- bookstores, coffee houses (quieter acoustic music), classes, a gathering at a friends home, etc.

We've all been in this situation :) Don't let it bum you out.
shopgirl   
30 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you

More like "wondering what you have inside you",
and looking for clues to see what is there, aside from what he wants you to see....
isn't that what everyone does?
shopgirl   
10 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Lt Navy, I think you experienced a truely toxic drama queen (and maybe with some bi-polar disorder thrown in there too).

A few years ago there was a woman (American) that worked in my department that "wrapped men around her finger" and then took them on a nut-case roller coaster ride. She lied, played games, got hysterical and very dramatic when things didn't go her way, and sometimes I think she tried to "start something" just because it was "too quiet". If one guys wasn't around, she go looking for the other one, and play them off against each other. (Did I mention that she received child support checks from three separate men in different states for her child?) Despite her looks and cunning ways, eventually she got such a reputation that no one would go near her (she also liked to get restraining orders). And she didn't limit her craziness to personal relationships, she was bizarre at work as well. We all knew we were in for a rough time if she came to work with no make-up on. She couldn't take any type of constuctive criticism on her job performance, it was perceived "as everyone is against me". You couldn't even reason with her, she could not even make a logical point. That girl was a train wreck. Even higher-ups in management didn't want to deal with her. No one would meet with her alone in a room (too afraid of some wild accusation might occur), everything had to be done with a witness present.

You are very lucky to be rid of this person if she was anything like this (and sounds a lot like the woman I knew).

Run as fast as you can and do not look back!
shopgirl   
5 May 2007
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

I agree with Daffy but why does everyone crowd into the bus or tram as if it were the last bus or tram EVER to go to their destination ?

Ahhh, the "sardine instinct". You can also witness this at Disneyland :)
shopgirl   
5 May 2007
Travel / Photos from Poland [258]

FISZ, in your post #123,
the sixth photo (black and white shot of a street):
Can you tell me where that was taken, please?
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

I think BubbaWoo is probably joking with you...

But then again, guys can be like that sometimes, especially around their friends.
Pay attention to how he says things...you might get some clues there :)
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

dziwak what does that mean

I think that would be like "wierdo" in English, but it might have a more subtle meaning.