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Posts by szarlotka  

Joined: 20 Feb 2007 / Male ♂
Last Post: 20 Oct 2017
Threads: Total: 8 / Live: 1 / Archived: 7
Posts: Total: 2,206 / Live: 789 / Archived: 1,417
From: UK
Speaks Polish?: Nie
Interests: Skiing, mountains, music, reading, taking the mickey and terrapins

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szarlotka   
23 Feb 2007
Life / What is the reason for POLISH jokes ? [486]

Minorities get jokes made about them - it's just an extension of play ground bullying.

It's not fair, it's ungrounded but it's life
szarlotka   
25 Feb 2007
Genealogy / Is tallness common among Polish people? [201]

i was DWARFED by these guys!! (all Irish but def ABOVE average height)

er, they weren't by any chance playing in the Irish second row yesterday were they? I'm 6ft 4 and those guys would make me look small :)

I dont think its so easy to attach this claim to one european country?

Yep another generalisation has hit the forum
szarlotka   
25 Feb 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Polish Girls vs Russian Girls

My hugely intellectual contribution to this debate is that the flight to see one in their home country tends to be longer from London for Russian Girls. Beyond this I do not wish to generalise further.

Have a nice day everyone. Just remember that your special person could come from anywhere in the world so don't worry about the rest.
szarlotka   
26 Feb 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Can we end this thread please as it’s getting me down big time. I have worked in both countries over an extended period of time. Not once in either country was I approached to ‘take me out of here darlink’ by beautiful women whose husbands/boy friends were drunks, serial abusers, adulterers etc. Having read this thread again it would appear that my age and ugliness must be terminal , hence I am very depressed.

IMHO women in both countries are charming, well educated (on the whole) and not as desperate as some of the idiots posting here would have us believe (how many of them have ever been to Russia?) . There are good and bad people in both countries as there are in every country in the world.

I am now going away to put a paper bag over my head and lie down in a darkened room. :)
szarlotka   
26 Feb 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

everyone notices a good heart
when it stands out!!

Serdecznie dziękuję. Jesteś taka uprzejma
szarlotka   
27 Feb 2007
Food / Barszcz czerwony recipe (Beetroot Soup) [48]

2nd I am after 5 beers

It's not even 5.30 in Poland yet Mr G. You are in danger of reinforcing some messages from another thread. Oh what the hell, have another one on me
szarlotka   
27 Feb 2007
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Could I ever love Poland more than my own country? No I couldn’t. This is my home, where good friends are, where I feel most comfortable and where my family are.

However, what I can say is that of all the countries where I have travelled for work or pleasure, Poland stands out for me as the best. When I first visited Poland over 25 years ago now, it was to accompany my Father on a trip to see old war time colleagues who had gone back to Poland but survived the terrible events of those times. I recall that it took over a year to get permission for the trip, mainly because I was at that time still serving in the military and my Father was too ill to travel on his own. Eventually we obtained permission and set off. Bear in mind that to most of us in the UK at that time Poland was the enemy. The Cold War was decidedly icy.

The way in which my Father was received and treated and the warmth, compassion and friendliness of the people we met in those few short days changed my perceptions of Poland. I saw a proud, resilient and genuine people. I also found out for the first time just how they could party. In short we had a magnificent time. My Father seemed to grow healthier by the second in front of my eyes. I still remember him now sitting in a corner with the men he had fought with, sharing thoughts and reminiscences that only friends who had been through what they had been through could. I came away knowing that before long Poland would once again be a free nation and that my enemies were actually my friends, something my Father already knew. My Father died a year or so later but his trip had meant so much to him. It was his closure.

Since then I have returned to Poland on many occasions. I have begun to appreciate more the culture, the history and the people of your country. The old qualities remain strong. The ‘can do’ attitude, the politeness, the importance of family and the strong work ethic are all still there. I am proud to have made some good friends there over the years.

So, in summary, Poland is great but it is not my home. I am biased from my own experiences, I know, but the ties between our nations are strong and were just briefly interrupted. There have been shameful incidents where the UK has not supported Poland, many of which are discussed on this Forum. You should be aware that some of these hurt people in this country as well.

Here endeth the lesson :)
szarlotka   
3 Mar 2007
Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

Not all people in the Uk are bastards

Ahh. Your soft side is showing. Personally, I believe my life is enriched by knowing that at least a tiny fraction of my country were actually born in wedlock and that fact is recognised by you.
szarlotka   
3 Mar 2007
Law / Hiring a Polish Worker - Pros and Cons [107]

Living in the UK was like HELL on earth. The only people who can appreciate the uk are the Brits and refugees from africa or asia. NOBODY ELSE!

Why was ii so bad? There are some pretty poor parts to live in admittedly but then that is true of all the countries I have lived and worked in (more than your 8 by a long way). I'm not being defensive, just intigued by the experiences you had that have promoted such a violent dislike for my country
szarlotka   
3 Mar 2007
Law / Hiring a Polish Worker - Pros and Cons [107]

fek off back to your own country seems most apt in this instance...

It would appear that he has already. Probably out on parole
szarlotka   
5 Mar 2007
Law / Hiring a Polish Worker - Pros and Cons [107]

And I am not taking about the poorer parts of the UK. We lived in a very affluent area, and between my spouse

Ah, now I understand. Please excuse my (typically) flippant English comments. In the South of England in particular there is little community spirit. It has a reputation for being very reserved and outwardly unfriendly. Cliques are prevalent and outsiders are outsiders. The more affluent the area the worse it can be. It's not unknown for neighbours never to have spoken after years of living next door to each other. Yep it sucks in that respect.

On the other hand I lived in San Jose, CA for a couple of years and I found the friendliness to be a bit too shallow and superficial! Over compensation if you like. :)

I couldn't wait to leave there but that was just my opinion.

Anyway, all the best to you.
szarlotka   
5 Mar 2007
Law / Hiring a Polish Worker - Pros and Cons [107]

I love the way people come to London and the South East and assume that that is Britain

Or go to Paris and assume it is France. or go to NY and assume it is the USA :)

Da :)
szarlotka   
13 Mar 2007
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

All this talk today of people going off to Poland has unsettled me. I don't get the chance to go back very often these days and I feel pig sick jealous. Was planning to spend the main family holiday there this year but that has now been replaced by a flight in the other direction to visit number one son. Anyway, to Daffy & Aga76 and anybody else planning a trip in the near future - enjoy!
szarlotka   
19 Mar 2007
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Polish women are **** ugly - the danes are the most beautiful by 100%

Yeh the Danes are Great - woof

Oh sorry, I'm generalising. No one else is here is guilty of that now are they?
szarlotka   
19 Mar 2007
Life / Mothers day in Poland [19]

For the first time ever I deliberately didn't pester the boys to remind them about Mother's Day. The eldest one sent flowers via teleflora from Canada, the middle one sent a card and some music from Uni and followed it up with a call once he got up from his St Pat's Day revelries and the youngest one made breakfast in bed for his Mum. I was dumbfounded but very proud of them.

No doubt the begging letters will follow but for now, good on 'em.
szarlotka   
26 Mar 2007
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

I didn't know there was one

There is now and Grzegorz is in charge of it. Therefore I intend to be extra nice to both him (cos I'd like to be allowed back occasionally) and all the other Polish residents (because I am a very, very nice person).
szarlotka   
26 Mar 2007
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

darn, if Grzegorz is in charge I will never get in

You've got a much better chance than me M:)

Having been away for a few days I get the distinct impression that every discussion is being recycled. I am tempted to start a new thread. Options include:

1) Existentialism. As a reaction against more traditional philosophies, such as rationalism and empiricism, does it provide a realistic alternative.

2) Was Wanda Rutkiewicz the greatest advertisement ever for the Polish people?

3) I once fell madly in love with a Polish girl but she had an Iron Curtain for a chastity belt.

:) :) :)