MacAindreas
9 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / From Hertfordshire, UK to Śląskie, Poland - Are we crazy? [35]
Hi all I'm new to the forum. My wife of 8 years and I, along with our twin 6 year old boys are seriously considering moving to Poland. We live in the UK, I'm Irish my wife's Polish and our kids are British but have Polish registration. We are both in our mid to late 30's. We have a good life in the UK, we both have jobs, my job as a business director makes things financially comfortable and we own our home with a decent mortgage left to pay. Kids are in Year 1 and are doing well.
I have lived in the Uk for 14 years and my wife for 16 years. Despite this it doesn't feel like home for either of us. After years of discussion on and off about moving to Ireland/Poland we are about to make the decision to move to Poland this summer. My Wife won't be happy in Ireland whereas I am more comfortable with the thought of Polish living.
Neither I nor our 2 boys speak Polish fluently although we all have the ear for Polish and I can manage the real basics. The plan initially at least for the first few years would be that I continue in my job in UK and split the week up 4 days Poland/3 days UK. Initially we would stay with my Wife's mum and eventually look to build.
Our reasons for moving?.
- my wife's mums health
- sense of community which we don't have in UK
- I grew up in rural Ireland so always dreamt of having a bit of land and a spacious home (not possible in the UK)
- With the difference in the cost of living we could be financially independent sooner if I continue to bring in ££
- Eventually have a slower pace of life
- better and safer environment for the kids to grow up in
- Polish Summers
Our Concerns
- Kids going to school without full grasp of language
- Strain on relationship with me being away half the week
- moving back in with mum!
- Kids adapting to new country
- getting citizenship for me
-Taxation rules
My concerns
- my rights in Poland should anything ever happen between me and my wife
- our friends (both polish) recently moved back to Poland and within 3 months their son went from speaking only English to speaking only Polish and refusing to speak in English. I doubt I will pick up the language that fast!
- will I ever be accepted as a real part of the community or will I always be an outsider
- will I ever be able to work in Poland, it's a big change from what I'm used to
Now that I've given my life story I'm just interested to hear if anyone on here has had any similar experiences and either would challenge our reasons for moving or has words of advice for any of our concerns.
I hope to hear from you. Thanks.
Hi all I'm new to the forum. My wife of 8 years and I, along with our twin 6 year old boys are seriously considering moving to Poland. We live in the UK, I'm Irish my wife's Polish and our kids are British but have Polish registration. We are both in our mid to late 30's. We have a good life in the UK, we both have jobs, my job as a business director makes things financially comfortable and we own our home with a decent mortgage left to pay. Kids are in Year 1 and are doing well.
I have lived in the Uk for 14 years and my wife for 16 years. Despite this it doesn't feel like home for either of us. After years of discussion on and off about moving to Ireland/Poland we are about to make the decision to move to Poland this summer. My Wife won't be happy in Ireland whereas I am more comfortable with the thought of Polish living.
Neither I nor our 2 boys speak Polish fluently although we all have the ear for Polish and I can manage the real basics. The plan initially at least for the first few years would be that I continue in my job in UK and split the week up 4 days Poland/3 days UK. Initially we would stay with my Wife's mum and eventually look to build.
Our reasons for moving?.
- my wife's mums health
- sense of community which we don't have in UK
- I grew up in rural Ireland so always dreamt of having a bit of land and a spacious home (not possible in the UK)
- With the difference in the cost of living we could be financially independent sooner if I continue to bring in ££
- Eventually have a slower pace of life
- better and safer environment for the kids to grow up in
- Polish Summers
Our Concerns
- Kids going to school without full grasp of language
- Strain on relationship with me being away half the week
- moving back in with mum!
- Kids adapting to new country
- getting citizenship for me
-Taxation rules
My concerns
- my rights in Poland should anything ever happen between me and my wife
- our friends (both polish) recently moved back to Poland and within 3 months their son went from speaking only English to speaking only Polish and refusing to speak in English. I doubt I will pick up the language that fast!
- will I ever be accepted as a real part of the community or will I always be an outsider
- will I ever be able to work in Poland, it's a big change from what I'm used to
Now that I've given my life story I'm just interested to hear if anyone on here has had any similar experiences and either would challenge our reasons for moving or has words of advice for any of our concerns.
I hope to hear from you. Thanks.