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Joined: 7 Feb 2011 / Female ♀
Last Post: 29 Jan 2014
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From: Adelaide,AUS
Speaks Polish?: yup
Interests: Manga,Japan,Video Games,Languages and geeky stuff

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TaiCat   
19 Oct 2013
UK, Ireland / Why are Polish people, especially women, so disrespectful toward the English? [437]

One of reasons is that Poland is a very homogenous society.
Many of those who arrive in the UK, have never been abroad before.

Some people tried to argue with me before, but they themselves forgot how it is like to be a 'newcomer' who has no idea what Britain is - in fact in Poland some people call Britain 'Anglia' [England] and parents often will ask their kids 'How's weather in London' even though they stay f.ex. in Edinburgh.

Often they start jobs from a very 'low' position like warehouse. There, most floor staff is of slavic nationalities like them. And the superiors are brits. Many of the managers and supervisors use the fact that Polish (and others) are scared like hell to lose their jobs in first few months, giving them more pressure to hit more targets than needed.

Thus many people develop an animosity towards their employers, thinking of them really bad and not wanting to have anything to do with Brits.
They get more close to their co-workers, for example, let's say a dude called Zenek - even often being a drunk dick that he is, speaks the same language and is working in the workplace for more than 6 months so he knows what to do vs Colin who is your supervisor, seems like a laid back guy who sometimes jokes with long-term workers but will remind you 3rd time in a day about 'English only' policy and in the rush hour will keep nagging people to do their targets.

I didn't mean to offend anyone, but by this example I'm trying to show that people will stick to more familiar.

Poles, like many other imigrants, are just scared of the 'Terra incognita'. Many are not so adventurous. They only went because they couldn't take being unemployed or low paid back in Poland. If they had better choice, they would rather stay in their own territory, and never move anywhere.

I have a friend in Lancashire, Pat, I asked her once
- Would you like to go abroad? You could take your daughter to Spain for holidays or you could visit Poland and see Krakow!
She just told me
- I couldn't go abroad. I am scared to leave my city! Once I went to (city 20 miles away) and I wanted to go back home as soon as possible.

Now, how would she feel if she had to leave her country... If she can't go too far to spend her holidays in another city, she wouldn't feel comfortable to go abroad to live somewhere else.

I know it sounds stupid and many of you'd say 'So it's better if Polish just stay where they came from' but as I explained, they're forced to come for economical reasons.

Bless those who realise that UK is actually a good place to live and start acclimating. But I also think that YOU guys should help, just by giving a smile or asking 'how are you' you may slowly help to break this immigrant wall that many build around themselves. After all, we're all humans, just born to different cultures
TaiCat   
20 Oct 2013
Genealogy / Mongolian the Golden Horde - do Poles have Mongolian ancestry? [256]

My grandmother on dad's side looks mongol a little, she was teased all her life (friendly and unfriendly way) by others because of her looks. Her sister looks similar. Even though they were born in Poland. But their dad had interesting surname - Nogaj , which sounds like the name of Nogai Tribe, but it can also mean 'Leg' so we're not sure here.

Definitely my dad also doesn't look 100% Polish

Anyway, when I got married with Japanese, and he and his family came to Poland, my grandma was so happy she said 'Look! finally I found someone who looks similar to me'! (and later she was bragging a lot about this experience lol)
TaiCat   
21 Oct 2013
Australia / Australian Immigration for Healthcare Professionals [4]

right now, Elderly Care Assistants are on demand in AUS.
Best way to check is via Australian Immigration website, immi.gov.au/skilled/sol/
they got something called 'Skilled Occupation Lists' where it shows which occupations they are looking for and which can give you relevant visa
TaiCat   
6 Nov 2013
Law / Advice needed on access rights and alimony payments regarding my Polish daughter [28]

Hate girls like these, they start spitting venom and using own children against their fathers. If it doesn't works now, time will show her. Anyway, she's 22, probably still immature and attached to her family who take her side and are happy to let her milk out the 'bad daddy' while she's meeting another guy.

Did you try to speak to her mind? meet her eye to eye and ask how she imagine the future of your child, show her the concern, you should know where supposedly your money will go to. Maybe you could open her a college fund instead? Actually I don't know how does that works but I too am against paying her money off your Swiss salary, else she will turn into a scrounger always shouting the same mantra 'money or child!' (and, on the side, whispering to her daughter 'Your father is a f*ck up don't deal with him). You should do something about it.

It doesn't happens only with Polish girls tho, Japan is even worse, where law is always on japanese parent's side. Many japanese women banned their partners from seeing the child and called police on these fathers who tried to contact their kids...
TaiCat   
16 Dec 2013
Genealogy / Looking for Kulczycki family from Turza Slaska, Poland [14]

Actually, Turza Slaska is a village next to Wodzislaw Slaski. It's a quite small area. My grandfather used to have a land there...
It's well known for it's church - there are some pilgrimages going there, because it had some super special Maria revelation (like many other churches in Poland lol).

Next time when I call back home, I'll ask my dad if he knows anyone by this surname.

My grandfather was born in Heřmanice, Ostrava. 24 Km/14 miles away from turza slaska.

Ostrava is indeed quite close to Wodzislaw County!
TaiCat   
29 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

Many Polish guys (especially those living outside big cities) believe that using cosmetics or wearing any fancy brand clothes is totally GAY (if it's Skate/HipHop/Hoodie brand it's fine).

They usually put their best shirt for parties and night outs, still some guys don't mind to go out in casual clothes.
If they go to wedding party or grandma's 70th birthday, they will pick up the suit that was formerly hung in the darkest parts of their wardrobe.

During the week, they just tend to wear comfortable t-shirts (some dudes wear it few days a week), jeans and hoodies.

But oh wait, did I just actually described ANY guy? Seems like Polish dudes are doing same as most guys eh! ;)