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Last Post: 22 Jul 2011
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Speaks Polish?: Enough to avoid the inlaws... ;)
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Ashleys mind   
9 Nov 2010
News / Poles are getting rich... [63]

Some Poles are getting rich, most stay in the moderate or low income bracket. My friend went to Poland after 18 years and found her friends living in the same, small, dingy apartments...

Just terrible... were they happy?

Like most cultural societies, they were not established in the name of progress... this tends to destroy cultural identity.... Be careful what you wish for.
Ashleys mind   
10 Nov 2010
News / Poles are getting rich... [63]

So does Marxism. Marxism is never the answer.

There can be no answer when we are still chasing the question...
Ashleys mind   
13 Nov 2010
Life / I saw Polish nationalism today [249]

I guess this is what happens when another generation of tolerant/ educated Poles leave for other lands... the intolerant uneducated minority have more sway...
Ashleys mind   
21 Nov 2010
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [167]

I discovered that giving gifts in poland is not customary full stop.

My partner had trouble understanding that I wanted to commemorate the birth of his nephew by sending his parents a gift...

and cards... forget it!

But you do what feels right... ;)
Ashleys mind   
21 Nov 2010
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [167]

I can see your point, but there are gifts which are gestures of thanks, and gifts which may be misconstrued in some way...

Either way, the doubts you raise say more about the possible level of corruption in state institutions than anything else...

A gift is after all just a gift.
Ashleys mind   
29 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Hmm. I think it's the way that they patronise, look down on and act superior to Poles that annoyed me, along with the way that they seem to want to dictate to Poles how Poland should be, without actually being here to make a difference.

Don't the Yanks have this approach with every country...? They have had the lead role in world political affairs through representational multilateral alignment and have dominated the world's economic and political spheres for decades...

If you want a well evaluated and dignified reverence for a country, why would you approach an American for that per se?

To be fair though, It's easy to think you've still got a grip on the goings on in any country once you've spent some time there, and especially if you have had it projected like some myth by your immigrant parents through your ancestral ties.

But this doesn't make that parcel of information necessarily correct or incorrect... it's just harder to maintain a real notion for any place unless you're actually there surrounded by the people, the media, the politics, the everyday life. And it's pointless to pretend otherwise.

The "brotherhood" between Poles and Polaks is dubious at most. I know of many Poles who have family in the States which they simply do not maintain contact with... this says alot about family ties once a cultural barrier is put in place.
Ashleys mind   
29 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Tell me, what would you do if America and Poland went to war? Would you come and fight for Poland? Would you ****.

That's a stupid question. The ties between the two countries still exist... maybe because so many American's have Poland in their hearts (THAT can never be removed).

And Delph, at what point do you consider yourself no longer British...? I just wonder if you are challenging the reality of still being Polish in a foreign land because YOU have shed your love for your homeland...?

Are you jealous that someone may still maintain their kinship for their country despite the great distance in time and space that separates them geographically?

You can spend years yearning for your "home" to find out that it has changed indeed... But where you feel you belong is something more than tangible. Ask prisoners this who have spent 20 years in the slammer yearning to be free only to realise they have lost the ability to function in that modem anymore...
Ashleys mind   
30 Nov 2010
Life / Welcome to winter in Poland! (-19C tomorrow) [64]

I was surprised by winter. I woke up Saturday morning (Kraków) to find out snow. Didn't fall yesterday but this morning it was heavy snow. Back to using mountain shoes instead of classy oxfords and monks.

Lol, your man needs less Kapusta, more Gołonka!

(Not 4 hours after this forecast in 1987, Southern England got wiped out by, yes, a massive hurricane ... )

trained by American intelligence. ;)
Ashleys mind   
30 Nov 2010
Life / Welcome to winter in Poland! (-19C tomorrow) [64]

Yeah, judging by the "intelligence" of some of those military units, they'd be better off sticking with superstitions and folklore!

A farce always looks funnier in uniform. :P
Ashleys mind   
30 Nov 2010
Life / Welcome to winter in Poland! (-19C tomorrow) [64]

Poland's feelbad factor is in full flow. Revellers are those that revel in that reality ;) Then again, the feelbad factor is an ever present here unless they have the chance to gibber, complain and gabble.

-19, great! I can feel like an Eskimo for free :)

Warm two large bread rolls and put them down your trousers... then everyone will wonder why you're smiling...;)
Ashleys mind   
30 Nov 2010
Off-Topic / Simple Things One Guy Wants.. (Parody.) [23]

Hey babe, that was beautiful. You just painted a picture of hope...

One thing you're obviously not short on is humanity.:)
Ashleys mind   
2 Dec 2010
Off-Topic / Simple Things One Guy Wants.. (Parody.) [23]

I want to know that even with problems in the world, there is still peace, there is still hope, and there is more understanding and compassion with each day.
Ashleys mind   
26 Dec 2010
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4500]

Are you saying we don't exist...? ;)

This was when Poland was part of East Prussia... and it originated somewhere in the Lakes region in the north. They were land owners driven out by the Prussians. But I will ask again...

And when I find out, I'm going to go back and take what's mine! (I'll give you 10% of course!) :)

Na zdrowie.
Ashleys mind   
26 Dec 2010
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4500]

Hey, no sweat, and I appreciate you looking...

It occurred to me that Polish doesn't retain the V like many other languages, and perhaps that is the Germanization of the name???

In any case, I haven't known for 30 years so I'm sure that another few months wont matter...

We have a good ancestry database facility online here, so I'll get my arise into gear and start researching.

Many thanks. :)

P.S. Do you work for the Gazeta?
Ashleys mind   
27 Dec 2010
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4500]

So Viludski has been most probably a Wiludski back home in the old world!

Apparently that doesn't exist either...

Do you know any Wiludskis yourself?

I'm guessing it's actually Widulski and my mum's alzheimers setting in! ;P
Ashleys mind   
27 Dec 2010
News / What should Poland do with the problem of Belarus? [1800]

It's little wonder White Russia doesn't need atomic weapons, they know they are securely allied to Russia with Lukaszenko at the helm...

I heard that this weeks protesters will be imprisoned for 15 years! That's a threat to global/ European democracy surely...?
Ashleys mind   
27 Dec 2010
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4500]

Really? Perhaps the name was extremely regional and in an area heavily persecuted by the Prussians... It seems someone ended up going to the states, but I know for a fact that part of my branch ended up in modern day Germany...

It's almost more mysterious that there are so few remaining... Or perhaps they just weren't marriage material?? It wouldn't surprise me! ;P
Ashleys mind   
27 Dec 2010
News / What should Poland do with the problem of Belarus? [1800]

Nah. You don't just *become* part of another country... I don't see that happening. People will leave Belarus before that happens...
Which direction they go will say a lot about what system *they* actually want to live under.
Ashleys mind   
27 Dec 2010
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4500]

died heriless

We aren't hairy people... ;P

were stranded on there wrong (Russian) side of the border in 1920 or 1945

So I might have relatives in Russia...? or worse... America! Well that changes everything!

had their name changed (inadvertently misspelt or deliberately respelt) beyond recognition

This sounds about right. Perhaps they were Jewish! :O
Ashleys mind   
2 Jan 2011
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

The Poles would only use them to invade Ukraine and take back Lwow. ;P

But srsly, why the hell allow guns at this point in history? They have historically served a purpose for military reasons, to a lesser extent for self defense, and to an even smaller degree for hunting.

Hunters can already obtain rifles. And I think we have the police and the army for the rest?
Ashleys mind   
3 Jan 2011
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

Ok, well democracy is one thing, the United States is another... Let's not mix the two up in this discussion. ;) You can have perfectly good democracy without "lowering gun crime with guns??" If that's what you're professing...

By the way, are there ample laws to protect the rights of the citizen to use their hand gun in this instance? And are there enough cases where people doing it have in fact been "let off" for having killed in self defense? (I bet you got good lawyers over there.)

Could these situations have been handled some other way?

In any case you can probably find sufficient evidence to justify gun ownership in your country (no doubt both sides could!) but let's leave it at that. Why introduce them to Poland? I think Poland has managed to arrive at democracy without them? And don't tell me that If you wanted to take a world leader out - you couldn't find a gun to do it in any country. Cause I guess shooting Presidents is your brand of democracy as well...? History suggests...

You don't fight politics with guns you fight it with democracy... if you're saying the two are inseparable then I would disagree, but in your case I can see where you're coming from.

The equal right to bear arms should be extended to other equalities... Cause all's I can see is folk using them on each other.

Anyways, in the words of Metal:

Please don't post music videos at random in the main forums. There are threads in off topic for this purpose.