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A J   
22 May 2010
Study / Rumor about racism - will I be fine in Poland as a black International student from Africa? [245]

Jarnowa: Yes, in comparison the crime rates of the Moroccan and Antillian group are procentually higher than the crime rates of the Dutch group. But! We're talking about small groups of people here. I live in Holland, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that one of the ugly facts is also that the Polish are the largest group of immigrants, who also happen to have the highest crime rates of all the other groups when it comes to burglary and robbery. Eastern Europeans (Not only the Polish!) are also infamous here for women-trafficking, and they share this position with Arabians.

Spare me your links from the homepage of our justice department, because I can give you incredibly detailed graphics and statistics, along with the exact numbers of which nationalities, and an exact description of which crimes have been committed by whom from the CBS. (Central Bureau of Statistics.)

So if you wish to talk about the truth, then you shouldn't point your finger at one group in particular, but be prepared to look into a mirror aswell. And don't get me wrong, I can admit to criticism about the Dutch aswell if it's truthful. That said, I really hope you'll see that there are usually two sides to every story, because Arabians and Antillians aren't always treated right here, which basically means they get humiliated in public very often, and that they won't be able to get a job if it's up to a lot of people.

If they can get a job, it's usually a job no one else wants to do. Even when they have better qualifications. How would you feel if you were treated like that? Would you feel like being a part of our society? Would you feel appreciated here? Would you feel respected? I don't think so. I think you'd feel like a slave, disrespected, and I think you'd be angry at all the people who treat you like that. Nothing good will come of that. Bad apples? Every group of people has a few bad apples, and when certain groups of people have more bad apples than other groups, it's time to ask yourself why, because this usually means there's a reason.

;)
A J   
22 May 2010
Study / Rumor about racism - will I be fine in Poland as a black International student from Africa? [245]

Maybe burglary, but i'm sure moroccans and blacks are still the nr. 1 when it comes to street/home/shop robberies. So i'm sure you can't give us a reliable source.

So you call the CBS (Central Bureau of Statistics.) an unreliable source? I promise I will respond to this later on.

I lived in Rotterdam for 6-7 years and i know that Arabs and Antillians do get a lot of help finding jobs, benefits and houses.

What kind of jobs? (I can tell you what kind of jobs, because I'm doing the same jobs. No contracts. Temporary. Sometimes even below minimum wage.) Benefits? You can't get benefits here unless you're 27 years old. Houses? Don't make me laugh! A flat maybe.

Even when they are criminal they can count on help from government and they hardly get punished for crimes.

Oh really? I happen to know for a fact that everyone gets the same punishments for the same crimes here. (Just like in every other country.) Do you honestly think our government prefers criminals to working people?

Goverment is only tough on companies who refuse them jobs.

Ofcourse, because they realize that poverty-related issues are the main reason behind crime, and it's wrong to deny someone a job because his last name doesn't sound too Dutch.

And if a muslim girl decides to wear islamic clothes when the job doesn't allow for that, she will get huge financial compensation if she gets fired.

Can you prove this? Did you know that 80% of the Moroccan girls here doesn't wear a headscarf or any other religious symbols? I've shown you guys a few pictures yesterday, but ofcourse you couldn't reply to any of that. (How convenient!)

Racism in Netherlands is even lower than in Belgium, so all in all you really can't blame society for the high crime rates among them.

I can when employers systematically refuse people a job. Poverty is the main reason behind crime. Everybody knows that. Go ahead, ask some smart people at your local University who have studied Sociology.

And my point is, given the fact that 3rd world immigrants are even a major problem in countries that treat them very well, you know that the root cause of the problem is the immigrants and not society.

The only problem I see is Islam being an extremely intolerant belief. You should learn to see the difference between a group of people and a religion, because not every Arabian is a Muslim, or wants to be one.

If you think about this, do you really want Poland to be the next country to suffer from multiculturalism?

Why don't you accept a million Dutch people in your country? I'm sure everybody will complain about them, because they aren't going to be good Catholics, I can promise you that much! About multiculturalism? Well, for your information: Poland has a different culture from Holland, but you guys are also welcome here.

;)
A J   
22 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Not really. I'd say the Dutch have bigger heads.

:)
A J   
22 May 2010
Study / Rumor about racism - will I be fine in Poland as a black International student from Africa? [245]

It isn't. And even if it was, there's not enough poverty in your country to justify all these robberies.

No, but there's enough poverty in your country, so you can tell that to the Polish guys who pointed a gun to my head. I was done working my nightshift, I walked home at 3:00, and I had no money on me. These two clowns saw me walking alone, and came out of the park and threatened me with a gun when they got close, while talking some gibberish about money which was supposed to sound like English. They got nothing from me. It's been reported in our local newspaper aswell, so don't tell me I'm lying again, unless you want me to dig up that article aswell.

Try to accept that the world isn't fair, you will become a realist one day.

Tell me something new? I'm as real as they come these days. I doubt you are. (Have you ever joined the army, since you're being such a patriot?) About reality, the Polish are the undisputed champions of burglary and robbery here. That's a fact. I know you hate to hear it, but it's true. I will show you all the figures after dinner.

:)
A J   
22 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

It's true, because I've got a big head too! (No, not *that* big!) I think that if I would ever have a baby with a Polish girl then he or she would be perfect really..

;)
A J   
22 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Or a perfect, less round head.

;P
A J   
24 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

You have a big head too. (Compared to Polish girls.)

;)
A J   
24 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Yeah really. (I don't mean it as an insult though!)

:)
A J   
24 May 2010
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

I do have a big head, I think I'm too sexy for you.

That's okay.

;)
A J   
25 May 2010
History / POLAND: EASTERN or CENTRAL European country? [1080]

For someone who lives in Russia, Poland would be to the West. For someone who lives in England, Poland would be to the East. It's not very complicated if you think about it.

:)
A J   
29 May 2010
History / Heil Poland!.....? Poland is a pro-Nazi state? [105]

No, Nationalism isn't bad, but this party is clearly beyond a healthy nationalism.

Oh really?

It's not like they only like whites. I have heard they also want Poles out of Germany..and Russians.

I'll give you a hint: Nationalism has everything to do with nationality, and not with being white or whatever. That's nationalism. So according to you, nationalism isn't bad, but you don't like it?

Are you a hypocrit, or just plain stupid?

:)
A J   
29 May 2010
History / Heil Poland!.....? Poland is a pro-Nazi state? [105]

What I am pointing at ,is that nationalism is often confused with racism, but as we see in this case, regarding the BNP or the NPD, is that they want only British people to live in England.

Which is stupid and bad for business in general, especially when you keep in mind that English people also came from all over Europe. I take it Nationalists are also people who shouldn't go on holidays? (Oh wait! They're hypocrits!)

:)
A J   
31 May 2010
History / Poles and (Polish) Jews... Victims of war... and beyond [380]

Does it even matter? It seems a bit disrespectful towards all the victims to make this a dick-measuring contest about who was the most righteous nation or not. People were scared. Would you want to risk your family for someone else? Would your wife agree? Would your children understand? It's easier said than done you know.. To all those people who saved people from the Nazis: You're all brave people.

:)
A J   
31 May 2010
History / Poles and (Polish) Jews... Victims of war... and beyond [380]

For some reason there's a delay in the replies for me sometimes, so I didn't see yours at the time I posted. I totally agree with your posting, and that's exactly what happened to people who would help Jews, homosexuals, intellectuals, soldiers, Roma, or people of the resistance. Brave people indeed. I feel sorry for those children who died because of their decisions aswell. They could've lived a full life if people hadn't been such a dumb flock of sheep to actually vote for people who promoted racial hatred. Now that we've all learned about everything that happened in the past, everyone should know by now what will come of such politics, so it really makes my blood boil to see what some misguided individuals post here sometimes. Especially with all the knowledge we have today about the family tree of humanity and our DNA. Unbelievable.

:S
A J   
12 Jun 2010
Love / Ten things to remember when you have a Polish girlfriend [79]

xD

You have two choices; get your act together and behave like a decent human being or avoid the mother like the plague. Neither is painless.

Or find a not-so-decent girl from a not-so-decent family. Problem solved!

;P

About 90 percent of all women in Poland are named Magda, Ola, Anna, Dorota, or Kasia. That's it.

So true! I once met a girl, and I still don't know if her name was Anna, Ania or Aniela! (Whatever!)

xD
A J   
21 Jun 2010
Life / 3 reasons why you hate Poland. [1049]

This thread's almost two years old, and I still can't think of any reason to hate Poland.

:(
A J   
22 Jun 2010
Life / 3 reasons why you hate Poland. [1049]

U must be high 24/7 then

No, I just never experienced anything in Poland that I haven't experienced anywhere else, so why should I hate Poland?

;)
A J   
11 Jul 2010
Love / What do Polish girls think about dating Asian guys? [134]

Each to their own.

Exactly. The people who have interracial relationships make up about 11% of the world's population, and their choice should be respected, just as your choice should be respected. No one else can tell you who to marry.

Ewa wrote very wise words.

She expressed how she feels without venting her hatred of that which is different. I can respect that. So if you want to be wise, you should try to acknowledge that not everyone feels, thinks and behaves the same way.

This should be a lesson to some moralistic whiners on this forum that nothing's wrong to be against a multiracial society.

Oh, but it's totally wrong to hate people simply because of what they are. I believe that everyone should be able to make their own choices in life, regardless of what other people may think of it.

You say you get angry when you see a black guy with a Polish girl, but you're a Belgian, so you're not Slavic yourself, and you haven't been raised on Polish culture either. You have no right to complain about what some girls choose to do with other foreigners. The fact that offends you speaks volumes already. You should try to remember that you're just as much a foreigner with a different culture and background as any other foreigner in Poland.

I have no problems with opinions, but I do have problems with hypocrits who can't accept or tolerate other people, simply because of who or what they are. But you obviously don't seem to get that.

If you are Asian, do everyone a favour and stay away from Polish girls.

My niece is half Chinese and half Dutch. She's a beautiful young lady and has a succesful career at Tommy Hilfiger. My cousin is half Chinese and half Dutch aswell, and he's engaged to a Polish girl who likes him. He wasn't the one who approached her, it was her who approached him. (I was there, we were on a Holiday in Greece.) He should stay away from her because she likes him, and he likes her? I will kindly tell you to do yourself a favour and stop concerning yourself with whatever other people choose to do, because they're adults, and they have as much of a right to live as you have. (Regardless of what you think of it.)

:)
A J   
11 Jul 2010
Love / What do Polish girls think about dating Asian guys? [134]

This thread is not about me and not about blacks, so i can't answer you.

Ofcourse, now it's about Asians, so what's the difference? You're still whining about foreigners, while you're obviously a foreigner yourself! Anyway, I've made a thread for you, and I'm sure you've noticed it already, so you could show some balls and reply to all of that to the best of your ability, instead of running away every time someone asks you a simple question. I'm actually trying to do you a favour by telling you all these things, but I guess you're too pissed off to see that.

;)
A J   
21 Jul 2010
USA, Canada / Any Poles in Orange County, CA? [40]

Yep--that's Orange County for ya...there is a serious lack of Poles and Polish cuisine :(

Why is it called Orange County anyway? Do they grow a lot of Oranges there? Or is this area somehow historically Dutch?

:)
A J   
21 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish and East European prostitutes in the UK [240]

Most people don't want their partner to be a former prostitute for example.

And what if she turns out to be a real sweet girl? What if she really loves you for who you are as a person? What if she did whatever she thought she had to do to survive? What if she never really wanted to be a prostitute? What if she's the only girl who would ever love you?

:)
A J   
21 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish and East European prostitutes in the UK [240]

OP is a troll he made this threat only to vilipend Poles as usual and yes I have right to be malicious just to show him how easy is to make derogatory statements on other nations.

I can't say I blame you.

:)
A J   
21 Jul 2010
USA, Canada / Any Poles in Orange County, CA? [40]

There used to be orange orchards there. It was a major industry.

Really? So what changed? Americans no longer like Oranges?

It's right next to Los Angeles County.

I knew that.

;)
A J   
21 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish and East European prostitutes in the UK [240]

Seriously, i rather stay alone for the rest of my life than having a sexual relation with a (former) prostitute.

Okay, and what about a girl who has had dozens of boyfriends, and dozens of one night stands?

Most prositutes are simply sick in their brain.

I'm actually willing to dispute this. There are a lot of men *and* women who talk these kind of ideas into a young girl's mind. No offense to all the girls out there, but girls are sensitive to status and pretty susceptible to what other women do, especially at a younger age. Take modern media for example; All they show you is success, materialism, beauty, power and wealth. They present this as an ideal. Money is made all-important. Girls who don't have much might be persuaded to something they actually wouldn't do if these things didn't seem all-important. So are they sick? Or is society sick? Are they sick? Or the men who pay her for sex? Oh, and keep in mind that eventhough some girls may have been persuaded or seduced into this line of work, they can barely get out due to pressure, threats or social stigmatizing.

There really must be something wrong in your head if you want to act like a semen bin for anyone paying.

..or really naive, really poor, really desperate, really unlucky, really forced or really wanting to get somewhere. You don't know all of these girls. I do know one ex-prostitute personally though. She chose to do it for herself at a time when she was young and really needed the money because she wanted to study. It seemed very easy money to her at first, but she regretted it a few years later. She felt dirty, cheap, disrespected and used. She never went to college, but she's happily married now, to someone who actually knows her background, and she has two kids. She's a good woman at heart and has a very warm personality. She really is a pretty girl, and her guy doesn't look that great, but he was one of the few who could look past what she used to do. He's happy with her, and she's happy with him. Sounds like a fairytale, but it happens more often than you'd think. Most girls keep their past a secret. (I think if you carry secrets around for too long it's bad for your health though.)

Anyway, it's easy to judge, and I know everything about that, because I used to be a very black and white person myself. No longer though. There are worse things than a girl who sells herself. Much worse actually.

;)
A J   
22 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish and East European prostitutes in the UK [240]

Ok, i understand. But aren't there more than enough respectful jobs to earn good money?

I'm sure you're aware of the fact that there are more highly qualified people than there are highly qualified jobs. (With a few exceptions in a few fields of expertise.) Not everyone gets a fair chance out there, no matter how good they are at something. It usually comes down to who you know, and who your friends are. (Or your looks.)

You wouldn't care if you meet a girl with such lifestyle and she tells you that she earns all this money from babysitting a few nights per week, whilst in reality she's earns it from letting dozens of ugly men c#m in her mouth?

Most prostitutes and amateur-girls who earn money that way are actually smart enough to use condoms, so don't worry. I'm sure that's what you would think after watching a couple of prn movies, but you should keep in mind that prn and prostitution are two different things.

;)

Or maybe they don't want to be a ***** at an office for eight hours a day. Maybe they don't want to work at McDonalds for a week to make what they do in a night. Maybe...

Probably true in some cases, and can you blame them? For as long as there will be guys who pay for their services, some of them who have the looks will make use of that. Although you have to be fair, because there are plenty of girls who actually do work at McDonald's, as you can see for yourself.

Anyway, anyone who has ever bought a drink for a woman and then took her home, has f*cked a prostitute.

Or she really liked you and hoped for more, but I guess you didn't think this could've been a possibility.

Anyone that has a stay at home wife is probably married to a prostitute.

I'm not even going to reply to that one, because you really should know better at your age.

:)
A J   
22 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish and East European prostitutes in the UK [240]

Or just wanted to get a drink and get f*cked. It's not romantic, and it happens every night, over and over and over.

True, but of course there are guys who are more than willing to be their plaything for a night aswell. Girls are almost like human beings you know, and they don't always want or need commitment either. Just like guys.

Stop giving them money, see what happens.

It's not all about the money though. It also has to do something with appreciation and a sense of having someone who takes good care of you. I know some very succesful dudes who are still lonely, and I know plenty of girls who have picked average Joe at some point in their lives aswell.

Isn't "financially independent" one of those things that scores fairly on what women look for?

If you were a woman, would you like the idea of having to raise your children with a man who can't even take care of himself? Again, it's not all about the money.

Right up there with dashing good looks and sense of humor right?

If a man has good looks, a sense of humour and takes good care of himself you'll see that he won't be single for too long. Some guys really have a lot of bad luck though. Some girls too.

;)