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Posts by Lenka  

Joined: 17 Nov 2009 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 6 Nov 2025
Threads: Total: 6 / Live: 4 / Archived: 2
Posts: Total: 3593 / Live: 2726 / Archived: 867 		From: Polska
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Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Start differentiating present and past tense.

That 'carer' is about times when women weren't considered capable of making their own decisions and required a male guardian.

I would like to see these studies. And it still won't make me any less happy that I'm not dependant on a man. Double happy if we consider certain type of man from this forum.

And divorce don't bother me. Please don't mix marriage with family
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Some man couldn't, some weren't encouraged against being legally forbidden...Grow up.
Raped man are to me exactly the same victims as women . I'm more than willing to encourage and support a campaign and programs addressing it. The difference is that rape in a relationship wasn't recognised by law.

Most divorces are finished without a man having any responsibility for the women.
As to sexually abusing kids,care to give us any data as the general agreement is that man are quite ahead in that?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Why should it give anything to man if they already had all those things? But of course if you want we can strip man off all those and then after many years give it back to them. How is that for equality?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Feminism gave me the right to vote, go to school and be independent of a male 'carer' . It gave me the right to look for justice if I get raped, even if it's my partner/husband that did it and much more. It also didn't stop me having the family I want (where I choose what I want and not fate)

What do you offer if?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

Anyone but mostly Atch:
My friend has a problem. Her kid has rotten teeth (and it went also on her few adult teeth). The kid has
School meals and every day something sweet. The mother asked multiple times but the only response was that she will feel bad if she is the only kid without something sweet. What can she do?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

Why does mashing them help?

It doesn't help, it's just the only option as they have problem keeping shape when cooking.

I do like Charlotte potatoes but they are sometimes hard to get (Tesco stopped stocking them completely in my area)
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

would not be so difficult to propagandise Europeans to have big families again, just do the right marketing.

Sure, but who would be stupid enough to plan their life and their family because of some campaign?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

There does seem to be a preference for what we in Ireland call 'soapy' potatoes, or as Jon says, 'waxy

I have the opposite problem. I hate British potatoes. To find ones you could eat without mashing is a miracle.

I guess it's a matter of taste and being used to certain type
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
History / What makes you feel Polish? [167]

Lyzko, I beg of you, if you want to repeatedly use a word please check the spelling. It's ''polskość".

I have difficulty manipulating this tiny keyboard. Merely a typo, teacher!
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
Life / Poles turn their backs on organised religion. [148]

Because of my upbringing, I would not rape, murder, or steal - even if those were not in the American penal code.

And funny how I wouldn't rape, murder or steal even if it wasn't in the ten commandments.
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
Life / Poles turn their backs on organised religion. [148]

starting with fatherless kids, aberrations like homosexuality, infidelity, crime, drug addiction, kids having kids...

Hmm, and what country doesn't have that?
Lenka   
30 Jan 2021
Language / Short Polish<->English translations [1050]

Psiakrew is definitely getting out of fashion. Cholera still holds strong but I may be blinded as I like to use it :)
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Man is the provider, he is expected to bring food and provide shelter.

Oh sorry, I didn't realise I'm talking with someone from the middle ages
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Well then all the people who have kids from earlier relationship should stay single forever? Is that what you are saying?
Btw, could I see that data?
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

She and her kid would always come first and not he or his kids

And why would a women marry a single dad?
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

If you think in purely biological terms- yes. But not all people do.
Lenka   
27 Jan 2021
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Well, we will see how it will work for them. It's an emotional issue and with this they pushed the emotions of public against the new law. Of course with a lot of work on programs etc they could influence how people feel about it but for now it might be hard
Lenka   
27 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

And in the summer.... you didn't get too close to the bushes.... or you might see wildlife you didn't

That's how a women in my family lost her virginity.
And even earlier than that. During family event when all the family members were moaning how young are immoral and all that said: And you all forgot how in spring only the the hay bales were moving?