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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

Young men without prospects (not only in courting) make one of the most unstable and volatile elements in a society

True that. Young people in general need occupation, something to keep them busy.

Look at yourself, you said that you gave up women as you can't find someone you like and it's ok. You invest in yourself, find and pursue what you want and that's great! That's why you are not and never would be an incel.
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

fruit does not drop from the sky

And that piece of wisdom didn't convince women to have more babies? Shock.

There are some amazing fathers but I wonder what the birth rate would have been if man had to look after their kids for the first 2 years

However this is conversation for a different thread. Incels don't get to that stage
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

would want to be conscious about a man's needs.

Not man in general. No. Not in relation to me. It's good to know for discussion purposes but not in any indication as to my behaviour.

Putting an effort, is not being yourself?

Not saying something that you think because the other side my not like it is (unasked for hurtful comments aside)

Well tell me this then, which man would you prefer (theoretically)

I can honestly say either. I have no fear/hatred for marriage but I also don't think with any warmth towards it.

one side feeling they shouldn't have to make the effort....

What do you mean by making the effort? Pretending being someone else? And the happiest couples I know don't make any effort, they are just...being themselves and it works.

the old way with extended families meant that no one person was overwhelmed by having to deal with a baby all day

People do forget that. I remember even from my family when I was little that when kids were around every member of the family was involved. The kid would walk around here and there and every adult and teenager would keep an eye/ interact
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

those wonderful kids become difficult?

Have you stayed home for few years with a baby?
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

Problem one- you start with what man value. Why should I care? Do you think I'm on a man hunt? And even than wouldn't it be better if I was myself and found a partner who knows me instead of trying to please him?

But other than that, being loyal is one thing, being married is another. One really doesn't have to get married to be loyal and being married didn't stop people from being disloyal

As to one night stands- the whole problems for incels is that they are not getting them
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

marriage is seen as less and less holy.

Demographics are dropping in every developed country for a simple reason- kids are wonderful but they are hard work, divorces happen, sadly but it has nothing to do with incels nor does it necessarily mean the kid doesn't have both parents as role models.

Hook ups- do you mean one night stands or couples without marriage.

And well, I never saw anything holy in a marriage.

Maf, I'm not buying it. I think they found a scapegoat for their own shortcomings. Not that unusual but they take it to the extreme.
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

would have done fine in life 50 years ago as reasonably happily married and employed men are now being forced out of the labor market

How? Because from what I see most countries are generally ok-ish in that respect?

I agree that a lot of those guys somehow fell into the society's black hole but I don't think it's that completely without their participation and seriously bit*ing about women and becoming aggressive is making sure that they will stay misfits.

It's one thing to see a guy who is maybe a bit shy and doesn't have the courage to chat girls up (especially if the first steps are hurtful) and is lonely but still try to have a full life and some punk who thinks it's somehow his right to get the girls.

They are not talking about relationships and family, they talk about sex.

Btw, there was supposed to be a smile after that comment about me campaigning.
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

Women are pickier than men...

Well, if you think I will start a campaign for women to be less picky you will be disappointed.

The idea that being single or even a virgin gives you a right to be a moaning, hateful, aggressive jack*as is quite funny. Didn't work out? Tough sh*t. Deal with it.
Lenka   
19 Feb 2021
Love / Incels in Poland [299]

As a women I should probably accept my blame but instead I wonder...

How are called women that can't get a man? How many times even on this forum being a single women was used in a shaming technique?
Lenka   
18 Feb 2021
News / New "Polish memorial" in Berlin [316]

Russians came to Poland to stop the murders and to liberate.

Where did you learn your history?
Lenka   
18 Feb 2021
News / New "Polish memorial" in Berlin [316]

Then I hope you are not crying about American soldiers being killed and accept they should be executed as soon as captured?
Lenka   
16 Feb 2021
Work / Working as a PL-EN translator - good idea? Sworn translators in Poland. [27]

The AI revolution is one with consequences comparable only to those of the industrial revolution

It scares me as hell. I hope I will die before it becomes too crazy. I'm more worried about the young generation in my family.

what is a "sworn" translator?

Someone who can work with official documents, courts, police etc. You have to pass an exam
Lenka   
11 Feb 2021
History / Polish nobility - what is the status of princes and aristocrats in modern Poland? [33]

Senators are politicians- you won't find many having good opinion of them :) And they are elected which is better than being born into it or getting it for some silliness.

I really prefer the system when it's only a nice dinner story rather than legally recognised thing. To each their own I guess
Lenka   
11 Feb 2021
History / Polish nobility - what is the status of princes and aristocrats in modern Poland? [33]

It usually does for people from places where they're regulated

Which is completely wrong in my opinion. There is no accomplishment in being born into noble family. The only person that possibly could justify being treated differently because of that is the person who was given it (if the reason for it was noble enough). If you become a Lady because you are the Prime Minister's wife hair dresser then well...
Lenka   
11 Feb 2021
News / Previous Poland's government corrupting the media. [125]

Well it seems PiS partner is not going to cooperate

newsweek.pl/polska/polityka/porozumienie-nie-poprze-nowego-podatku-medialnego-gowin-przeciwko-kaczynskiemu/773n322
Lenka   
11 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

I will do although I don't think the mother is prepared to push any harder than the letter. The hope is that it will work
Lenka   
11 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

If you want, let me know and I'll write the letter for her

Im going to take you up on this offer. She said she spoke with few teachers and it was the same argument 'she will be sad if she is the only one without something sweet' and it has been 3 dentists advice that the kid shouldn't eat sweets.