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25 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

No men goes to work because they are trying to seek "self-fulfillment", or whatever.

That is very telling. So, Kondzior does not know anyone that gets a real satisfaction from their chosen profession.

Women on the other end are inherently selfish.

Also, he believes that women, the nurturing sex, are inherently selfish.

Very sad.
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24 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

I think Zimmy is one of those people that are unduly influenced by media. Like someone that sees the report of the crime and believes he's going to be a victim next.

He finds a lowest denominator and insists that's how the world is.
He should spend more time watching videos of abused and exploited women to try and achieve some balance, but I don't think he's interested in that.
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23 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

How about your dad? Are you in regular contact with him?

My father is valiantly searching for next ex-Mrs, (5th or 6th one, I lost count) that would be blissfully fulfilled by serving him.
Our relationship is good, as it usually is when there is a 1000 miles distance between us.
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23 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Maybe only a minority but there was enough of them or they were vociferous enough to create a stereotype

No, I don't think that is the point. They did not create the stereotype.
It was, and still, is a deliberate campaign to make the women struggle for equality as unpalatable as possible.
Straight out of the politics how-to book: liberals are lazy whiners, republicans are greedy bankers, feminists are bull-dykes.
Thankfully, younger generation is beginning to think for itself.
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23 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

The two-fisted, mannish but man-hating feminists have covered the justified quest for equal rights with a negative image and odium not everyone likes to equate with.

And again, the tactic of associating feminists with those images worked on many people, for the same reason dim-witted public accepts and perpetuates the unhealthy image of women.

But that is not reality.
Most women I know are feminists, even if they don't know it.
My mother, for example. Both of my parents were working engineers, but it is my mother that always did all the food shopping, preparing, cleaning, taking us for all appointments and staying with us when we were sick. My father, occasionally did a dish, but only if it was fun, and he got enough attention. I could bet my life that he never brushed a toilet.

And she would have loved to have the satisfaction of fixing the car, or be the driver on family's vacation, but then.. what would he do??

She did all her duties beautifully, until the day she did not have to take care of us kids. That day she walked away and started a new life.

And now, whenever she feels even a little bit melancholy, she looks back just to remind herself how bad it could be, and she appreciates her life anew.
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23 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Even right wing agrees that women are entitled to political, legal, social, and economic equality to men.
Often, left tends to think that it's the class exploitation that causes women oppression.
Only naive minds like Zimmy's, who think that feminism is about integrating golf clubs, cannot be penetrated (to use the words he likes).

So, I don't ascribe feminism to any political leanings.
I think it's more about what you practice, than what you preach.

If a man helps with housework and cooking, he is a feminist.
If he cannot bring himself to do it because that's "women's work", then he is a prisoner in a cage.
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17 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

I hope things changed a lot in Poland from what I remember, but back then, most numerous were the heroes that accepted the daily grind of their lives with grace, somehow managed to make 3 meals a day and keep their families together, without the need to knock themselves out with vodka at the end of the day.

There is no doubt in my mind that women are stronger than men.
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17 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Music is not logic, it is subjective. How can you reasonably compare an artist/musician with another?
Same with cooking. Can you prove that men perform better than women in that matter (too)?

Agreed.
kondzior and zimmy are not looking for a discussion, but to find validation for their warped views. If they really think that women's contributions are inferior, then they are too far gone for any forum discussion to make a difference.

Fact that they found each other on Polish forum is damning enough, but thankfully, from what I see, not many others here share their views.
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17 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

women can't perform as well as men in music, or even in cooking, fields where physical strength means nothing

totally untrue

Women in the military is another sign of the inanity that pervades this civilization and is one more step towards total doom.

only for those that cannot see the innanity of war

i see! heretical.com is a white supremacist site. Makes sense where you're coming from.
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16 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

if a woman finds that the best use of her time is to point out, with her gun, the errors of others ways, then by all means, she should be allowed to try. Same as men. But, I don't think the tests should be any different.

That said, the times when we marched armies across the continents have long passed. Today, other factors such as mental agility, stability and precision might be more valuable than brute strength, and the tests should reflect that.
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15 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

In case there is a single person left that still reads Kondzior's fascist rants, here is a relevant article in Psychology Today:
psychologytoday.com/blog/beautiful-minds/201207/men-women-and-iq-setting-the-record-straight
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12 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Shame tactics are generally associated with feminine traits.

I'm assuming the shame tactics you must be referring to are the repeated mentions of the "masturbation classes" by Polonius. It seems that in his mind, it's an ace card when trying to discredit feminism.

Feminine trait? Why do you use it, then?
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12 Jul 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

You, however, just hate women, as is shown by your refusal to see them as being proper humans.

He just cannot get those masturbation classes out of his mind. LOL
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11 Jul 2013
News / Poland to reject Snowden asylum bid [55]

No surprise there. Poland still hopes to gain much from US.
It's all political.
If, what Snowden did was done by somebody in China or Russia, he would be hailed a hero.
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28 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Zimmy, you seem to think that feminists hate men. Honestly, they don't. And secure men don't hate feminists. Me? I'd happily have f stop's babies if she asked me :-).

I can understand how Zimmy think feminists hate men. Unless a woman is a doormat, she'll either hate or pity men like Zimmy.

Englishman, what on earth are we doing even contributing to a thread like this?
While I frequently share much of my other contributions on the internet, I would be too ashamed to admit that I devoted any time to this level of ignorance.

Why on Polishforums? For those that are concerned about the image of Poland, consider this thread as one of the most damaging of all, considering that most of your readers are women.
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27 Jun 2013
Food / Bigos Recipe [183]

There should not be any oil (or lard) added to bigos. All the fat should be from the choice cuts of meats, preferably pork.
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27 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Equal pay for equal performance?

dude, your hangover mornings have a greater impact on productivity. LOL
The reason I said to ask your mother is because you should try entering a real world instead of just looking for proof for your inane theories.

but I am still trying.

what you're trying is to promote the stereotypes, but reasonable people can see right through it. If you believe that every woman just has to lose the ability to put up with bu11sht once a month and that affects her productivity, when you have to find somebody that believes that men thinking about sex oh.. thousand times a day might have some bearing on theirs, and have your discussion there. This should not be very hard to do, seeing that you like to surround yourself with the intellectual giants that have no problem suspending critical and logical thinking when discussing feminism, race and religion.

So, you try so hard to pretend that you're having a "serious discussion", while no rationally adept person could ever justify your beliefs without going through hugely incompetent steps to do so.
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26 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

addressing the maternity, mensrtual and PMS issues

What form of compensation or incentive could an employer expect for the production losses and disorganisation this could cause?

Are you freakin serious? Ask your mother about her production losses, she'll explain it to you!
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26 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

that absolves you in your opinion from answering a question

no, I have stated my position numerously, after a while it becomes akin to talking to a wall...
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26 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

I'm sorry, Polonius... I only read about one line from any of your posts.
Let me guess: I'm a conservative guy, and feminism is wrong... how unusual.
All oppressors fought hard: against women vote, against freeing of slaves...
You're on wrong side of history, dinosaurs! Women are equal under the law.
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26 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Why don't you care about the damage feminism has inflicted on society?

are you referring to the mistakes your mother made raising you? ;)