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Posts by Lyzko  

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Lyzko   
18 Jul 2016
Life / Being a Jew in modern-day Poland; Israeli Jew who is of Polish descent [269]

To be sure, when I was in Szczecin, round about 1995 or so, while I felt ZERO anti-Jewish feeling, I'm tall, light-eyed and spoke more or less comprehensible Polish, thus, was not identified as Jewish, merely as foreign (possibly GermanLOL).

This makes a tremendous difference, in my opinion:-)
Lyzko   
18 Jul 2016
Life / Being a Jew in modern-day Poland; Israeli Jew who is of Polish descent [269]

Were the busloads of Jewish visitors on an escorted or private excursion, then I believe you. Apart from that, I've heard both from gentile Poles as well as Jews from Poland that outwardly "Jewish" symbolism aka wearing a kipa outdoors, being seen in a schreimel and paeis in public (once again, as Iwonka noted, save for Kraków or the capital) while traveling through Polish villages might well yield stares, occasional cat calls or unwanted comment!
Lyzko   
18 Jul 2016
Life / Being a Jew in modern-day Poland; Israeli Jew who is of Polish descent [269]

Fine, Iwonka! Kraków, Warszawa, Wrocław or Poznań etc. are NOT the countryside!! A black might well be considered "exotic" there, whereas a Jew might indeed have cause to be fearful, perhaps not as during the War years (or immediately thereafter aka Kielce, Jedwabne..), but instead run the risk of having their car tires slashed etc...

The latter I have on good authority from Polish Jews returning to their parents' villages during the late '80's, early '90's, and being identifiably Jewish, had less than positive experiences:-)
Lyzko   
29 Jun 2016
Genealogy / Typical Polish Eye Color [77]

Eye colour alone, however, does scarcely a Pole make:-) Usually, the facial or bone structure (along with height) may indicate a particular nationality. I know for instance any number of Italians and Spaniards with lightish eyes, and yet their build, apparent hair texture/facial hair for men, and general stature show them to be Southerners.
Lyzko   
28 Jun 2016
Study / American school of Wroclaw for expats [5]

The question really should be, for which type of English is said salary to be paid, Indlish or Amlish, he-he!

When Polish people speak English, I've found their accent "Englishesque", not really English and not really American either:-)
More "Poglish", I'd say.
Lyzko   
28 Jun 2016
News / Poland in the European Union. Polexit? [559]

Now everybody's gettin' into the act, to paraphrase the late Jimmy Durante! Why not a Germexit, while we're at it? The Far Right PEGIDA and AfD have been hankering for while now:-)

I mean, don't let's anyone feel left outLOL
Lyzko   
27 Jun 2016
Genealogy / The typical Polish look, or all Eastern Europeans [656]

Well Germans, for either Russians as well as Poles, are fraught with historical baggage! Probably, as Germans admire achievement alone as few other Europeans, the Russians are more admired than the Poles at the present time.

Furthermore, Putin likes Merkel, plus they both speak each others' languages fluently:-)
Lyzko   
22 Jun 2016
Genealogy / The typical Polish look, or all Eastern Europeans [656]

Poles have considerable Germanic ethnic stock intermingled with their Slavic roots. This might indeed account for their frequently tall stature, light eyes, squarish face along with solid build and often fair, coarse hair!
Lyzko   
21 Jun 2016
Study / Review of the Poznan University of Economics? [18]

Although I've never studied in Poland, what Mafketis says makes lots of sense to me. Besides, do you think a foreign, non-native English speaking student can actually trust the English skills of a non-native English-speaking instructor?

If I were a Vietnamese studying in English (not my mother tongue) with a Polish or German professor whose mother tongue isn't English either, I'd become terribly confused, not feeling I had an anchor in my own mother tongue with which to guide me through difficult material!

Again, it'd be almost like the blind (or seeing impaired) leading the visually handicapped, sort of like playing a game of "Simon Says" with Abbott & Costello plus The Marx BrosLOL By the end of the encounter my head would be reeling!

:-)
Lyzko   
8 Jun 2016
Love / Woman 28 single, too late for a relationship with a Polish man? [67]

Right on!

I think that it's culturally myopic, regardless of the culture, to "blame" either a woman or a man for not being "hitched" by the time they're necessarily in their late twenties:-)

All people develop differently, furthermore, times are quite different from those of the immediate post-1945 generation. Sure, our parents, especially grandparents, typically married early, if for no other reason than noone was quite sure in those days how long one might be alive!!!

To errantly stigmatize any young woman for not being married by the random age of 28, thereby putting a sort of evil eye on the poor soul ever finding a decent partner is in my opinion, not only mean spirited, it's primitive and downright medaeval.
Lyzko   
8 Jun 2016
Love / Woman 28 single, too late for a relationship with a Polish man? [67]

In many societies as well, small minds will wonder and idle tongues will wag.

Sadly yes, all too often the unenlightened judge those around them without sufficiently knowing the other person's situation.
If as a 28 year-old in Poland or wherever, someone actually believes you are too "OLD", then it is they who have the problem, and not you:-)
Lyzko   
7 Jun 2016
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

Folks are gettin' awful tired of eternal gratitude there, Johnny! Wouldn't you?:-)

Can't say as I much blame 'em, constantly being reminded that THEY were the ones WE saved long ago.
Put yourself in their position for a change.
Lyzko   
5 Jun 2016
Real Estate / Finding rent in Poland without speaking Polish? [12]

Best use a trusted interpreter/confidant or bilingual friend to assist in even a seemingly straightforward transaction as renting a flat.

Poles can be a tricky bunch!
Lyzko   
3 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Gumishu, Poles in my experience ALWAYS help each other with jobs aka finding work through Black Market connections, intrigue and favor trading!

What worked during Communism also works today:-)
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Back to the thread topic, it seems to me that stupidity vs. intelligence is again largely culture based, indeed a learned phenomenon. As Poland, compared, say, with Germany, England, France, or the United States, industrialized more slowly (owing to among other factors her severe losses during various wars, therefore a considerable financial deficit in her national coffers!), the perception abroad had often been that Poland aka Poles were a backwater lot, sluggish, lazy, loutish and drunken, lacking the native intelligence to perfect an infrastructure as in the above countries heretofore mentioned.

Interestingly, many Western Europeans in particular had frequently voiced the same observations concerning Africa, as a primitive continent which could never prosper, e.g. according to European standards.

Poland developed an inferiority complex, since the common shibboleth was that the only way she could progress would necessarily be through outside help, as he was allegedly incapable of providing for herself.

Well, Copernicus, Łobaczewski, Madame Curie, Kazimir Funk and a host of other talented scientists proved the naysayers dead wrong!!
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

"I think I undersTOOd you WELL enough......"

Thinking is not knowing!:-))

"....you're an American and have no clue."

But you have I suppose, Mr. Wiech the Brilliant??!

"You have MY E-mail ADDRESS."

Yes, I have.

Sorry to correct your English. It's a messy job, by someone's got to do itLOL
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

As I mailed you shortly ago, you clearly misunderstood (either unintentionally or on purpose) my post! By definition, helping someone through whatever means necessary entails some sort of pull or bribery, face it!

If Poles, Russians and others in the Black Market didn't work slightly less than kosher deal making, they wouldn't have survived! Honest?
Of course there are honest and trustworthy Poles, Russians etc., only during the Cold War, honesty didn't get you very far:-)

This doesn't mean that being crooked is somehow part of the Polish DNA any more than murderous anti-semitism and slavish devotion to order is intrinsically German (although many have tried to prove that it is!), does it?

Possibly, as with certain others on PF, your English skills might not be up to the job, so kindly admit to a communication glitch and I'd be happy to write more simply next time.
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Oh, you're very much mistaken, Panie Wiechu!

Poles, as with the rest of those from formerly Communists aka Black Market countries, do indeed help one another through bribery (łapówki) and favor trading, just like those from the Old Silk Road:-)

Please, don't insult our intelligence.