Off-Topic / American Jew Voice in Poland [93]

Bored, because mom and dad fell asleep at the switch way too long ago to have been able to make a positive difference in their lives. Having watched that post-War cinema icon "Rebel Without a Cause", frankly, I was always on Jim Backus' side, not James Dean's and felt sorry for both parents that they'd allowed their son to carry on so.

"Bored"??? Sure they were, because they lacked the same proper guidance which made The Greatest Generation and their parents the role models they were and continue to be:-)

Off-Topic / American Jew Voice in Poland [93]

Agreed, Dirk Diggler! I found their lot repulsive when I was a teen, I find it as repugnant today. When someone talks to me about protest and the '60's, amid the Merry Pranksters and the Acid Droppers, I become apoplectic!!!

You want to show me real protest, and not "for fun" either, 'cuz I'm a bored rich kid out for a lark? Show me the lower- and lower-middle class rioting during the 30's and into the early '40's on the streets of New York and other Eastern cities, fighting with their very lives for the right to a minimum wage and a fair shake, that godsend to our society the spoiled '68ers so took for granted.

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

@DominicB, I can only take your word for it, as you've become far more familiar with contemporary Poland than I. Oh, I nearly forgot to mention Szpilman along with Godowsky and Josef Hofmann (later a proud US citizen).

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Well that certainly made up for it with some of the finest instrumental performers this side of paradise: Paderewski, Horszowski, Brailowsky, Henryk Szering etc.
Then there was also the "Polish thrush", often mentioned in the same breath as Caruso, Jan Kiepura! Can't forget about him.

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Wonder why that is, DominicB.

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

I've only experienced Polish choirs here in the New York Tri-State area and found the particpants in general darned attractive myself. Or were you referring to their choice of repertoire?

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Christmas festivities do include often a fair amount of imbibing, this is true. Maybe that's why we wish people a "merry" Christmas, as "merry" in British English means slightly tipsy owing to alcohol consumption. Colder countries tend to drink more anyway than in warmer climates:-)

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Polish carols are lovely. Once many years ago, I was a guest at the annual Christmas bash at the Kosciuszko Foundation in New York and came away deeply moved at how reverently Poles seem to take their national traditions.

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

If you honestly believe what you just wrote, kaprys, you must have some dim brain wattage:-) Apparently therefore, it's not part of your personal culture to argue, perhaps violently, with somebody you love or care about, then after the argument, make up, is that what you're saying? This points to a most immature world view, in my opinion.

I love many aspects of Poland, while decrying others which are clearly bad, both for the country as well as the rest of Europe!

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Because one criticizes someone or someones doesn't mean one's anti-that group, does it?

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

What is your definition of "strange", kaprys? Gotcha that time!

A religious, that is, staunch Roman Catholic must by definition of pre-Vatican II prinicples accept the doctrine that the Jews killed Christ.
Heck, your Pope (and a Pole, no less, Karol Wojtyla!!) even apologized to the Jews for that centuries old heresy. Far be it from you to judge differently.

USA, Canada / What I don't get about Americans vs Polish [56]

I frankly think all this sexual harrassment stuff that's been coming out is an attempt to finally nail the Groper-in-Chief with the same misdeeds and finally get him to resign or be impeached.

But I could be wrong:-)

USA, Canada / What I don't get about Americans vs Polish [56]

I think some of us missed the point of my post.

Genealogy / Why are some Polish people dark complected, and others very light [511]

@gumishu,

Wends and Sorbs are actually almost "aboriginal" inhabitants of much of Eastern Germany, witness the plethora of Slavic-sounding place names, "Berlin", "Neu Ruppin", "Schloss Stechlin", "Glienicke Bruecke" etc.....

Genealogy / Why are some Polish people dark complected, and others very light [511]

As noted before, Poles often do have a strong Germanic influence in their gene pool.

USA, Canada / Poles and Americans, what do you think, are we friends or enemies? [190]

I've met a number of Polish-Americans who claim to have neither knowledge of not even interest in Polish. This is increasingly more common among Poles, I've noticed, than among Russian-Americans or Hispanics.

USA, Canada / What I don't get about Americans vs Polish [56]

Afraid I don't quite follow.

USA, Canada / Poles and Americans, what do you think, are we friends or enemies? [190]

I submit you know nearly ZERO Americans, at best, have observed some army brats from the States who typically behave like one of the Simpson brothers abroad, this true., while never having taken the time necessary to familiarize yourself with the best of American culture (and make no mistake, we have one).

You judge the whole batch based on a single bad apple and this is wrong!

Just imagine were I or anyone to hold you, for instance, up to the standard of ALL Poles. Heaven help usLOL

Language / Dziadzia / Babcia - help me with spelling/pronunciation [81]

"Klassenkamerad" in my experience can tend to sound overly bookish, formal, while perhaps familiar-sounding to contemporary Germans. "Kumpel" is a word I used and use constantly in German when speaking with both contemporaries as well as much younger people! As with the Polish "kolega", "Kollege" in German can sometimes be translated in English as "buddy" aka (close) "co-worker", not only "colleague.

German loans are of course most prevalent in Silesian dialects, for ex. "bana" > "Bahn" vs. "pociag", the standard Polish word:-)

Language / Dziadzia / Babcia - help me with spelling/pronunciation [81]

Once learned that "Pan Starszy!" was used in Poland with which to signal a waiter. Probably out of date, rather like "Herr Ober!" in German-speaking countries, right?

:-)

USA, Canada / What I don't get about Americans vs Polish [56]

Too many of the wrong movies, you mean!

Pre-mid-to late sixties, we were a VERY different America in nearly every respect one can think of. Model oneself after that era when the New Deal was in full force, I would say it's a good model to stick with. Apart from that, the image projected by US movies from around '68 onward, is that of a cultural and social cesspool, ready to self-destruct any time now.

USA, Canada / Poles and Americans, what do you think, are we friends or enemies? [190]

The only ones stopping us politically from becoming (or remaining) "friends" are ourselves:-)

History / 75th anniversay of Dr Janusz Korczak's death - a true Polish hero [26]

They're all deceased:-)

History / 75th anniversay of Dr Janusz Korczak's death - a true Polish hero [26]

There are several other Polish-Jewish artists and intellectuals who changed their names or adopted more Polish-sounding surnames:-)

Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

Smiling is often merely a reaction here in the States to an unfamiliar or uncomfortable situation.

Remember reading once a post card that one of the Freedom Riders' mothers read on the anniversary of the Civil Rights Movement. Schwerner had just arrived in Nashoba County Georgia in the mid-60's, after an exhausting sixteen hour bus trip from up North. "Everybody's so friendly", he wrote, "people smile and seem so nice....."

The next day, he and his comrades were dead, shot by the local police.

Not everyone who smiles at you means it!

Life / Bilingual kids in Polish schools [30]

I agree with the assessment that those bilingual children of whom I spoke were indeed exposed nearly equally to both source and target language before attending school.

In my case, I was raised partially by a German "nanny" who spoke nothing but her native tongue to me prior even to kindergarden, while my folks spoke only English to me and I never studied German formally until I was sixteen.

Does that make me bilingual? Yes, according to the narrow confines of the above definition. On the other hand, my nanny stopped speaking to me in German altogether by the time I was only eight, so there were nearly nine or so years before I actually learned the language as a young adult, having most of my adolescence to catch up, so to speak:-)

Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

Being a good Christian aka Catholic means following the tenets of "Love thy neighbor". The question remains as to whether any nation which so staunchly defends the letter, though not always the spirit, of their faith is in the end Christian or HYPOchristian!

Many Catholics defend antisemitism as part of the ritual of being a good Catholic. Although not a Catholic myself, I strongly beg to differ. So would Jesus, I have little doubt.

Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

I thank the Catholic ktos for the kudos.

History / 75th anniversay of Dr Janusz Korczak's death - a true Polish hero [26]

Ashamed hardly! You've missed my point once again (surprise!). "Korczak" sounds Polish, "Goldszmit" doesn't. Therefore is it a coincedence that he would have chosen as a nome de plume a name such as "Korczak" rather than "Cohen" or the like? From "Goldszmit" to "Cohen" or the like, for instance, is like going from the frying pan into the fire.

The whole idea was to adapt a Polish as opposed to a Jewish-sounding surname!

Make sense?
:-)

Life / Why do so many Polish strive to be accepted by the West? [78]

If Poland drifts even further from Western aka democratic values, it will drive itself into the ground! As a Polish acquaintance of ours said several years ago after the PiS got elected, "Poland has re-elected the same party which nearly destroyed our country during the '90's."