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Atch   
23 Feb 2024
Food / Taste of food in Poland vs other countries [188]

Be careful of your esophagus. I remember reading that, I think it was Turks, maybe Arabs in general, have a higher rate of cancer of the esophagus and there was a link to drinking very hot tea.
Atch   
23 Feb 2024
Food / Taste of food in Poland vs other countries [188]

Jon, do you remember when you were a kid, having to wait for the food to cool, it was so hot - and being told to take it from around the edge of plate??
Atch   
23 Feb 2024
Law / A Complicated Child Support Question (Polish citizen / UK) [24]

I have two young kids that they support

Is that a typo? Surely you don't have two kids at nineteen years of age.

As you're very young and only in the second year of your studies, would it be possible to change to a part-time degree? That would give you more time for studying and ease the financial burden perhaps? It would take a bit longer but you have time on your side. As for your advanced degree, you shouldn't go straight into a Masters anyway after your undergrad. Get some experience under your belt in your field and a bit of money saved up.

Would I do that through Polish courts

Yes. You have an entitlement to sue for support as an adult child if you are studying. However getting him to pay, if you get a judgement in your favour, is another matter. Could he afford it? Whatever he earns, divide it by six to get the sterling amount.
Atch   
23 Feb 2024
Food / Taste of food in Poland vs other countries [188]

have never understood why people in PL don't warm the plates before serving hot food.

We always did that when I was a child. As you say, the methods varied, usually in the oven in our house. Food served on unheated plates was considered as an example of lazy/shoddy housekeeping. If you visited somebody's house and the dinner was served on a cold plate there would be raised eyebrows.
Atch   
20 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

How many are still around?

There are still loads of them in Ireland despite closures. There were more than you'd need really. There was one town not that many years ago with a population of 1,500 people and fifty pubs!

There are half a dozen contenders in England

Yes, I should think so :)
Atch   
20 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

To complete strangers?

Well, the true pub culture is uniquely Irish and British. It's a place where people of all ages gather and interact. It's very sociable and falling into conversation with a complete stranger is the norm. In Ireland anyway, if you've been socializing with a group of people all evening and they are going on somewhere else you'll be included by default unless they really don't like you - but you'd never guess that they don't like you.;)

It's because of the history of how these places started. They were always places where strangers stopped on their way while travelling and mingled with the local community. The oldest pub in Europe is in Ireland, it's been trading as a pub for over a thousand years. The Irish pub has its origins well over a thousand years ago, in the 'bruidean' which was the local Chieftain's brewery and by Irish law of the time it had to be located at the crossroads and open to all strangers, twenty-four hours a day. The law was also very specific about the provision of musical entertainment - thus it's still very common today to have live music in the pub.

Ive never called myself other than being an American while abroad.

Well then why would you expect anyone to perceive you as a 'plastic Paddy'? We're not really that bothered about Irish-Americans. As far as we're concerned you're just Americans with Irish ancestry.
Atch   
19 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Not one person referred to me as a "plastic paddy"whilst visiting beautiful Ireland.

Of course not. We're used to American tourists who call themselves Irish and we'd never be rude to them or hurt their feelings.

Limerick is considered a very rough town btw - it used to be called Stab City. But Irish people are good-natured on the whole, even when they're rough around the edges.

Being adopted by a group when you visit the pub as a stranger is fairly common in Ireland and going back to someone's house after the pub for tea and sandwiches is the norm :))
Atch   
19 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Ive been to Ireland several times

So you say - and I remember responding that from the description you gave of your visits to relatives, they must be a rough lot. Where exactly have you been in Ireland - and don't say 'Dublin'. What part of Dublin? Details of these trips and how you've come away with these impressions. The average pub in Dublin is not especially rowdy or full of drunks. It's usually noisy because being able to have a chat is a very important part of pub culture and it's usually very crowded but not the kind of mayhem that you seem to imagine. This is fairly typical:



Nobody is drinking on bally muck island on St. Paddys day...lol

I said nobody is drunk at the parade. I didn't say that people don't drink or go to the pub. Some do. Mostly the younger ones. Most Irish people stay home on Paddy's Day and just relax.
Atch   
18 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

What about the Dublin parade, plastic drunk Micks!

Nobody at the parade is drunk. It starts at about 11 in the morning and is over by around 2 in the afternoon. It's attended mostly by families with kids, people who live in or near the city centre and foreigners.
Atch   
17 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Wizard of Oz, everything was green. I still have a book from my childhood that included an extract from the Wizard of Oz and all the illustrations were green. I thought the whole thing sounded lovely even though green wasn't a particularly favourite colour of mine. Like most five year old girls I favoured pink.

The yellow brick road is in the Wizard of Oz though.
Atch   
17 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

I meant an old family recipe but that one is a start.

Corned beef Irish style is a very simple dish, cooked in a very simple way. You won't find any elaborate recipes. The recipe I linked you to is by Darina Allen is about as authentic as any you'll find. She collected many old family recipes from elderly people when she was writing her cookbook on traditional Irish food.

I wish you could see the Chicago Irish parade with your own eyes someday:)

Sorry Joker, I'd rather not! As a spectacle in is own right I'm sure it's fine, if you're into that kind of thing, but as an Irish person I find things like dyeing rivers and drinks green weird and cringeworthy.
Atch   
16 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Well, it's an unusual idea, but it could work. If you make a sauce from them, the sweetness with the saltiness of the corned beef might be good.

You don't have to give up meat for Lent. In Ireland booze and fags is the usual - or chocolate. I once gave up chocolate for Lent. It was torture. I was so looking forward to Easter Sunday and I had my lovely Cadburys Buttons egg all ready. Then the big day arrived and I found that I wasn't in the mood for chocolate!! I forced myself to eat some of it anyway :)) and I was soon cured. Back to a bar a day :)
Atch   
16 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Why? It's not Good Friday. Or do you mean because it's Lent now?

What would you use lingonberry for?

It's nice in pasztet and you can make sauce from it - what does this have to do with Johnny's corned beef brisket?
Atch   
16 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Ah, mother of God, Ironsides! Firstly, he isn't a Catholic and secondly even if he were, it would be up to the Bishop of the Diocese where he lives as to whether he can eat meat or not. When I was a kid in Ireland, we could eat meat on Fridays, lots of people kept the fish on a Friday tradition though because the fish and chips from the 'chipper' was so delicious and it gave the lady of the house a break from cooking.
Atch   
16 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Corned beef & Cabbage are typically Irish? [98]

Where is Ms. Atch when we need her ?

Here I am.

I finally found a recipe that I am going to try with my 2 kilo beef brisket today.

I wouldn't advise it. That's a recipe for regular beef brisket, the seasonings wouldn't work very well with corned beef.

Jon has given you the right advice. It has to be simmered in a pot of water. Here's how it's done in Ireland:

irishexaminer.com/food/arid-10060942.html
Atch   
11 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Is it good for Poland as Sinn Fein will win today in Northen Ireland [282]

who has again sent you to toil in the kitchen

"Where there is love there is no labour and where there is labour, the labour is loved."

You perfectly knew who you were marrying.

You mean: 'You knew perfectly well whom you were marrying' :)) oh venerableTeacher of English.

Now, now, just because I'm a happy, well-balanced person and the rest of you are a bunch of malcontents, you're spewing out the sour grapes.

Fairy tale indeed.

"Turning sliver out of dark grasses
Where the skylark had lain,
And her voice coming softly over the meadow
Was the mist becoming rain."
Atch   
11 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Is it good for Poland as Sinn Fein will win today in Northen Ireland [282]

. It's a pretty big red flag though when they don't have a relative, friend or neighbor of their own

Now! There it is! A perfect example of the nasty, mean-spirited attitude that prevails amongst so many Polish people - even though you're only a plastic Pole, or perhaps even because of that very fact.

risking having the number of their shopping bags counted or having others see what they bought. :)

And again - what a pitiful excuse of a society, if that is the prevailing attitude.

Thanks for proving my point Pollyanna :)
Atch   
11 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Is it good for Poland as Sinn Fein will win today in Northen Ireland [282]

very few capital cities are known for the caring nature of their inhabitants.

Yes, I know but I lived in London and I didn't see quite such callousness and disconnectedness there as in Warsaw - and of course I found myself comparing Warsaw to Dublin and you can't really compare two such different places. I was just fairly shocked that in a so-called Catholic country like Poland, nobody seemed to give a toss about anyone, whereas in Ireland, as Catholics, we were actively brought up to help others at every opportunity. That didn't seem to be part of the culture here in Poland at all.

You're right that it's improving. It's just that it feels a bit 'forced' and self-conscious.
Atch   
11 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Is it good for Poland as Sinn Fein will win today in Northen Ireland [282]

Polish families aren't sympathetic to such migrants

That's not what I'm referring to at all. Polish people are lacking in compassion for their own. I was really shocked when I first lived in Warsaw and saw the lack of social capital. Jon will know what I'm talking about. I was on the tram one day and saw an elderly man on the street, clearly very unwell, looked as if he was about to collapse, and nobody gave him a second glance. Utterly callous, heartless and unfeeling. I've helped many an elderly person whom I've seen struggling with walking sticks and heavy shopping. I said to one old lady that I was sorry I didn't speak good Polish and she replied 'You may not have good Polish but you have a good heart'.

But this is woke feminist thinking on full display.

I'm not remotely woke. As I've told you before 'wokes' don't do fabulous impersonations of Nigerians - or Indians. Here's the script for the Nigerian guy.

"Ah am wantin' to deevoss ma wife in LaGOS and marree ma Polish girlFRIEND." The emphasis on those syllables is very important to get the accent right.

I also have no patience with those who can't decide if they're Martha or Arthur. Basically I'm old-school. LG and B, plus the good old straight-forward trannies who go down the pub for a few drinks wearing their wife's skirt, I can deal with that. (except when they have facial hair, that's too weird, a beard and a skirt). But all that non-binary malarkey is a step too far.

Unfortunately you are too bereft of imagination to grasp the complexity that is Atch :))

Anyway I have Gołąbki to make so I must say farewell for now.

Or even the Protestant Irish.

So many of the Protestant Anglo-Irish were an absolute asset to our country, true Irishmen and true patriots. Great men and women and such an important part of our history.

reland's reputation as a friendly, good-natured country is going up in smoke.

According to Ruth Dudley Edwards. She's what's known in Ireland as a West-Brit. She was quite a respected writer in her day. I read her biography of Patrick Pearse when I was sixteen. Enjoyed it. I was researching an essay. Won a prize from the Old Dublin Society for it! She seems to have gone a bit bats now. She's nearly eighty so she's just a bit of an elderly eccentric at this stage.

@Alien, no, you're wrong there.
Atch   
10 Feb 2024
UK, Ireland / Is it good for Poland as Sinn Fein will win today in Northen Ireland [282]

15-year-old raped. A 39-year-old Zimbabwean citizen

How many Polish girls have been raped by Polish citizens? Stats please.

I know both of you believe this without question.

I'm speaking only from the experience of the families I encountered over twenty years or so. I might say the same thing about the Polish families I've met - although to be honest they've been more of a mixed bag. They're not that big on altruism for one thing. That was one of the first things I noticed about Polish people.
Atch   
7 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

Novi, don't be such an idiot. Under Polish law you inherit the deceased's debts as well as their assets. People pursue debts. The Polish courts even pursue minors for the debts of grandparents! Take a look at this, from one of your favourite news sources. I remember the case, it was so shocking to me.

dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2550999/Impoverished-Polish-child-forced-dead-grandfathers-debt.html
Atch   
7 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

Steve. you posted here a couple of weeks ago and I actually answered your post with the information you needed. Here is a link to my reply.

polishforums.com/law/poland-father-life-support-usa-heir-88219/
Atch   
31 Jan 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

I like them though,

Me too! I like the 1960s ones.

don't want to have a chauffeur.

Absolutely. The whole point of such a car is the pleasure of driving it.