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Paulina   
10 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

That's the mother's paraphrasing. It's not the official verdict.

I know. But since we don't know the official conclusion made by the coroner that's all I can quote.

Seeing as the police, the medical department and the Coroner deal with numerous such cases each year, it seems unlikely that there would be such a massive screw up.

I'm sorry, Atch, but massive screw ups do happen in every country, even if in general, usually, the police and coroners are doing a good job. And we won't always know about such screw ups. We only know about this potential screw up, because the mother took it to the media. Not everyone has a parent who would have the balls and strength to do that, for example.

@Paulina, you seem disproportionately upset, almost hysterical.

Really? How does jon357 seem to you then? :))) After all that crap he wrote about me? He didn't seem to be "disproportionately upset, almost hysterical" to you yesterday? Sorry, Atch, but I don't think you're being objective.

We had an argument with jon357 yesterday. As usual he's getting on my nerves with his attitude, that's all.

whether they should have secured the scene etc.

You should always secure the scene and the evidence if you don't know why someone died. So what are you talking about?
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

I'd forgotten about suicide and open verdicts.

How convenient.
Suicide was ruled out though.

In this case however there doesn't appear to be any grounds for suspicion.

According to you. According to the mother, Sandra's friends (so people who actually knew her), the detective and the reporter (who actually went there) and me - there does appear to be grounds for suspicion. So let us agree to disagree, OK?

I will post an update in this thread when or if there's going to be more info.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

There are three possibilities: accident/misadventure, unlawful killing and natural causes.

No, actually there are more possibilities of conclusions (formerly called verdicts) like, for example:

- industrial diseases
- dependency on drugs or non-dependent abuse of drugs
- lack of care or self-neglect
- suicide
- lawful killing (formerly "justifiable homicide")

... and last but not least:

- open verdict (cause of death unknown or unstated)

And of course there's no serious suggestion of a "screw up".

Of course there is.

There is definitely slight smell of suspicion.

I'd say that it's defenitely more than just "slight".

Bukhara, you might be living in Poland but you are British to the core and your loyalty is clearly to UK

I have the same impression.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Ashamed of posting the concerns of person closest to the deceased?

Jon357 is just being an obnoxious demagogue. He's trying to shut my mouth, but I'm not going to fall for that. Maybe he thinks I'm attacking his "home & country" lol even though I also criticised Polish police and society on this forum. He's weird like that.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Yes you did.

No, I didn't.

You should be ashamed of yourself for posting trash about a tragic death from natural causes.

So according to you the mother is spreading "trash" about the death of her own daughter? Because I only wrote what she and the detective hired by her are saying.

Jon357, what you're trying to do now is honestly sickening. But you won't discourage me from writing about this case. You can post all kind of crap you want about me, but if I find out something more about Sandra's death I will write about it and you won't stop me. Especially considering that, as you wrote, there's nothing in English about this case.

Paulina should be ashamed of herself.

No, you should be ashamed of yourself.

That isn't a Coroner's verdict. There are three possibilities: accident/misadventure, unlawful killing and natural causes.

I can only guess that it was "natural causes" considering what the British police is saying, but clearly noone who knew Sandra is buying that. It doesn't look like the medical cause of her death was given.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Are you looking in the mirror?

It doesn't look like he does.

The "points" that Paulina was ranting about have all been addressed.

No, they haven't been.

She doesn't mention the Coroner's verdict since she doesn't even know.

As it was already explained to you - coroner's "verdict" is that Sandra's "heart stopped beating". Are you satisfied with such "verdict"? Because I'm not and Sandra's mother clearly isn't satisfied either.

For some reason the article doesn't mention it

Why are you lying?
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Yes you did "start" this.

You "start" ridiculous arguments with periodical regularity.

No, I didn't start any argument. I shared the news and you chose to comment on my post. Which is fine, that's what forums are for, so stop whining.

And the bizarre thing is that it's on the basis of one online article.

It's on the basis of a few articles and Polsat News "Intervention" TV reportage (the reporter went to London). You can watch it here (it shows the video of neighbours finding the body):

interwencja.polsatnews.pl/reportaz/2024-05-06/tajemnicza-smierc-19-latki-w-londynie-polska-prokuratura-reaguje/

and can say what they like without consequences.

Without consequences? Now the whole of Poland knows about this case. If it turns out that the detective is lying/scamming a grieving mother for money he will be finished. Everybody will know.

You should drop this. It is undignified

Drop what? Discussing events concerning Polish citizens? I will definitely not stop. I will discuss whatever I want and you have no right to tell me what to do.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

How did the computer turn on?

What (if anything) did the police say about that?

No idea, it doesn't look like they said anything about it...

That's all there is written about the reaction of the British police:

"The representatives of the British police didn't agree to talk to 'Intervention' in front of a camera. According to them Sandra died from natural causes. The investigation therefore was discontinued."

That's one of the things that are strange to me, btw. It's literally the job of the police press officer to talk to the media (yes, including in front of cameras)... Isn't in the UK also like that? 🤨

According to the detective the police assumed from the start that Sandra died from natural causes and hence all the negligence. Which is another strange thing - did they just walk into the room, look at a dead girl lying on the couch and just assumed that she died of natural causes and so they didn't bother to secure evidence, DNA? What the hell? Do they have X-rays in their eyes and can perform instant autopsy? lol

I mean, the fact that they didn't do the swab in case she got raped is honestly shocking to me. That's like the basic thing, one of the first things you would do in such a case, imho. Mind-blowing...
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Negligence by the police is a possibility, but it would also require negligence by the doctor performing the post mortem and then by the Coroner. Such a combination is fairly unlikely.

Why do you think that?
For example, in case of Rotherham scandal all kinds of services failed - the police, social services...

Btw, how likely it is for a woman to suffer a stroke during a gang rape? How often do you hear about such stuff? I only heard about one such case. But it happened.

So it may be such "freak" case - I wouldn't rule it out. You never know and that's why you should investigate properly.

Not jumping to any conclusions about the mother, poor lady. Just stating

Maf also just stated that no police force is perfect and overworked and understaffed and underfunded police force may want to "get it over with" and close the case.

it's not unusual for a parent in extreme grief to find it impossible to accept that their child died a natural death.

I perfectly realise this. But the accusations of the mother and the detective concerning negligence by the police are serious. It's not just about coroner's report.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

I wouldn't jump to that conclusion.

But you and jon357 can jump to the conclusion about the mother?

Sadly Paulina, ECGs don't detect all heart problems.

As I already wrote it's not the only problem with this case, to put it mildly. Besides, the girl could get a heart attack during a rape. I remember a case of a woman who suffered a stroke during a gang rape (she survived).

It's impossible to try a case on a forum

Of course. I just wrote a post about what I read in press articles.

Just let it go and wait for the Polish prosecutor's opinion.

I didn't start this, jon357 did and you continue. I only shared the news.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

The whole quote from Polsat News:

polsatnews.pl/wiadomosc/2024-05-06/interwencja-smierc-19-latki-w-londynie-polska-prokuratura-reaguje

"Coroner wrote in his report that Sandra's heart simply stopped beating - he didn't determine why.

- This is impossible. She danced for many years and every six months she had to do exercise ECG. Everything was OK, the heart was healthy and she could continue to exercise. This is a scandal in the British police, I couldn't imagine how you could do nothing in such a case. One flatmate said that the other flatmate also left the flat on December 17. But one of the neighbours saw that boy on December 20 using the computer. Here, in this flat - Ewa assesses."

(According to coroner's report Sandra died on December 17-18 and her body was found on December 23).
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

And anyway, this should be investigated whether she had a boyfriend or not.

Sorry, I meant that this evidence should be investigated no matter if she had a boyfriend or not.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

As to semen on her clothes and her not having a boyfriend.

It was her friend who said that she had no boyfriend at that time, not her mother. And anyway, this should be investigated whether she had a boyfriend or not.

It may simply be that the poor mother can't accept that her lovely, young, apparently healthy daughter died suddenly.

It may also be that the British police did a bad job.

Has she claimed that the Death Certificate doesn't give an exact cause of death?

Yes:

"Koroner w raporcie napisał, że serce Sandry po prostu przestało bić - nie stwierdził dlaczego."

Translation:

"The coroner wrote in his report that Sandra's heart simply stopped beating - he didn't determine why".

Paulina, you really should drop this.

Drop what? You started it and you can stop it if you wish.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

This is now the seventh time it's been explained to you that Death Certificates contain the cause of death.

And I'm telling you yet another time that the mother says that the cause of death, i.e. why Sandra's heart stopped beating wasn't given. Do you understand?

So, I'm asking you again - do you think the mother is lying?

Try to show some dignity.

How about you follow your own advice.

You are making a public exhibition of yourself

I am doing no such thing. You commented on my post first and you can stop anytime, so stop being a baby.

Sudden death from cardiac arrest is young people is a well known condition.

That's not the only problem with this case though - judging by the articles I've read.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Which is why it certainly isn't the cause given on the certificate. They are generally very detailed.

So do you claim the mother is lying?

however you are certainly writing without any context at all about the way things work there

So are you. As Lenka put it, your only argument is that "oh, our police wouldn't". 🙄

you are certainly trying to argue for the sake of it.

No, I'm only responding to your posts lol You commented on my post first, remember? So why do you keep doing that? :)

disrespectful, undignified, hysterical and perpetuating misery.

That's what you're doing. Your blind defense of the British police is disrespectful towards Sandra and her family, undignified, hysterical and perpetuating the mother's misery.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

All Death Certificates contain the cause of death.

Unless they didn't manage to determine the cause of death. "Heart stopping to beat" isn't a cause of death. The heart always stops to beat when people die. So - do you think the mother is lying?

Yes, she does read about it online, according to things elsewhere on the internet. Did you think I made that up?

I wouldn't be surprised if you were making this up, considering what bullsh1t you're writing.

This is a serious matter involving a woman who died of natural causes

Yes, it is a serious matter - that's why I wrote about it. And you don't know if she died of natural causes. You just choose to believe that the British police did a good job. I, however, choose to believe the mother and the detective, until what they are saying will be somehow disproven.

If you have information contradicting the mother's statements let us know and we may agree with you. But it must be something besides 'oh, our police wouldn't '

Exactly.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

If you're so interested, why not ask her next of kin if she'll let you see it?

Her mother already said that the cause of death wasn't given. You think she's lying?

Hard to know where you pull that gem from.

From many of your comments on this forum.

The matter is neither "shocking" nor "neglect"

If what the mother and the detective are saying is true then it defenitely looks like a shocking case of neglect on the part of the police and probably the coroner too.

Do you think the mother and the detective are lying to Polish media?

I suggest we don't continue with this conversation since Ewa Nguyen, the deceased's mother does read things online

Firstly, you don't know whether she's reading anything, whether she's reading this forum (highly unlikely) or even if she knows English. So stop lying.

Secondly, I'm only repeating what she said herself, so stop using a grieving mother in your argument against me, because it's just low and dishonest.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

There isn't a police investigation though, is there.

The fact that it was closed doesn't mean that questions shouldn't be asked whether it was done right.

As you've been told several times already, all Death Certificates contain the cause of death.

So what is the cause of Sandra's death?

Calm down and stop arguing for the sake of it. It makes you look foolish and given that this is about someone who died, disrespectful too.

Jon357, it was you who commented on my post first. You didn't have to do that and you didn't have to continue this either.

You're making this girl's death all about your British pride which I find pretty sickening. You don't care about this girl and the truth - you just care about defending your countrymen. You don't even consider the possibility that something went wrong in that investigation.

And all I did was asking a question: "A shocking case of neglect by the London police?" It wasn't a statement - it was a question, because, obviously, I don't know what really happened. But I'd like to know and I hope that Sandra's family will get to know the truth about her death - whatever that truth may be.

Are you single by any chance?

Are you? 🤔
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

I'm reading your depressing hectoring and it's offensive rubbish.

What is so "offensive" about it? And which part is "rubbish"?

And yes, you are perpetuating her grief by writing crap online.

Of course not.

The matter has been investigated fully.

How do you know that? You don't. I don't know that either.

You assume it's a police matter.

Yes, I'd say a police investigation is a police matter :D
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

She certainly reads anything she can find about it online you argumentative stirrer.

And how do you know that? lol And does she even know English?

Probably not the best way to go.

Well, since the British media aren't writing about it and the British police press officer won't open his mouth to the Polish media that's the only way to go for now.

It's what the police and Coroner think that counts.

:D
Well, I'm not a telepath and I don't know what they "think" lol

The next of kin has a copy.

And the mother said that it didn't state why her daughter's heart stopped beating. So no wonder she "moved heaven and earth" to try and find out what happened.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

All Death Certificates contain the cause of death.

So what is the cause of death?

And where is that link I asked for?

So someone claims a neighbour said something about the state of a corpse that had been dead for days.

Yes. Those neighbours are the only witnesses. And the mother and the detective talked to them. The mother and the detective talked to Polish media. The representatives of the British police didn't agree to talk to Polish media, however, and so we have no other info.

Rather than trot out things you've read online

lol
I'm only repeating myself, because you don't seem to be reading what I'm writing. You could also simply read the article I linked to and it doesn't look like you did.

show a bit of decency and don't perpetuate a mother's grief.

I'm not perpetuating the mother's grief. Have you completely lost your mind from that British chauvinism? o_O
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Cobblers. And the fact that you know about the issue in that small town suggests

How long did it take for the public to find out about it? The authorities failed those girls. The UK isn't perfect, jon357. There are no perfect countries and there are no perfect nations. Although you apparently think that the UK is and the British are perfect and everything in UK is perfect - I'm not sure why you're clinging to this belief so hard...

Nor does she suggest that the flatmates Aleksander and Lukasz were not interviewed.

The detective said they weren't.

are insulting both the dead woman

Stop it, jon357. Really - stop it. You don't have to go so low. And for what? For such a "non-story"?

Perpetuating her grief by posting nasty conspiracy crap online shows you up badly.

She isn't reading comments on this forum, you messed up demagogue.
And I'm mainly repeating what was written in Polish articles. The British police is free to deny all of that, but I don't see them doing that.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

A quick look online shows a comment from the woman's mother.

Link?

She was informed by the Coroner that the bruises occurred while the body was being moved.

What? Bruises on her face? Moved by whom and when? What are you talking about? The neighbours said that she had the bruises already when they found her lying dead on the couch.

She does not however mention the cause of death which is on the Death Certificate.

Because according to Polish articles the cause of death wasn't given. It wasn't stated why the heart stopped beating.

Interestingly, the deceased woman had to have an ECG test twice yearly which suggests that she had heart problems.

What heart problems? Wouldn't that be given as the cause of death then? "The heart stopped beating most probably due to..." and not just "the heart stopped beating". Also, her family said that her ECG tests were showing that everything was OK.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

A serving British Police Officer? I suspect not; he, she or they would certainly be fired.

Yes, jon357, every male police officer is saying such things publicly and into the face of his boss, so he could get promptly fired, of course :))) On what kind of planet are you living? Isn't it called "La La Land" by any chance? ;D

The UK is not Poland

Yes, the UK has it's own issues from what I've heard and read. That's why I have two other theories.

For such a conspiracy to take place, it would need to be multi-agency and involve many people of different professions.

So how "many people of different professions" where involved in Rotherham child sexual exploitation scandal? 🙄

That is on the Death Certificate.

I'm guessing that this is what the mother meant.

What cause of death is listed on the Death Certificate?

Judging by what the mother said the only information given was that Sandra's "heart stopped beating".
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

A strange and pointless comment; also a spectacularly ignorant one.

No, that's a real life comment.

Don't assume that all police are male.

Majority are though and you have no idea who the mother was dealing with and if she was "supported by Polish speaking police staff" at all.

Nor do they make value judgements about people's lifestyles.

Of course they do lol 🤦 Especially men in such cases.

You tell me. It's on the Death Certificate which the deceased's next of kin is given when reporting the death

Didn't you read what I wrote? The mother said that according to the coroner her daughter's heart "stopped beating". He didn't say why it stopped beating. If it was your child you wouldn't want to know WHY the heart of your 19-year-old daughter stopped beating, especially considering the suspicious circumstances?
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

Not "healthy" if she's dead

Then what was the illness that killed her? What was she suffering from?

and the police don't "explain" causes of death.

The police should know the cause of death though and tell the girl's mother what was the cause of her daughter's death.

And if they don't know what caused her death then the investigation should be continued.

Perhaps there's a factor in this that both you and I are unaware of.

Those flatmates were sons of some rich or influential people, for example? 🤔
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

She would certainly be supported by Polish speaking police staff. London does not lack Poles, including people who have moved there and are serving as police officers.

You mean Polish men who say that "Polki tylko wyjadÄ… do UK to siÄ™ z Arabami puszczajÄ…. Dziwki."?

She would also be entitled to support from the Polish Consulate.

I'm sure they would be terribly helpful, as always lol

Coroner's verdicts canot be concealed. And of course all Death Certificates contain the cause of death.

So what was the cause of her death?

Do you think they weren't?

Until the British police says otherwise and explains why they are not suspects in this case, I will think they weren't questioned.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

As I say, it's a non-story that is being pushed by a 'private detective'.

Well, if that's the case then there's nothing simpler then the police press officer telling this to the Polish media and explaining the cause of death of a healthy 19-year-old girl.
Paulina   
9 May 2024
UK, Ireland / Polish immigrants in the UK - victims or criminals?! [243]

@jon357, if it was such a "non-story" I doubt the Polish prosecutor's office would get involved.

all getting it wrong are vanishingly small.

It doesn't mean it can't happen. Besides, I don't know if the mother knew about all those procedures. She came from Poland when she found out about her daughter's death, she didn't live in the UK.

Why didn't they say what was the cause of her death? Why did she have bruises on her face, legs and arms? Why the flatmates weren't questioned? Why DNA wasn't secured? Why the police didn't unblock Sandra's phone (the family can't get into it)?