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delphiandomine   
29 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Sometimes it's simply faux pas to do it in front of natives.

The ones I mix with have no problem with foreigners seeing faults - it allows them to find out what we think. Likewise, they often offer interesting criticism of my own country.
delphiandomine   
29 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

I'll try more to focus on more positive and uplifting things.

And I and the other residents of Poland will do the real Polish thing and point out all the bad things.

Seems fair, I think - you can concentrate on the things that don't make a difference to our lives (like true Polonia) and we will concentrate on the things that do make a difference.

I dare say if somebody is always looking for what's bad or wrong about a nation, they WILL FIND IT and they probably don't like the nation.

You don't have to look far to find bad things in Poland.
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

eh? As if SU ever sustained Poland ....

So, who was providing you with cheap oil and other exports?

It's not exactly the biggest secret that the Soviet Union poured a lot of money into the other Warsaw Pact countries - do you really think they'd have stayed Communist for long if it wasn't for the economic subsidies?

I seem to remember from one of my books that the GDR collapsed partially because the Soviet Union refused to assist anymore economically - because it couldn't afford to. Likewise, they gave up their grip on Poland easily - because they couldn't afford to keep the Red Army presence there.
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

So why don't just be honest here about your ancestry?

Sure.

My ancestry is rather dull - as far back as I've traced (about the start of the 1800's or so), my family comes from one distinct area - North East Scotland. I'm even from there, though it seems some members of my "clan" made it to Poland in the 1600's.

So - ancestry can only be Scottish too. Rather dull and unexciting.

wow I haven't known that we have PF diaspora also in Poznan :)
What about Lodz then?

There's a few of us in Poznan :)

Lodz...well, I don't know anyone there, but I was there once for a training course :P
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Btw. Delphian what's your nationality?

Scottish. And European, definitely :)

(I definitely believe in the European dream these days - I know Brits, Hungarians, Russians, Japanese, Chinese, Canadians, Americans, French, Poles and more in Poznan - it's wonderful)
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Sorry Polonius, but I think those people were cowards through and through. The real opposition was inside Poland, the ones who were willing to get killed in their fight for freedom. The ones who formed underground resistance, the ones who were willing to put up with endless harrassment in the name of freedom.

It hardly took guts to shout about Katyn from several thousand miles away, under the shield of Uncle Sam - but it damn sure took guts to talk about it in the PRL. Likewise - it's nothing for some Chicago Polish American Katyn 1940 group to go around demanding that the West apologise for it - it was another thing to be demanding this in public in the PRL.

If the Polonia are really so out of touch as to believe that they, not the Polish people themselves were the ones fighting for freedom, then no wonder they're all absolutely delusional.

Sorry, but the Poles in Poland are the ones that deserve praise, not a bunch of cowards in another continent. Let's not forget that the same Polonia either ran away from the PRL or they ran away at the start of the 2nd Republic. Hardly the work of Polish patriots, is it?
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Well I'm real Polish from Poland and I take it offensive. Note that Polack have different spelling than Polak.

Polack, Polak, what's the difference? Polack is just the dumb American spelling anyway ;)

(anyway, in English, there's lots of words for people of foreign nationalities - Frog, Kraut, etc)
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Well, I could imagine, to someone of Polish origin it sounds kinda derogatory.

It is derogatory. It's meant to be insulting - these people are claiming to be Polish, yet it's all lip-service. How many of them actually volunteered for Polish military service, I wonder?

As a minimum - if you're claiming to be Polish, then you should change your last name to the proper Polish spelling (not some weird bastardisation) and pronounce it correctly too.

But I think this kind of thing happens with all nations and their diaspora from time to time all over the world. No?

Doesn't matter - if you claim to be something, then you should be authentic rather than insulting.

I wonder how many of our Plastic Poles know the national anthem? I know it, and I'm not Polish.
delphiandomine   
28 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Tell me guys, what does the "plastic Pole" really stand for, a Polish-American or a green-card Pole? I'm asking because before joining this forum, I never came across this description.

Hmm - could be either, but I'd use the term more to describe those who aren't Polish, who don't speak the language, who make a big show out of doing "Polish" things and who tend to be very sensitive about Poland being criticised in anyway. They're Plastic - because - they're only Polish when it suits them. If they were forced to choose, they'd pick American. They're the ones who get upset with the term "Polak/Polack", because they're so ignorant that they don't know what it means.

It can also be used for those Poles who have lived in America so long, who have got American citizenship and who have absolutely no intention of returning - usually the ones who pretend that they've forgotten Polish and that they regard everything Polish as being inferior.

It's a PF invention I think, but it does describe them rather well.

Poles in general don't sweat the small stuff and its true Poles in Poland appreciate anyone who appreciates their culture.

That's why there was a significant amount of hostility towards the American Polonia interfering in the Polish Presidential election this year, then?

As I say - I'm on the ground and living here. You're not.

The thing that makes me laugh most of all is the way that the Polonia insists that they are TRUE POLES - yet many of them know -

a) nothing about the partitions
b) nothing about the difference between nationality and ethnicity (and how it's changed)
c) nothing about Poland apart from what "Busha" told them
d) nothing about being Polish
e) nothing about the likelihood of someone being 100% genetically Polish
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
News / Polish Lithuanian Diplomatic War? At last. [534]

Poland should just bring these 210 thousand or so Poles from Lithuania and 400 thousand from Belarus back to Poland if it really cares for them, it's just a matter of time before they're all assimilated mixing with the general population. A million Poles left Poland in recent years, these newcomers many young would fill their places.

The problem is that Poland doesn't want to give them citizenship. From what I gather, many of them in Lithuania and Belarus are very poor - they're not the "elite" of society. Given that Poland just got rid of lots of its underclass, it doesn't want any more!

Anyway, the Lithuanian ones can move to Poland anytime they wish - so I don't know what they're complaining about.
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Talk about desperately trying to make mountains out of molehills to bring divisions between Poles in Poland and their relatives outside of Poland.

The divisions are already there. Just look at the Presidential Election - when America was so massively out of sync with the rest of the world, you know fine well that the people voting were American, not Polish.

Perhaps you choose to deny it, but I, as a European, have far more in common with Poland than Americans do.
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

I know you are just being jealous because you don't live in the US but in a poor Poland.

Worst thing is, that seems to be their attitude - that Poland is poor, and while it's fine to come and visit (and look down at) the relatives, it's not for staying in.

Yet they claim to be proud Poles. Ugh.
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

(a la: We was on a wedding yesterday and today we gonna go by busia's and then to the poprawiny) are ethnic dialects in their own right

But they should stop pretending that it's Polish in that case. Everyone knows Quebecois French is nothing like the French spoken in "Le Metropole" (or is it La? I forget... ).

And they absolutely should stop insisting that Busha is the Polish word for grandmother. Interestingly, the Western Ukraine word for Grandmother is "Babusha".

Oh, and the other thing that gets on my nerves - the insistence that their family came from Poland, even before the Polish State was re-established. "I'M FROM POLAND"....no mate, you really aren't.

Is it that they're voting "conservative"?

The odd thing is why they appear to vote Kaczynski, yet idol-worship Walesa and vote Democrat. Doesn't make any sense at all!

So it's a feeling of superiority?

I wish I knew. They seem to believe that Poland is some sort of utopia, myths purportrated seemingly by the grandparents. And then there's the lunatics who insist that they're from Poland, even when it seems that their grandparents/great-grandparents were actually from pre-1945 Germany!

Of course, many of them only discovered how Polish they were after 2004.

(mind you, many Jews did too...)
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

I think it's just the general way that they seem to think that they're Polish, but they are so completely removed from Plish life that it's not even funny. Take the whole Smolensk issue - the Polonia media was/is full of complete garbage about it - essentially regurgitated Kaczynski talk.

Then there's the way that they get offended on Poland's behalf, when Poland isn't even offended. And we won't talk about the way that they get upset when they come to Poland, because it's "morally decaying" or some such nonsense.

Adam "An-gee-ew-ski" was probably the best example of this.
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Polack/American Polonia/Plastic Pole "culture" [568]

Sooo.. I was told to start a thread.

Is it only me that finds the American "Polonia" attitude towards Poland irritating and downright insulting towards real Polish people?

They talk about "Busha" as if it's a real Polish word for Grandmother (in fact, most of them believe it is), they use Jaja (isn't this eggs?) for their grandfather. If that was all, I wouldn't mind - but when you get them talking about eating "pierogies" and then getting upset because Poland in 2010 is nothing like Lwów in 1930 (like Busha said) - it's bordering on ridiculous.

We won't even discuss how they talk about being so proudly Polish, yet they can't speak the language. These people are NOT Polish, they are "Polacks". Why? Because many of them don't even understand that the Polish word for a male Pole is "Polak" - but they've chosen to take offence.

Then there's the way that many of them completely mispronounce their "Polish" name. The worst example? I found a video on youtube of someone called "Marchewka". Anyone living in Poland will know that it's pronounced something similar to "mar-hef-ka" - but to the Polonia? It's "Mar-Chew-Ka". Gah.

Seriously, why do real Poles put up with them?
delphiandomine   
27 Oct 2010
News / Polish Lithuanian Diplomatic War? At last. [534]

I am totally against creating such linguistic monsters as "Polaks" as it is butchering both languages: Polish AND English.

The use of "Polack" for me is a way of saying "an exceptionally stupid Polak" :)

(wonder where it originated from?)
delphiandomine   
26 Oct 2010
Life / Babcia or Busha - any social class difference? [359]

We're then only family in Australia with my surname... £acny.

And this is the one big difference between the redneck American Polonia and the Polonia throughout the world - the American Polonia can't even use their own name correctly!
delphiandomine   
19 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

So making in vitro available only to married couples seems reasonable.

I think most normal people see it like this - people should pay for it themselves, but it shouldn't be banned. I just hope that this is what eventually happens (same as now) - I don't think Poland can afford it, but it certainly shouldn't be banned on the account of the aforementioned spoiled old men.

the Church threatens to use their "nukes" - the excommunication.

I actually think they should call their bluff - the RCC isn't going to risk making an enemy out of the ruling party, are they? I suspect this whole thing is just another example of the internal battle for control within the Polish Catholic Church - you can see from the way that they dropped the mention of excommunication from the final communique.
delphiandomine   
19 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

And this is exactly what I object to. If it was truthful, any deputy anywhere that supported IVF or abortion would be excommunicated - but they aren't. In fact, why isn't Komorowski excommunicated for being Commander-in-chief of the armed forces that are murdering innocents in Afghanistan?

The whole thing reeks of trying to manipulate politics for their own gain.

Anyway, what do a bunch of spoiled old men know about families?
delphiandomine   
19 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

How has the Church interfered in the workings of a democratic system

I'd say threatening people with excommunication for voting a particular way is direct interference with the workings of democracy. Era doesn't threaten to disconnect MP's who might increase corporation taxes, do they?

But you're not in Poland and don't see the day-to-day problems caused by RCC interference in Polish politics. After all, it doesn't bother you that the State lost millions of zloty due to fraud perpetrated by the Church, does it?
delphiandomine   
18 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

And herein lies the problem. Instead of simply presenting the Vatican's stance on the issue, they've decided to try and bully the Sejm instead. Catholics don't need to be told that IVF is bad (everyone knows already, right?) - and they don't need to blackmail the Sejm either.

The worst thing about all of this is that if they had simply kept quiet, the odds are that the current status quo would continue. But now - all they've done is draw attention to the cause, when the political opinion would likely see IVF neither funded nor banned formally.
delphiandomine   
18 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

The church gives directions and does not, in any case,force believers to anything.

And you don't believe that threatening excommunication to MP's isn't interfering directly with politics? We've seen examples of them doing it in the recent Presidential election, it's happening again - the Church simply cannot "let go" in Poland and allow the country to be a modern democracy - perhaps because they realise that they might have to pay back some of their ill-gotten gains.

The RCC in Poland has one huge problem - they had massive political say during the PRL, and now, they can't let go. You saw exactly the same thing in Italy, Spain, the same thing is happening in Ireland and it's starting to happen in Poland, too.

Then again, the Church was hiring ex-SB guys, so is anyone surprised?
delphiandomine   
18 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

I thought the mainstream church behaved fairly reasonably in the cross crisis.

I think the problem was that some of them were getting involved, while others were quite clearly saying "It's nothing to do with us". The lack of a clear position definitely hurt them - and when they finally did adopt a clear position, it was almost universally ignored - possibly because everyone knew that they weren't unified at all.

Even the latest stand against in vitro seems to be completely divided - first we have someone threatening excommunication, but the communique from them seems to be much calmer.

Why do you see Poland in this way?

Because in this case, the church has directly interfered with the workings of a modern democratic state.
delphiandomine   
18 Oct 2010
News / Polish in vitro treatment fully refundable - bonkers! [62]

Archbishop Hoser, who heads a church council on bioethics, threatened excommunication to lawmakers who support in vitro fertilization.

What a stupid, stupid move. It's direct interference in politics by the Church - who should have learnt a lesson over the recent cross crisis that people do not want the Church to get involved in politics. Sadly, they've chosen to stick their nose in again - and will end up being punished yet again. It's not an issue right now when the churches are full, but it will only mean that younger people will continue to shun the church in times to come.

What is the wrong colour?

For many Poles, anything non-white.
delphiandomine   
14 Oct 2010
Law / Poland - Temporary Residence card - Karta pobytu - required documents [143]

Get it in writing from her. If she refuses to give it in writing, then you don't need me to tell you anything more.

Anyway, this situation is strange - once the visa expires, you still have an ordinary 90 day tourist period - and you shouldn't need a stamp to confirm this. What you might have to do is take a trip to a non-Schengen country to get the stamp after October 18th, but really, there should be no need to do so, because once the visa expires, you just revert to tourist status (90 days in 180).

I can tell you for a categorical fact that under Schengen law - there is no possibility of obtaining a stamp at the intra-Schengen border. The stamp doesn't actually confirm anything, it's the actual dates that count. If she wants you to get a stamp, it'll have to be a trip outside of the zone.

Or you can argue with her, but I'd recommend just following what she says.

I see you're in Wroclaw, so take a daytrip to the UK - it'll be the easiest way.
delphiandomine   
11 Oct 2010
Law / Are banks from Poland safe? [42]

No, Polish bank are not safe. Bank elswhere, idiots.

PKO is as safe as houses - there's absolutely no way that the Polish government would let it collapse.