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Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Agnieszka Pomaska, beautiful Polish politician [43]

Looks straightforward to me, but since you have to ask...

Yes, I had to, since I wasn't sure what you're talking about - your comment was rather minimalistic... Sorry if explaining it to me was such a great trouble...

Do keep up with current affairs.

Jawohl, Herr jon357!
Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Agnieszka Pomaska, beautiful Polish politician [43]

Ones that don't get attacked in the media.

Um... What?
You'd have to elaborate, jon357, this one sentence is way to cryptic for me... lol

Of course you do. Women doll up whether they are in politics or in any other work venue. It's (almost) natural judging by how automatically they seem to do it.

What does "doll up" mean?

Zimmy, looks are important to some extent at any workplace and everybody is trying to look good, both men and women. Probably for most women that means also wearing make-up, for others - it doesn't. Or they just prefer to sleep longer before work instead of getting up early to look "perfect" (that would be me lol).

And yes, it's natural for many women, it's like putting on your blouse or sweater - it's like an element of everyday attire, a second skin. Some women (like my friend) don't like to get out of their house without make-up on, no matter where they go, because they feel "ugly" then (and my friend is pretty, but you won't convince her otherwise...).

I'm not sure what "knocking it" means, but if it means "criticizing" then probably you're doing it, as always when women are concerned.

As to politicians, in the U.S. it is often said that Hollywood is for beautiful people and politics is for ugly people.

Well, it doesn't look like that. Your politicians seem to care a lot about how they look, how they dress, about their image, etc.
Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Agnieszka Pomaska, beautiful Polish politician [43]

and too often women spend an equal amount of time trying to look good.

I'm not sure what you're talking about. Politicians are working in the public eye and are expected to at least try to look good. Both men and women.

I don't know what it's like in the US, but in Poland for a female politician, someone working in the media, etc. wearing make-up is rather a must.
Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Agnieszka Pomaska, beautiful Polish politician [43]

Your sexual preferences are of no relevance either ( there must be other sites for 'perving').

Maybe Englishman should join PiS lol: Eeewww... ;/

Btw, Englishman, PiS tried to attract voters with women's looks in 2011 but it seems this strategy failed:

Myth 3 : Beauty is very helpful in applying for a mandate . Another myth election , that the election can be rebutted . The falsehood of this assertion convinced the famous " angels Kaczynski " .
Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Agnieszka Pomaska, beautiful Polish politician [43]

First time I've ever wanted to go down on a member of parliament...

I think you could save such comments for your male friends when at the pub.

Rest assured that she's almost certainly photogenic and looks worse in the flesh.

Or the other way around - maybe she looks better in the flesh than in the photos (it happens!).
Either way - she isn't stunning at all.
And it shouldn't matter, I think.

Radoslaw Sikorski looks like a Hollywood film star with legions of adoring mostly female fans if the photo's a good one.

o_O
Even if the photo is a good one, he definitely doesn't look like a Hollywood film star. He's very average and he often looks sickly, both in photos and on TV.

Not that it matters. I don't care about the looks of politicians.

Yeah, that seems to be the case with a lot of Poles I've met.

So you're saying that Western people look terrible both in photos and in the flesh? lol

That said my main issue with the OP's thread is that looks should not be a voting issue, whatever the gender of the candidates.

I agree.
Paulina   
19 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

I second Wlodzimierz In this discourse. Indeed, many foreigners, Poles among them, are so convinced about their language skills that they don't even try to develop any critical approach.

Of course some people are like that, in every nation.
But I agree with bluesfan that most Poles don't boast about their "great English" at all. Even on this forum there were foreigners writing how irritating it was when Polish girls constantly apologised for their bad English.

One is entitled to criticize one's approach and ability to speak English even if they don't know that one's native language properly.

Again, of course, but criticizing is one thing, and obsessing is a completely different matter and that's what Wlodzimierz is doing - he's obsessing (he's writing about it in every language thread - I'm not joking).

Also, what gets on my nerves is that he accuses others of what he's doing himself.
And what I found simply appalling is the fact that Wlodzimierz was giving wrong answers to people asking Polish language questions on this forum!
My English is much better than his Polish and yet I wouldn't dare to answer English language questions. Wlodzmierz didn't even bother to check the spelling in some online dictionary - that's just mind-blowing for me.

To put it short - he posed as an expert, who knows what he's doing, while he wasn't an expert at all and was "merrily butchering" the Polish language, as he puts it. He isn't even a teacher of Polish.

I don't believe in acquiring language skills only through watching and listening to films.

Well, that's great, Ziemowit, that's called "life". Not everybody can be born an English native speaker, we know that... o_O

Of course, but the question is how you do that. You can do it in a nice way, or you look down on the locals and let them know how lousy their English skills are. If you go for the second option, don't be surprised if you'll get the proper response.

+1

My point is that, at fault at times as my Polish is, is it really any better or worse than the average European-born sinecure professor of English, who makes mistakes no end,

Wlodzimierz, at what age have you started studying Polish on regular basis?

yet is rarely called on these errors owing to a double standard?

What on Earth are you talking about? What "double standard"?

Poland and other countries are loathe to hire educated native-English speakers at all but perhaps the college level because it's simply too expensive.

I call this cutting corners in the wrong places:-)

Then give us money, genius, and we'll be hiring native speakers with great teaching skills right and left at every freaking university and village school :)

What on Earth are you talking about?
You think that French is taught at Polish schools by French native speakers educated at Sorbone? lol

Also, explain to me if you will the logistics of employing native speakers as English teachers in Polish schools.

Indeed lol
Spot on, Magda.

There it is again: the difference between theory and reality... ;)

+1
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

My advice was in fact no more mistaken than half of most foreigners who learned English in their countries and teach it at university!

Wlodzimierz, you make basic mistakes in spelling and grammar in Polish.
I don't know about other countries, but in Poland people who make such mistakes in English don't teach English at universities (from my own experience).

I'm simply more honest about my abilities, that's all.

No, you're not.
People studying Polish were coming to this forum and asking "How should this be written?", etc. and you were giving them wrong answers without even warning them that you aren't a native speaker and that those answers you're giving them may be incorrect! I don't even know how someone can be so irresponsible and arrogant!

Looks like the shoe's on the other foot now, eh Paulina?

What are you talking about, Wlodzimierz? Your behaviour on this forum is some kind of revenge?
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

Your conviction how great your Polish is, for example ;) You were giving all kinds of wrong advice and explanations on this forum to people studying Polish and I had to correct you (other people were doing that too).

You do like to lecture, Wlodzimierz, but I think you should learn more first :P
(That's a friendly advice, btw, I think it's cool that you're studying or were studying Polish :))
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

It wouldn't hurt if you'd listen to other people, for a change, Wlodzimierz :)

Getting on one's nerves often serves the cause of enlightenment.

No, it doesn't. It puts people off. Especially when soemone is as obsessive as you are and can't acknowledge his flaws or mistakes.

But I see it isn't getting anywhere, so I guess we should end this exchange or we'll get on mods' nerves :)
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

Wlodzimierz, I'm saying that you could do well with some self-criticism and a change of attitude yourself. Otherwise you'll just get on people's nerves instead of helping them (if helping others is what you think you're doing or want to be doing).
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

...to communicate both intelligently as well as above all INTELLIGIBLY with native Polish speakers, if you don't mind me telling:-)

What for? Are there many Polish native speakers where you live?

I ended up already knowing about and quoting from Pan Tadeusz, whereas most hadn't as much as a clue who Gilbert & Sullivan were etc.. Frustrating as all hell, you know?

Noone is required to know about "Pan Tadeusz" or Gilbert & Sullivan to talk with someone in Polish or English.
Also, all Poles know about Shakespeare. So, if you want to compare "Pan Tadeusz" with something you would have to compare it with "Hamlet", for example (such is the rank, significance of "Pan Tadusz" to Poles). Gilbert & Sullivan is a niche knowledge for most people on this planet, I suspect.

"Pan Tadusz"

"Pan Tadeusz"
Paulina   
16 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

Btw, when I write about my RP, I don't mean that it's perfect British RP. I was told by a teacher once that my pronunciation is really good, that I sound like the British queen lol (I was watching a lot of BBC World those days) After this I decided to change it, because I didn't want to sound ridiculous and too posh or sth. So I watered it down.

What I mean is that when I say "furthermore", "perfect", "therefore", etc. I say it in the British way, not American way - I'm sure you know what I mean :)

We ain't crazy about Polish aspects either, but, hey, when in Rome......

But you live in the US, right? Why did you decide to learn Polish (if you don't mind me asking)?
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

The sooner others freely admit to their English faults as such, the sooner I'll "relax", as you put it.

It seems everyone does that, except from you. Poles, for example, are often very self-critical about their English to the point of being ashamed to speak it. So, again, I don't understand what's your problem.

By the way, one needn't be "immersed in" foreign languages to want to speak them well.

I haven't wrote that someone who isn't immersed in foreign languages doesn't want to speak them well.
I just have a problem with your attitude.
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

Just curious as to whether or not your 'British' reflects RP (Received Pronunciation, i.e. the English of Her Majesty's) or that of the rank and file Londoner? Or is Aussie in these days?

RP, of course. That's what I was taught at school.

Your English isn't bad, by the way! Oh, there are few sentence structure thingies, but nothing that reading your posts a few times won't cure:-)

I know I make mistakes, grammar has been always my Achilles' heel whenever I've studied a foreign language, I have serious problems with English Tenses, for example. I hate them lol :)
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

Wlodzimierz, I don't understand what's your problem.
For people who aren't immersed in the foreign language by living in a foreign country watching films (or foreign TV in general) is the only way to listen to some everyday language, to practice listening comprehension, enrich their vocabulary in a fun way.

I'm sorry, Wlodzimierz, but you rant and rant all the time how English learners do everything wrong. It's irritating and it makes you look like you're obsessed. Relax.
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

Wlodzimierz, most Polish people have an accent, of course. Sometimes it can hurt your ears :) Some people, who are good at languages, don't have a Polish accent and if those people live in the UK (like my friend) they sound like British people.

However, I disagree with the "w=v" part.
I think I'd notice if most Poles would speak English like Count Dracula ;) Maybe some tiny minority. I even doubt that most Russians speak that way (although I don't really know).

I must admit that I don't really trust your judgment, I hope you don't feel offended :P
I'd prefer if some other native speakers wrote something on this subject. I'm sure there's plenty of English teachers here.
What are your observations, guys? Do Poles say "v" instead of "w"?

Perhaps you too once were guilty of such.

No, I wasn't lol This "w=ł" rule is easy to remember, and you hear "what" all the time in the movies.

First of all, I'm not a liar, thank you very much.
Maybe one day I'll buy some kind of microphone, record myslef and send it to you, if you don't believe me that I don't have a particular Polish accent :)

And I don't have an American accent. I think my English is pretty much accentless, although I do tend to pronounce some words in a British way and other in a American way, so it's a bit of a mess :))
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

Wlodzimierz, first of all, we're not talking about me, but about Polish people and how they pronounce "w" in English.
But if you want to talk about me, then I have "a good ear" in general (for music) and for languages too and pronunciation is usually my favourite part when studying languages :)

I can tell when someone speaks with an accent and I can hear when someone says "v" instead of "w", that's really not a big deal :)

And if you're curious, I don't speak with a Polish accent. You probably could tell that I'm neither British nor American, judging by my pronunciation, or that I'm not a native speaker, because sometimes I may mispronounce usually a word I don't know, but I doubt you could tell where I'm from.

So, people who aren't native speakers of English can also tell whether someone is speaking with an accent when using English or not. You don't have to be a native speaker of English to do that :)

You have only to trust the ears of a foreigner who's heard Poles (miss-)pronoucning English for years.

Well, so I'm asking what this "(miss-)pronoucning" of "w" looked like exactly?
Was it like ""Vere is my vife, I vant her to have a vok vith me in de park"? :)
Every single "w" was mispronounced?

Part of Anglophone dialect comedy concerns Poles confusing the "W" of "will" with the "V" of "vote etc....

What are you talking about? What Anglophone dialect comedy?
Paulina   
15 Jan 2014
UK, Ireland / Polish vs Irish stereotypes from a Polish girl in Ireland [22]

She seems like a nice and objective person and since I've never been to Ireland I found her observations interesting (and funny because of the way she's talking about it) :) It isn't some in depth analysis but since it's usually the expats in Poland sharing their observations on this forum, I thought I'll post it:

youtube.com/watch?v=nmfJX8q8j0o

Btw, she has a Polish accent, but it sounds like she's getting an Irish one too, don't you think? lol :)
Paulina   
14 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

More simply put, you SEE the letter, but you instinctively pronounce the sound or grapheme "phonetically", i.e. as you THINK the sound(s) should be spoken because you still hear them in your native tongue. This is what is meant by having a 'foreign accent':-)

OK, so you mean when someone sees "what" but says "vot" because "w" in Polish is "v", yes? ;)

Well, Wlodzimierz, don't tell me that plenty of Polish people say sth like this: "Vere is my vife, I vant her to have a vok vith me in de park" :))

Especially young people - I don't buy that ;)

Some people might not be sure of the fact that "w" is always pronaunced as "ł" but absolutely no Pole would confuse it in the word "what" because it's very basic word.

Yeah, I agree with that. That would rarely happen, if at all.
Paulina   
14 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

I've heard Poles frequently confuse the "w" sound for a "v"

Well, I don't think I have... Maybe I simply wasn't paying too much attention to this, but that's one of the things that helps me tell whether someone who's speaking English with an accent is Polish or Russian - this Russian "vot do you vont" :)

To be honest, I don't understand what you're talking about ;)
Paulina   
14 Jan 2014
Language / Extremely Hard - Polish the hardest language to learn [226]

Wlodzimierz, I'm not sure what you mean, but I think what Wulkan meant was that English "w" is pronounced like Polish "ł".

Russians don't have "ł" sound, only soft "l". Germans don't have "ł" at all, I guess.
So when you hear, for example, an American actor or actress, let's say, talking with what he or she thinks is a "Polish accent" he or she most often sounds like a Russian talking English, saying this "vot".

From my experience Poles say "łot", not "vot".
Paulina   
12 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

Noticed that polish women never say "I love you" "thank you", "please" or absolutely never say "sorry" too people within their family.

Total bull$hit lol

In contrast I find polish lady tend to put on an act totally removed from their true self.

I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about o_O
Paulina   
12 Jan 2014
Life / Do Poles have a problem understanding American English? [76]

Yes, for example, I have difficulties with understanding the Cajun accent.

I've been trained to use British English too since high school but that was the British queen's English (I was even told by one teacher at one point that I talk like her lol). But that's not how normal people talk in the UK, apparently. So it's so much easier for me to understand American English.

And Monitor is right - it's thanks to the American films on Polish TV.

I quite often find it difficult to understand foreign, non-English speakers speaking English if they speak with their own, (too) national accent.

Yes, me too. But I guess it depends how often you hear it. If you hear it often enough you learn to understand it, I think.

Specifically, do they think Americans speak too fast?

No, Americans usually speak more slowly and clearly, than the British, for example.
Not always, though - I remember watching "Gilmore Girls" in original and Lorelai and Rory could speak really fast when they were talking with each other and throwing some cultural references in and sometimes I had problems with understanding them.

So, who knows, maybe you're one of such fast talkers :)
Paulina   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Just to be clear though, the person I am talking about is single but has a girlfriend/partner

I don't understand... If he has a girlfriend/partner, then it means he isn't single. I thought the term "single" is used in English both for people who are not married and don't have a bf or gf? Because that's the way it's used in Poland...
Paulina   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

I don't know about the men, but it's common for Polish women to cheat.

Oh, but that would mean that our dear expats from this forum are most probably cheated on by their Polish wives :))

I have friends who dated Polish women and some of them have also reported the same thing happening.

I see foreigners attract a certain type of Polish women lol (gold diggers, for example)

I think that there is definitely different values here.

OK, I have enough of this.

Listen, people, my mum worked with British men and Japanese men here in Poland (only men, they didn't send any women).
And she was telling me stuff, obviously.
British men, although married and with kids, were cheating on their British wives with Polish women. Some even divorced their wives and married those Polish girls. I've even studied with one of those girls! (eewww...)

And Japanese men... woah... Even the British men were telling me how they were cheating on their wives (and those British guys had the nerve to ask me not to tell my mum about this lol).

If this is based on revenge, then why cheat on non-Polish men?

Because all men are the same? lol
(just kidding)
McDouche, I hate to burst your bubble but I had a look at Polish and British surveys on infidelity and the figures are similar. As probably in many other countries. I've read American men are reluctant to cheat because divorce in your country is costly lol, but still:

More than half of Americans - 54% - know someone who has an unfaithful spouse, according to a nationwide USA TODAY/Gallup Poll of 1,025 adults.

surveys in the UK and the U.S. suggest that between 25 and 70 per cent of women - and 40 and 80 per cent of men - have engaged in at least one extramarital sexual encounter.

About Poland:

As for Polish women, I can tell you that, no, they don't have some kind of "different values". Cheating is a big "no no", not only among religious women but also among completely anticlerical ones. Of course not for everyone, I knew one girl who flirted with other guy, although she had a bf. I don't know about men, I'm not a part of their inner circle but I haven't noticed any flirting among married people at work. Only among singles. But maybe that's because I live apparently in one of the most faithful regions of Poland lol (according to the survey, at least). The only thing I know (but only from gossips at work) is that men at higher positions were sometimes using "the services" of call girls in the evenings (working late hours, huh, guys... yeah lol).
Paulina   
5 Jan 2014
Love / Polish cities with most single young women [11]

maybe these ladies want to experience their own "Sex and the city" ;)

Plenty of people are moving to Warsaw, because jobs are there and higher wages. People go there to study at the university (hence so many young women). It's the capital and the biggest Polish city.

Those single women are often well educated and successful. So I guess they want career first and children later.

I did think of posting a link here for your benefit. Then I remembered that you don't click on them.

Stop the bull$hit, szczecinianin. The world doesn't revolve around me and you know it lol (and I do click on links).
You should always give the source of your information on your blog if there's a link available. That's the right and honest thing to do.

And why "singles" on your blog and only "women" in the title of this thread on PF?