You can't deny your heritage,
I don't even know what "heritage" is. So for now, the only fact I don't deny is where I was born - by accident, not choice - and that the first language I learned was Polish rather than American. That's it. The first chance I had, I corrected what was correctable. No, I don't hate Poland or the Poles. It's just a matter of compatibility.
And yet here is is, most days, posting on a.Polish forum.
99% in English and on the subjects that have nothing to do with Poland. In fact, posting in Polish is harder than I expected. That's how P2E google translator became my friend.