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My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ?


tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
17 Aug 2008 /  #211
Ill keep an eye out for that show sounds pretty interesting.

yeah its on BBC 2, i think it's on wednesday or tuesday at 9pm i'm not sure though as i usually watch it on the IPlayer.
bohobabe - | 39  
18 Aug 2008 /  #212
tornado2007 , Poor Edward

hahah you two had a interesting conversation after i left lol
Have fun ;)
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
18 Aug 2008 /  #213
we we continued on late into the night with the banta and other items of fun :) You left the party early :)
bohobabe - | 39  
18 Aug 2008 /  #214
lol yeah i had too be up early this morning but im so dissappointed i missed the party lol ;)
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
20 Aug 2008 /  #215
dnz
Aug 16, 08, 11:42 Report #182

Just leave him and let him do what he wants, He's obviously a complete tosser and really not worth the time of day. If he is like the majority of poles and racist I can't see this whole thing lasting long

He has been nice and we have been getting on better then normal
and lukasz is not a racist and we are going ok
polishgirltx  
20 Aug 2008 /  #216
you didn't dump him yet? lol
Danny 2 | 91  
20 Aug 2008 /  #217
Well, we can't control emotions - only our actions. If he acts on his like for the neighbour, kick his ass to next Thursday!! If not, make the f*cker sing for his supper anyway for the rest of your relationship, just for having impure thoughts! But you're either the Queen of his world or not. I would say not so...
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
20 Aug 2008 /  #218
polishgirltx
Today, 15:10 Report #216

you didn't dump him yet? lol

Im still with him
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
20 Aug 2008 /  #219
is he still after the other girl?
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
20 Aug 2008 /  #220
now thats the question to ask!!! Good one, what has he said about that??? i'm guessing he's told you he loves you (i'm not going to comment on that) but what has he said about the girl he fancies (Or probably tell you he dosen't fancy anymore)???

Its an akward question but somebody had to spell it out :)
LCzachor 6 | 68  
20 Aug 2008 /  #221
Damn... His name is £ukasz???? I hate when people don't honour their names... I'm Lucas :((((((( But when I have ONE gf, i don't fancy others haha

Tell him to change his name:D
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
21 Aug 2008 /  #222
He hasnt mentioned her although if shes out when we are going out he will say hi or go over and talk too her but we are ok now.

Yes he is called Lukasz too his name means light i think
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
21 Aug 2008 /  #223
umm_hottie

hottie you seem like a very loyal and sensitive person, and now we can all see that you are a very attractive girl as well, so if he ever does it to you again you should just leave him because life is too short for guys who struggle with resisting another woman even though they have a beautiful, faithful and loving lady at their side. you deserve to be appreciated and loved, and above all you deserve respect so you gotta make it clear to him that this Pakistani girl has to be the last female he tries to chat up and ask out on a date in front of you because you do not want to be humiliated and hurt like this ever again. best thing you could've done was to walk away from him and see if he comes running after you, then you would be 100% sure whether he was just having a bit of a confidence breakdown and checking if he's still got 'it' to pull another girl, or if he's not as involved in your relationship as much as you are and he's trying to replace you asap. you can't just let him off the hook for this, this has to be a one off. don't want you coming back here again after a few weeks/months with the same problem, just a different girl involved.

sorry for the rant, i feel for you cos i've been in a similar situation before, but the guy got dumped and he was pleading and begging at my door to forgive him. result ha ha.
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
21 Aug 2008 /  #224
you can't just let him off the hook for this, this has to be a one off. don't want you coming back here again after a few weeks/months with the same problem, just a different girl involved

thanks thats really nice what you said about me and i stood up for my self and
I did have a talk too him and i asked him where he see's him self in the future and who he see's him self with and then I told him unless he can give me a reason too stay im leaving an he told me too stay and that he is going too change and things will get better and it has been a week and things have been good im going to give him another chance so he can prove him self hopefully he will.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
21 Aug 2008 /  #225
I told him unless he can give me a reason too stay im leaving an he told me too stay and that he is going too change and things will get better

make sure he sticks to it now lol, you can never be too careful so enjoy being with him but also don't let the love blind you. if he really meant what he said you should be ok!
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
21 Aug 2008 /  #226
Lucas

quality name, i would rather be called Lucas than Lukasz :)

He hasnt mentioned her although if shes out when we are going out he will say hi or go over and talk too her but we are ok now.

well like Justysia i wish you the best of luck, hope it all works out for you :)
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
21 Aug 2008 /  #227
LCzachor:
Lucas

quality name, i would rather be called Lucas than Lukasz :)

Arent they both the same when pronounced well it sounds like that too me when i say his name lol
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
21 Aug 2008 /  #228
no no no, Lucas (Brazilian) sounds just as its spelt (Lucas) where as the Polish one sounds different, they are spelt different and are pronounced different :). Although to be honest there is not much of a difference.

Being an avid football fan (In your language, Soccer) lol, I'm in love with all things Brazilan :):):) Plus the names are easier to pronounce than all the Polish ones, heheh.
Vincent 9 | 837   Moderator
21 Aug 2008 /  #229
where as the Polish one sounds different

yes i think it is pronounced like woo-cash...at least that's how my friend's name is.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
21 Aug 2008 /  #230
kind of i guess, i thought it was something like loo-cash, although we all hear different things :)
Vincent 9 | 837   Moderator
21 Aug 2008 /  #231
The L has a stroke through it ...making it sound like a W
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
21 Aug 2008 /  #232
ok jose, thanks, dam thats the wrong thing to say to a spurs fan :)
Vincent 9 | 837   Moderator
21 Aug 2008 /  #233
haha....good one:)
LCzachor 6 | 68  
21 Aug 2008 /  #234
Yes he is called Lukasz too his name means light i think

It means enlighted, blessed...

Arent they both the same when pronounced well it sounds like that too me when i say his name lol

£ukasz is different from Lucas...
Pronounce £ukasz as it is :P Lucas in portuguese sounds like Lukas! Just like Lukas bank :))))
irishdeano 5 | 304  
22 Aug 2008 /  #235
if it all goes wrong umm_hottie i will come and see you :P
Michal - | 1,865  
24 Aug 2008 /  #236
Some Indian and Pakistani girls can be very attractive. I went to the dentist on Friday and one of the receptionists was a young Pakistani lady and God, she was very attractive indeed. I think in the case of the Poles, they are used to being controlled under communism and the Roman Catholic Church. They are like children, English women's heads were turned in England in the war by American GI's who had everything. I certainly would not beg for him to come back to me, tel him to sod off!! Poland has a squeaky clean image because of the Catholic Church but underneath all of this, they are just as randy as any other European including the priests themselves! Your boyfriend will grow up in time and in any case, the Pakistani girl is more or less bound to be promised to someone already in an arranged marriage..
bohobabe - | 39  
24 Aug 2008 /  #237
Michal
Today, 14:03 Report #236

Some Indian and Pakistani girls can be very attractive. I went to the dentist on Friday and one of the receptionists was a young Pakistani lady and God, she was very attractive indeed.

i agree it was my 20th on friday and i had some family over from my dads side too celebrate and there was this one girl very stunning she had a tanned face big brown eyes and rosy cheeks and full lips she had very model like look about her some very pretty pakistani girls outhere.

Poland has a squeaky clean image because of the Catholic Church but underneath all of this, they are just as randy as any other European including the priests themselves!

lol thats all men , most just live for beer,sports,women and getting laid.
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
25 Aug 2008 /  #238
if it all goes wrong umm_hottie i will come and see you :P

lol ok awesome

i agree it was my 20th on friday

Happy birthday i passed my theory test on friday just gone when was your bday

Your boyfriend will grow up in time and in any case, the Pakistani girl is more or less bound to be promised to someone already in an arranged marriage..

Thanks michal we have been at are best recently but he is planning too go too poland in the next week if he can get a ticket , so il have some home alone time well with the guys too but i might stay at my moms which should be good since i havent been over too stay for a long time
Filios1 8 | 1,336  
25 Aug 2008 /  #240
beer,sports,women and getting laid.

Well said.

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