My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ?

Yeah are neighbour is very pretty too i know that and im not about to lie and say shes ugly because shes not.

I just wished it was me he wanted that way

You cannot let him walk over you. He may test his limits which may cause more hurt. I just can't believe he's let you know that he likes her. In my opinion you should keep on the lookout for another guy, keep your options open. Once you've found a decent guy, and there are loads, then get rid of the one you currently have. He's not boyfriend material. There are really decent guys about but also be wary of the bad ones as there are just as much bastards. You should be happy in your relationship. You obviously aren't, move on.

I know whats hes doing is wrong i just guess we have been together a long time i just need to make sure im sure i want this before i chuck it away.

I know good people exist and when im ready ill search

he?
i think you both are fukced up....he plays you and you take it... grow up and stand on your feet.... the relation with your family can be rebuild so no whining here... stop putting stupid thoughts in your head and start doing something for yourself... it's not a first guy in your life who's gonna screw you so get over it.....suck it up and grow up, it's about time...

You know i appreciate your advice but theres no reason to be rude like jeez i dont swear and call people ****** up so i think its rude that you are doing that

i'm not calling you names sweetie...it's a fact... it's the reality... you've got excited because torando pet you in a back and said that in soft words....but you need a wake up call....some self respect would help here too...

No im not excited all i wanted was advice not people being mean and rude i dont speak to you or any others like that and i appreaciate you do the same.Thats all im trying to say

yep....the waste of time...

Whatever, be like that but im not going to your level

my level is pretty high so i would not recommend it to you... but you have to admit that you need to wake up and start thinking and living on your own...

The best advice available is short and simple. Don't take crap and consider other options. Your current relationship is doomed. Go out and start getting involved with other men. Find a decent guy and give your current boyfriend the two-fingered salute. He'd probably do it to you. If that Pakistani girl asked him out I bet you that he would go in a flash. Be the first to **** him off.

Ask yourself what you want out of life. You can love someone but that does not mean you are ment to be together. The thing I figured out is if I am in pain in a relation it is not a good relation.

Stop being a victom and take care of yourself.

Your probably all right i guess i just been a coward for too long and was stolked and and amped on are relationship because i honestly belived we were made for one another.

i guess somethings arent meant to be no matter how much you want them to be.

lol, hang on just one second, i don't think my words were soft, i just didn't 'f' and blind all over the show, i save that for when i'm really mad, hehe.

I think i told her in the best way possible but you obviously don't agree.


yes you do have a good level, i just hope the air up there is not to thin so you can't breathe properly :):)


agreed


spot on!!


forget all that meant to be rubbish, isn't that what got you into this mess in the first place??? take life as it comes, if you need to flex and adapt along the way then do it :)

you were almost suffocated when i saw you there last time...lol

beside, i do not recall posting on PF last night...

hahahaahahaha :):)


oh deary dear, did that have something to do with a bottle with a percentage stamp on it :)???

If you are a doormat now he will walk all over you the rest of your relation.

Grow some balls.

You need not worry too much about it. Just let one of your bf's friend stay with her in the same room and believe me if his nose is even slightly sensitive, he'll have to be pretty good in holding his breathe as most of them stinks no offence :)

Does she wear bra and panties?

I didnt have the time to read all replies so I may be repeating what someone already said above.

Dump him, either he appreciates YOU or he is not worth it. Don't put yourself down.

What he is doing is totally wrong... try to talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel. If he loves you, I am sure he'll stop going after her. If he still continues even after you have talked to him, then you should just end it..

Thanks for all your comments guys
You have all helped alot
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Are you still with him?

yes i am

Are things better or is he still sniffing after the paki next door?

Things are ok and he is has just been hanging out with the guys over the weekend

oh and shellys thanks for saying what you said on the the other thread thats really sweet your a pretty awesomeperson your self :)

Polish girl isnt rude, she just doesnt bull s#it, shes a straight talker and long may she reign in the forum. :)

For some reason I am getting hungry reading this thread. Dhansak or maybe a Pasanda because its late ?

Yeah thats great edward but theres straight talking and being polite and then theres straight talking and being rude
and yeah i felt like the way she was expressing her self to me was rude

szkotja2007: what is dhansak and pasanda ??

Well lets agree to disagree, I dont believe in beating around the bush and if it involves throwing a few f's into someone, well then.....